Your Mom's Thigh Bands
Ines Yes.. but she is a girl too.
Ever considered that your set of values (all girls equal, men different set of rules) does not automatically apply to the rest of the world? In many relationships who is dominant and who submits to that autority is not determined automatically by gender but based on the individual preferences of the 2 people involved - and it might well turn out that the dynamics are exactly reversed from what you know and prefer.
And with gay relationships there is obviously no automatism based on gender possible but it is always determined by what both sides like.
curious Ever considered that your set of values (all girls equal, men different set of rules) does not automatically apply to the rest of the world? I
please, @Ines has her values, i have mine and you have yours. we shouldn't play them off against each other. we live in a society where women have more opportunities than ever before, but that doesn't mean that women always have to use them. some women want to be protected or controlled by their men. be respectful and accept different ways of life.
Exactly my point.
I do not understand why she always feels compelled to push her preferences into a discussion which is not about herself or her relationship. If I know my opinion deviates from what the wider society considers "normal", I fight for my right to live according to my values but I do not try to push these values onto everyone else.
And that´s is why I put forward that question to her, because I wanted to point that out.
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curious I just observed that Ines always puts forward her ideas
Next time, I will put your ideas, I just observed that other ideas bother you. 
Do you know that Maija and her girlfriend are of same Church? Do you even know values of that congregation for girls?
No.
curious If I know my opinion deviates from what the wider society considers "normal"
Rest of us think that our ideas are mainstream! . Thankfully we have you to enlighten us!
curious but I do not try to push these values onto everyone else.
Aha... you are trying to do it even in the mere discussion, but you say that I am trying to do it...
curious why she always feels compelled to push her preferences into a discussion
Because I do not want push your preferences. 
and, in the same sense, I do not know because you are always compelled to correct to everyone here. I have warned you about your attempts of cut freedom of opinion of users.
Ines well, she is. But even though she doesn't like being locked, she likes to take control over me (and I like it too). My father and Anna are actually working out some details about her keyholding my bra and thighband padlock when no family members are around (this would enable me to have the chain, currently I have to wear the padlock since no-one would be there to lock and unlock it)