Your Mom's Thigh Bands

mimikatz

Ines but if you notice the bands at 8yo you may not know these ancient underwear but you must know handcuffs.

Ines

It is pretty common in films, even animation, comics, cartoon...
I can not say you, exactly "why" but I never thought about restrictions.
In fact if a woman behaves inside the limits of good manners for women, bands, (with an acceptable chain length), are not very restrictive.

Angelina

mimikatz but if you notice the bands at 8yo you may not know these ancient underwear but you must know handcuffs.

yes, I agree with you here. i think if i as an 8 year old girl, whether accidentally or on purpose, would have discovered my mother's thigh bands, then the first question in my head would be: "why are mom's legs tied up?" . a girl that age doesn't think far enough to see it as normal in any way.

a_father

Ines One more thing..
Lets make a thought experiment. Imagine your older sister manages to masturbate by stimulating her breasts an she is caught by your parents. They decide, she has to wear a chastity bra aditionally. They decide, the new gold standard of 'protection' in your family is a chastity belt + bra. You refuse to wear the bra (you don't like it, you told this in the past) and because of this you lose your 'privilegs'. In my opinion your younger sister is in this situation now. I'm sure you disagree but I can't change your mind an you can't change mine.

Ines

a_father Imagine your older sister manages to masturbate by stimulating her breasts an she is caught by your parents. They decide, she has to wear a chastity bra aditionally. They decide, the new gold standard of 'protection' in your family is a chastity belt + bra.

I call to the Men in Black, because some aliens are faking be my parents. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂
My story is very plain, even boring...

a_father They decide, the new gold standard of 'protection' in your family is a chastity belt + bra.

It is absolutely impossible, but I will do the effort.
This would not happen before a negotiation, and obviously ,and I said it a lot of times, in this case, wearing a bra could bring more privileges, but do not wear it do not take away anything of current situation.

a_father I'm sure you disagree but I can't change your mind an you can't change mine.

I know, but at least currently we can talk politely, and that is great.

Angelina

a_father In my opinion your younger sister is in this situation now.

no, because the sister does not lose any previous privileges, but can gain new ones when she wears the belt. but i agree that your example shows the problem when we say "all girls should have the same rules".

Mr-TM

@a_father

I'll try to give an example, but I don't know if it applies to @Ines's sister.

Ines's sister wants to go to a party. A real party with women and men and probably enough alcohol. Situation now: she is not allowed to go, because it is too dangerous to make a wrong decision.
Situation with cb: she is allowed to go because she is protected.

@Ines please correct me if what I wrote misses the point of cb carrying in your family.

Ines

Mr-TM

She could attend anyway, but for sure, It is not so much the fact that she could not go, which she surely could, as the fact of the schedule or the obligation to sleep at home.
For example, I could say "the party is close to my friend Sofia's house, I will sleep over at her house" and she, for sure, will not.

Yolanda

When I saw them for first time, my sister's ones, they looked as shackles.

Rina

Maija thighbands aren't restraints

Maybe. Thighbands a lot look like and what it does is basically restricting the movement so I guess it falls under restraints. However on the other hand it also prevents wearer from trying to cheat the belt, so...

Maija They are simply something that a proper lady must wear

If I get to wear thighbands I guess it would help me understand proper behavior so my behavior will help me "pass", but many of my hobbies especially cosplay stops me from wearing it. (Like most of characters I cosplay tend to have short skirts...)

Maija but so do mini skirts and high heels

I tend to prefer long skirts, maybe because I just prefer something look modest. I generally don't like high level of exposures.

Maija I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.

Would you be keep wearing it after you get married?

Maija

Rina I tend to prefer long skirts, maybe because I just prefer something look modest. I generally don't like high level of exposures.

I want specifically referring to you

Rina Would you be keep wearing it after you get married?

Anna has stated she will expect that, yes

Joh

Maija Anna has stated she will expect that, yes

Does it mean If you continue your relation with Anna you are going to wear CB and thigh bands most time?

Maija

Joh yes 😬😀😊

Ines

Maija

And she?

Angelina

Maija yes 😬😀😊

a brave step, my respect for it, but i wonder why? as far as i know she is not voluntarily chaste herself either, so i don't understand why she suggested it (and also why you agree)?

Maija

Ines No, we don't think it would be wise. But we have observed that we both like when I submit to her, and she likes the control.

Joh

Angelina as far as i know she is not voluntarily chaste herself either, so i don't understand why she suggested it (and also why you agree)?

As far as I can tell from her postings, she is convinced it is good for her and her relationship.

Joh

Maija If both of you think it is the right thing to do why should it not wise?
It is the right decision as long as both agree with it and feel happy.

Angelina

Maija

i'm still puzzled. your girlfriend isn't a volunteer in the belt, is she? and with you, it fluctuates a bit, even though you claim to be a volunteer most of the time. so how did you come up with the idea and how exactly do you envision it, i.e. regarding breaks, which devices, etc?

Ines

Maija and she likes the control.

Yes.. but she is a girl too.

Ines

@Bryan ,

Maija No, we don't think it would be wise. But we have observed that we both like when I submit to her, and she likes the control.

Joh

Ines but she is a girl too.

And.... ? Expand your vision.

curious

Ines Yes.. but she is a girl too.

Ever considered that your set of values (all girls equal, men different set of rules) does not automatically apply to the rest of the world? In many relationships who is dominant and who submits to that autority is not determined automatically by gender but based on the individual preferences of the 2 people involved - and it might well turn out that the dynamics are exactly reversed from what you know and prefer.
And with gay relationships there is obviously no automatism based on gender possible but it is always determined by what both sides like.

Maija

Ines well, she is. But even though she doesn't like being locked, she likes to take control over me (and I like it too). My father and Anna are actually working out some details about her keyholding my bra and thighband padlock when no family members are around (this would enable me to have the chain, currently I have to wear the padlock since no-one would be there to lock and unlock it)

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