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Angelina what if your father's and daniel's instructions contradict each other. who do you have to listen to then? i know you have written several times that the two of them try to agree, but there are certainly things where they have completely different opinions, aren't there?
Not much. My fathers and Daniels values are not the same but compatible. My father mostly takes care that I stay belted and orgasm free until marriage. Anything else is managed by Daniel to his satisfaction. At least almost anything. If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
Joh From what you have told us, trust is not a part of your father's vocabulary
If it comes to my chastity equipment trust has never bin a factor and will never be. This is not a new insight. That's how it is and I accept this, because I would be in a similar situation for Daniel anyway.
Sara2001 At least almost anything. If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
OK and thank you for the detail information.
Sara2001 because I would be in a similar situation for Daniel anyway.
I had also commented on this in this context. I just wonder if the responsibility is handed over at the latest when you get married.
Joh Correct. And now we coming their to find the right goal which make sense to fight for.
i agree with you, i sometimes think that we don't think so differently about the subject of chastity belts, only in the parts we are different
Sara2001 If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
who sets additional boundaries? your father or daniel?
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Angelina i agree with you, i sometimes think that we don't think so differently about the subject of chastity belts, only in the parts we are different
After all the discussion and explanation we see clear what is and where it will go. I was never against chastity if it a free decision. To get e better understanding I asked the critical question. @Sara2001 and your answered became clearer and more distinct over time which placed me at easy to agree it looks good.
That being said, only the future will tell where you are headed and how happy you will be.
Angelina who sets additional boundaries? your father or daniel?
I understood it to be her father's decision.
Angelina who sets additional boundaries? your father or daniel?
Daniel is normally stricter then my father, but if there is a situation where my father is stricter, Daniel takes his additional boundaries into account. But normally it's only about my chastity equipment, like that he doesn't want me to be without the chain between my tightbands while Daniel would love to do some hiking with me.
Sara2001 From his point of view, I don't have to lie to him this way, too.
Logical,but he may understand it would be more important for you to not lie to your fiancé.
Right.
Sara2001 Not much. My fathers and Daniels values are not the same but compatible. My father mostly takes care that I stay belted and orgasm free until marriage. Anything else is managed by Daniel to his satisfaction. At least almost anything. If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
I guess,until marriage,your father rules would be priority,and after marriage,it would be your husband's rules,right?
Vanessa Not surprising;same for advices or suggestions?
After marriage I want to completely submit to Daniel in any aspect of my life, yes. Not because I am forced into it, but because this is what I truly want and I know what I am doing and what I can expect and that if I ever become unhappy, be will be the first one who demands a change to the better. Trust is the key!!!
