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Vanessa Because he may know you don't want to lie to your fiancé about it.
From his point of view, I don't have to lie to him this way, too.
He trusts him, he believes me that I want all this and that I would not do anything like this just for Daniel, but he still thinks that prevention is the best option.
Joh Did Daniel and you agree to follow your father's rules or do you accept it because you don't want to face the consequences?
I feel that I have answered this question a thousand times before 
We don't fight against my fathers rules because it is not worth it. Of course we would prefer if Daniel had the key to my belt, but beside this, not much would change.
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Sara2001 I feel that I have answered this question a thousand times before
Sorry, not really.
Sara2001 We don't fight against my fathers rules because it is not worth it.
From what you have told us, trust is not a part of your father's vocabulary. The way it looks to me, he wants to have everything under control.
What all parents need to learn is to let go of their children so they can build and live their own lives. Do you think he can do that and not interfere with you?
My previous question was aimed exactly at that. In order to live your own life, you have to make your own decisions and not be patronized by your parents. This does not mean that you should have no contact with each other. But it is a huge difference if I ask my parents for advice and then decide what I do or if they tell me what to do and what not to do.
A general knowledge from parenthood is: if you want to keep someone, let him go.
Sara2001 but beside this, not much would change.
Exactly. Nothing would change, so why he insist to control you both?
As I wrote in another topic. I try to bring up a new view. It is on you to decide nobody else.
Sara2001 We don't fight against my fathers rules because it is not worth it. Of course we would prefer if Daniel had the key to my belt, but beside this, not much would change.
what if your father's and daniel's instructions contradict each other. who do you have to listen to then? i know you have written several times that the two of them try to agree, but there are certainly things where they have completely different opinions, aren't there?
Joh As I wrote in another topic. I try to bring up a new view. It is on you to decide nobody else.
that's ok too, but most of the time you are just describing the problems and what solutions should ideally look like, but sometimes a compromise is the better option. 
Angelina what if your father's and daniel's instructions contradict each other. who do you have to listen to then? i know you have written several times that the two of them try to agree, but there are certainly things where they have completely different opinions, aren't there?
Not much. My fathers and Daniels values are not the same but compatible. My father mostly takes care that I stay belted and orgasm free until marriage. Anything else is managed by Daniel to his satisfaction. At least almost anything. If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
Joh From what you have told us, trust is not a part of your father's vocabulary
If it comes to my chastity equipment trust has never bin a factor and will never be. This is not a new insight. That's how it is and I accept this, because I would be in a similar situation for Daniel anyway.
Sara2001 At least almost anything. If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
OK and thank you for the detail information.
Sara2001 because I would be in a similar situation for Daniel anyway.
I had also commented on this in this context. I just wonder if the responsibility is handed over at the latest when you get married.
Joh Correct. And now we coming their to find the right goal which make sense to fight for.
i agree with you, i sometimes think that we don't think so differently about the subject of chastity belts, only in the parts we are different
Sara2001 If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
who sets additional boundaries? your father or daniel?
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Angelina i agree with you, i sometimes think that we don't think so differently about the subject of chastity belts, only in the parts we are different
After all the discussion and explanation we see clear what is and where it will go. I was never against chastity if it a free decision. To get e better understanding I asked the critical question. @Sara2001 and your answered became clearer and more distinct over time which placed me at easy to agree it looks good.
That being said, only the future will tell where you are headed and how happy you will be.
Angelina who sets additional boundaries? your father or daniel?
I understood it to be her father's decision.
Angelina who sets additional boundaries? your father or daniel?
Daniel is normally stricter then my father, but if there is a situation where my father is stricter, Daniel takes his additional boundaries into account. But normally it's only about my chastity equipment, like that he doesn't want me to be without the chain between my tightbands while Daniel would love to do some hiking with me.
Sara2001 From his point of view, I don't have to lie to him this way, too.
Logical,but he may understand it would be more important for you to not lie to your fiancé.
Right.
Sara2001 Not much. My fathers and Daniels values are not the same but compatible. My father mostly takes care that I stay belted and orgasm free until marriage. Anything else is managed by Daniel to his satisfaction. At least almost anything. If he sets additional boundaries, we accept them.
I guess,until marriage,your father rules would be priority,and after marriage,it would be your husband's rules,right?