Vanessa I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.

that's the interesting thing, it could of course be intended more as a toy for men, but of course some might also think that the bra can also be used by men for serious use. no distinction is made on the website

Vanessa Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!😉

not every man is a Scottish 😂

Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

right, that's similar how I feel too

    Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

    In my case, I feel exactly the opposite. I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

      Vanessa So,pretty happy it works for you?

      If you mean breast stimulation, then no! The fact that I am sensitive where 50% of other men are not, just makes it more difficult for me to achieve what, on paper, seems like such a simple idea: chastity!

      Chastity. See? One word. It shouldn't be difficult!

      Wanna be 100% faithful to my wife... not even look at another woman! Wanna save a lot of time! Want to feel driven to achieve and yet be in absolute control of myself.

      One word: Chastity.

      Chastity. Chastity. Chastity.

      Gah! I would indeed wear some form of chastity bra ....if that's what's required to achieve my goal!! 😂

        Ines I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

        Its funny Ines, that you and I are so different and yet feel so very much the same. Except in my case I have already given my womanhood to my partner and I like to keep it safe and secure for her. It is only ever "used" with her knowledge. The belt and thigh bands are merely tools of that security and somehow increase its value even more.

        Jonas Gah! I would indeed wear some form of chastity bra ....if that's what's required to achieve my goal!! 😂

        if it makes you happy and is also suitable for men to wear permanently, no one here will stop you, but support you 🙂

        Ines In my case, I feel exactly the opposite. I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

        @Vanessa and I don't disagree with you, besides it would be news to me that you wear a chastity bra. 😃

          Angelina if it makes you happy and is also suitable for men to wear permanently, no one here will stop you, but support you

          What a lovely positive comment, thanks Angelina! I don't know if it's necessary or even possible right now, but time will tell, and I'll be sure to report back here. 😃

            Jonas What a lovely positive comment, thanks Angelina! I don't know if it's necessary or even possible right now, but time will tell, and I'll be sure to report back here. 😃

            you can have my bra, the cups are not that big either 😂

            no seriously, you seem like a nice man and i think you will have mostly positive things coming your way 🙂

              Angelina you can have my bra, the cups are not that big either 😂

              😂 🤣

              no seriously, you seem like a nice man and i think you will have mostly positive things coming your way

              Yes!! Hooray! 😄

              Wait, ...hold on... mostly positive?! Now I'm scared!! I was shooting for 100% positive!!

                Jonas Wait, ...hold on... mostly positive?! Now I'm scared!! I was shooting for 100% positive!!

                by this i mean that your decision for chastity has many positive aspects, but of course you have to consider the frutration it can have as well. 😉

                  Angelina you have to consider the frutration it can have as well.

                  Yes, indeed! ...though I try to be tough with myself about frustration... I mean it's not actual pain is it? 😅

                  It can be intense and maddening and exasperating and annoying but, you know, it all goes to make me feel alive and, most importantly, it keeps me focused on my relationship.

                    Angelina of course some might also think that the bra can also be used by men for serious use. no distinction is made on the website

                    Yes,even if many customers of My-Steel would think it is useless,I think.

                    Angelina not every man is a Scottish 😂

                    Yes,but it can be a good reason to wear a sort of skirt!😉

                    Angelina right, that's similar how I feel too

                    Classical with the chastity bra,it seems.

                    Ines

                    But you don't wear a chastity bra,right?

                    Jonas If you mean breast stimulation, then no!

                    No,I meant that chastity works for you as you wanted.

                    Angelina you can have my bra, the cups are not that big either 😂

                    🤣

                      Vanessa But you don't wear a chastity bra,right?

                      No.... Keep it far of me. Even farther.... Thanks. 😅

                        Vanessa No,I meant that chastity works for you as you wanted.

                        Ah, I see! Yeah, for me, chastity is a good thing. It makes me happier, more productive and more attentive to my partner. I'm learning use the frustration to power an increasingly active life.

                          Jonas I mean it's not actual pain is it? 😅

                          no, but it's like not smoking for smokers. no real pain, more like phantom pain. 😉

                          Vanessa Yes,even if many customers of My-Steel would think it is useless,I think.

                          probably yes

                          Vanessa Yes,but it can be a good reason to wear a sort of skirt!😉

                          😂 hihi

                          Ines No.... Keep it far of me. Even farther.... Thanks. 😅

                          for having a deep connection to the belt, you have quite an aversion to the bra 😉

                            Vanessa As it is very hard emotionally,it can be understandable.

                            i understand it, but the contrasts are amazing 😉

                            Angelina did she find it very strange that you wear a chastity bra?

                            yes but with explaining she gets it kind off

                            Angelina to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts? I am amazed

                            i don't wear it at day time or im am home never in public
                            so at home I wear a coverall

                            Jonas Ah, I see! Yeah, for me, chastity is a good thing. It makes me happier, more productive and more attentive to my partner. I'm learning use the frustration to power an increasingly active life.

                            im actually quiet interested how you like it after 6 months

                              dylan so at home I wear a coverall

                              A coverall is a trouser with shirt in one. How can it work? It occurs the same problem like trousers.

                                dylan im actually quiet interested how you like it after 6 months

                                I've gone a lot longer than 6 months!! 😅

                                dylan i don't wear it at day time or im am home never in public
                                so at home I wear a coverall

                                who has no legs? sorry but what does he look like? the chain has to run from somewhere.