Ines Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.

But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....

You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

I really do appreciate and value your opinion on all aspects of chastity Ines. Thank you for addressing this issue. You have put my mind at ease.

And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

I can tell you that Animal Facts is indeed a very effective tactic!!! 🙂

      Vanessa But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

      definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is. 😂

      Jonas

      i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand @Ines 🙂

      I also learned a lot about animals from @Ines. 😉

            Angelina i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand Ines

            Now I'm pretty much locked up indefinitely I do find myself trying anything to get some sort of feeling and I am lucky/unlucky that nipple stimulation does work for me.

            So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.

            Of course I can see that in every day life a male with giant metal bra cups could be "out of sight" (as Ines might put it 😄), but I'm wondering if something almost flat would be possible: Less of a cup and more of a spoon perhaps. I dunno.

            A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.

            I just want to be able to stop myself masturbating for as long as my wife and I decide.

            As I said to you before.... I'm a simple creature: "Got problem. Got steel. Got lock. Problem gone away now." 😂

                Jonas A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.

                frankly i see it the same way. a chastity bra is not something that radiates femininity. rather the opposite i feel like part of my femininity is being taken away from me

                    Ines

                    Possible,yes.

                    Ines Firstly: why? Secondly, do you wear kilts?

                    Two good questions.

                    Ines is not reasonable, it is not logical and it sounds more related to some fantasy

                    I tend to agree with you about it;but I give him the benefits of the doubt.

                    I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.

                    Ines You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

                    Me too.

                    Ines And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

                    🤣

                    Angelina definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is. 😂

                    Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!😉

                    Jonas So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.

                    So,pretty happy it works for you?

                    Angelina a chastity bra is not something that radiates femininity. rather the opposite i feel like part of my femininity is being taken away from me

                    I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

                                      Vanessa I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.

                                      that's the interesting thing, it could of course be intended more as a toy for men, but of course some might also think that the bra can also be used by men for serious use. no distinction is made on the website

                                      Vanessa Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!😉

                                      not every man is a Scottish 😂

                                      Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

                                      right, that's similar how I feel too

                                              Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

                                              In my case, I feel exactly the opposite. I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

                                                  Vanessa So,pretty happy it works for you?

                                                  If you mean breast stimulation, then no! The fact that I am sensitive where 50% of other men are not, just makes it more difficult for me to achieve what, on paper, seems like such a simple idea: chastity!

                                                  Chastity. See? One word. It shouldn't be difficult!

                                                  Wanna be 100% faithful to my wife... not even look at another woman! Wanna save a lot of time! Want to feel driven to achieve and yet be in absolute control of myself.

                                                  One word: Chastity.

                                                  Chastity. Chastity. Chastity.

                                                  Gah! I would indeed wear some form of chastity bra ....if that's what's required to achieve my goal!! 😂

                                                      Ines I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

                                                      Its funny Ines, that you and I are so different and yet feel so very much the same. Except in my case I have already given my womanhood to my partner and I like to keep it safe and secure for her. It is only ever "used" with her knowledge. The belt and thigh bands are merely tools of that security and somehow increase its value even more.

                                                        Jonas Gah! I would indeed wear some form of chastity bra ....if that's what's required to achieve my goal!! 😂

                                                        if it makes you happy and is also suitable for men to wear permanently, no one here will stop you, but support you 🙂

                                                        Ines In my case, I feel exactly the opposite. I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

                                                        @Vanessa and I don't disagree with you, besides it would be news to me that you wear a chastity bra. 😃

                                                              Angelina if it makes you happy and is also suitable for men to wear permanently, no one here will stop you, but support you

                                                              What a lovely positive comment, thanks Angelina! I don't know if it's necessary or even possible right now, but time will tell, and I'll be sure to report back here. 😃

                                                                  Jonas What a lovely positive comment, thanks Angelina! I don't know if it's necessary or even possible right now, but time will tell, and I'll be sure to report back here. 😃

                                                                  you can have my bra, the cups are not that big either 😂

                                                                  no seriously, you seem like a nice man and i think you will have mostly positive things coming your way 🙂

                                                                      Angelina you can have my bra, the cups are not that big either 😂

                                                                      😂 🤣

                                                                      no seriously, you seem like a nice man and i think you will have mostly positive things coming your way

                                                                      Yes!! Hooray! 😄

                                                                      Wait, ...hold on... mostly positive?! Now I'm scared!! I was shooting for 100% positive!!

                                                                          Jonas Wait, ...hold on... mostly positive?! Now I'm scared!! I was shooting for 100% positive!!

                                                                          by this i mean that your decision for chastity has many positive aspects, but of course you have to consider the frutration it can have as well. 😉

                                                                              Angelina you have to consider the frutration it can have as well.

                                                                              Yes, indeed! ...though I try to be tough with myself about frustration... I mean it's not actual pain is it? 😅

                                                                              It can be intense and maddening and exasperating and annoying but, you know, it all goes to make me feel alive and, most importantly, it keeps me focused on my relationship.

                                                                                  Angelina of course some might also think that the bra can also be used by men for serious use. no distinction is made on the website

                                                                                  Yes,even if many customers of My-Steel would think it is useless,I think.

                                                                                  Angelina not every man is a Scottish 😂

                                                                                  Yes,but it can be a good reason to wear a sort of skirt!😉

                                                                                  Angelina right, that's similar how I feel too

                                                                                  Classical with the chastity bra,it seems.

                                                                                  Ines

                                                                                  But you don't wear a chastity bra,right?

                                                                                  Jonas If you mean breast stimulation, then no!

                                                                                  No,I meant that chastity works for you as you wanted.

                                                                                  Angelina you can have my bra, the cups are not that big either 😂

                                                                                  🤣

                                                                                                Vanessa But you don't wear a chastity bra,right?

                                                                                                No.... Keep it far of me. Even farther.... Thanks. 😅

                                                                                                    Vanessa No,I meant that chastity works for you as you wanted.

                                                                                                    Ah, I see! Yeah, for me, chastity is a good thing. It makes me happier, more productive and more attentive to my partner. I'm learning use the frustration to power an increasingly active life.

                                                                                                        Jonas I mean it's not actual pain is it? 😅

                                                                                                        no, but it's like not smoking for smokers. no real pain, more like phantom pain. 😉

                                                                                                        Vanessa Yes,even if many customers of My-Steel would think it is useless,I think.

                                                                                                        probably yes

                                                                                                        Vanessa Yes,but it can be a good reason to wear a sort of skirt!😉

                                                                                                        😂 hihi

                                                                                                        Ines No.... Keep it far of me. Even farther.... Thanks. 😅

                                                                                                        for having a deep connection to the belt, you have quite an aversion to the bra 😉