Angelina i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand Ines
Now I'm pretty much locked up indefinitely I do find myself trying anything to get some sort of feeling and I am lucky/unlucky that nipple stimulation does work for me.
So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.
Of course I can see that in every day life a male with giant metal bra cups could be "out of sight" (as Ines might put it 😄), but I'm wondering if something almost flat would be possible: Less of a cup and more of a spoon perhaps. I dunno.
A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.
I just want to be able to stop myself masturbating for as long as my wife and I decide.
As I said to you before.... I'm a simple creature: "Got problem. Got steel. Got lock. Problem gone away now." 😂