Ines or at least I can not remember

Isn't your fiancee supposed to be approved by your parents?

      I’ve been reading here and I’m unsure what to do. I like the idea of marrying a woman I don’t love just so my mom will let me out but I think I will try to live with my bf asap and then just cut it off. The only problem with this idea is that my mom will most likely never talk to me again and won’t let me see my sister.

      Either way I’ll be in the belt for another few years so I have a lot of time to think and decide 😅

        Then fuck her! figuratively of course:-) because if you agree to it, it's a fucking Stockholm Syndrome (no pun intended, because your profile shows that you are Swedish :-)) Your mom does it for religious reasons you are some terribly fanatical Christians or Muslims ? If you play it properly, she will lose parental rights and will end up in a closeted psychiatric ward with nice and comfy padded room 😂

          hornyaspie2
          There is a broad spectrum of eventuality which can lead to having a belt removed AND not having to confine people in jaols or wards.
          Why starting a war while you can just safely take distance?

              LoonyMel

              LoonyMel Why starting a war while you can just safely take distance?

              Take distance how?
              It's not happening to me, but i think that if someone abuse position of authority we can and should act!

              • Ines replied to this.

                    hornyaspie2
                    Look, sadly some times happen things, as parents that jail their children, a case in USA some time ago, or the case of Austria, or even another less know in all the parts of the world.
                    Well, everyone of those pigs start their control strategy not for a chastity belt, but for keep out phones, internet, cut communication.
                    It is evil but it is logic.
                    Really do you think that if some of the monsters of some stories here were real, such bastars would let her/his victim tell the story in internet?
                    Even more, think in that supposed victim: well I am suffering in a forced way of wearing chastity belt... I will search in internet a forum about the topic to tell my sad story...
                    It is not logical. AT ALL.

                        Ines Look, sadly some times happen things, as parents that jail their children, a case in USA some time ago, or the case of Austria, or even another less know in all the parts of the world.

                        That sad, I think CB maybe cool fun between two consenting individual, but if it's forced one someone whatever is girl or boy!
                        I'm curious why in America is there so many cut guys and they not find anything distrubing in it, I'm Pole from Poland I'm cut but very partially and I had phimosis, and the surgeon only removed the overgrown part of the foreskin, I was 5 at the time and had frequent urinary tract infections, the urologist only did it after he had used up all the other treatments.

                        Ines Really do you think that if some of the monsters of some stories here were real, such bastars would let her/his victim tell the story in internet?
                        Yes good point, that would be illogical, but some of them are really that stupid

                            Vanessa In some families,it can be hard(it is the case for Emilie's family).

                            but then these families should also know that the decision is either to lose a family member or to accept it. my grandma doesn't like it either but she accepts it.

                            Renita In an ideal world.

                            nonsense, i would rather spend the next 50 years in the belt than marry someone i don't love

                            Funguy I’ve been reading here and I’m unsure what to do. I like the idea of marrying a woman I don’t love just so my mom will let me out but I think I will try to live with my bf asap and then just cut it off.

                            or you talk to your mother openly about it, we are no longer in the Middle Ages.

                                    Funguy Does your mom know that you are a gay?

                                    Angelina i would rather spend the next 50 years in the belt than marry someone i don't love

                                    You don't need 50 years for it, let's talk after 10 years.

                                          LoonyMel
                                          Why his mom is controlling .... No one should have such level of control, and lying is acceptable
                                          But better if he just said her that either she handover they keys or he would report it!
                                          Or just report it.

                                            Funguy
                                            Oh my, doesn't she know? Be careful, a shock is an issue you can take into consideration when she will found that Costantinopoli became Istambul and that the second Rome has fallen.

                                              universal circumcision in the Uk and the USA started in the late 19th century. When masturbation was widely regarded as a tremendous evil. The thought was circumcision reduced the desire to masturbate. So infant boys were snipped routinely. It stopped in the UK following WW II because the national health would only pay for medical necessity. In the states insurance will pay for it so it continues. Moms usually authorize it because they don't want their boys to be different. Living in the USA I don't think I ever saw an un snipped male until I was in my 20s.

                                                Ines Even more, think in that supposed victim: well I am suffering in a forced way of wearing chastity belt... I will search in internet a forum about the topic to tell my sad story...
                                                It is not logical. AT ALL.

                                                Yes, absolutely, because reality has absolutely nothing to do with how you describe it.

                                                  cham-ed
                                                  can't you get trough parliament or Congress as you say the prohibition of insurers sponsoring circumcision? except maybe for Jews and Muslims

                                                    Then all you would have to say is that you are Jewish or Moslem and the law would be worthless.

                                                    Funguy You tell her that

                                                    If she doesn't know yet, you should tell her and then ask her to explain her position about your chastity, marriage, etc.

                                                        Renita You don't need 50 years for it, let's talk after 10 years.

                                                        and what difference would that make, maybe i'm more idialistic than you, but regardless of the belt, my marriage vows will only be given to someone i love. 🙂

                                                        Funguy You tell her that 🤣

                                                        i told my strict christian grandma that i am in a relationship with a girl, i think you can handle that 😉

                                                        Renita If she doesn't know yet, you should tell her and then ask her to explain her position about your chastity, marriage, etc.

                                                        interested, 2 minutes ago i disagreed with you, now i agree with you 😉