A Fundamental question

Angelina

Sin No because there is no blackmail in the other direction. "I love you but I'm not a child and I'm not doing this anymore, it's damaging. I'm moving into a share house with my friends."

i understand what you mean, but i don't know if it's bad for me. my dad thinks it's good for me and i think it's not good for me, but neither of us has any proof that it's right for me to wear a belt or not.

besides, i don't think that's the way families should talk to each other. it's more like talking to a boss who almost runs the company into the ground for the third time.

Avery after a while you believe this all pervasive message. It's hard to rebel.

i don't believe my father's claims, but i can't prove the opposite either

Avery

Angelina

Angelina i don't believe my father's claims, but i can't prove the opposite either

I sometimes wonder how much effect the parents' views have on their eventual grandchildren.

Avery

Sin I'm not sure we've caught up to the middle east, maybe in some parts of the South, the so-called bible belt. I do know in my public high school in the Northeast, serving three adjacent towns there was a dress code. Females were forbidden bare shoulders, bare middies (even an inch), jeans with holes in them and skirts above the knees. We all kept hoodies in our lockers which avoided one being sent home for above the waist violations. The rational often given was not that such wear was indecent but that it would distract the boys and interfere with the learning experience. Evidently college boys concentrate better because at my uni we can wear anything that won't get you arrested on the street.

Sin

Avery haha! Perhaps schoolboys should have their dicks locked in cages after all! ;-)

I guess it's similar here (Australia), maybe a little less strict but most schools still have dress standards. It's been a while since I went to school though!

Joh

Avery Evidently college boys concentrate better because at my uni we can wear anything that won't get you arrested on the street.

It looks like this proofs the conclusion you got as argument was wrong.
I can't understand why it's going in this conservative direction in the US. I see some similar movement in Germany as well and hope it is not so much like I see here at the forum.

Avery

Sin Yes, but if all the boys wore cages it would ruin the fun of random cup checks!

(For the unathletic, participants in contact sports usually wear what in the US is called a cup over their genital areas to protect from direct hits to the privates. The cups are uncomfortable and some leave them off. So wise guys will pass by their friends and strike them in the groin and call out Cup Check! hoping to catch a buddy unprepared.)

Ines

Sin I guess it's similar here (Australia), maybe a little less strict but most schools still have dress standards. It's been a while since I went to school though!

Here, in public schools there is not any code, and so many girls attend as true hookers.
Private school is different and in general uniforms are mandatory.
It is true that in my high school usually girls cheated a bit with the skirt length, but inside a reasonable gap. Even the teachers if it was not very exaggerated, I remember two cases in all my school and high school, did not say nothing.
It was curious because sometimes the female teachers joked about the point, but they did not go further.
Male teachers were more respectful and they never said nothing. Sometimes if one of the thought that something about our uniform was wrong, he searched for a female teacher and she corrected us.

Joh

Avery I sometimes wonder how much effect the parents' views have on their eventual grandchildren.

If you don't work at it, it will have an impact on how you raise your children.
The best thing to do is to get information from many different sources to form your opinion, ask yourself if what you have learned is what you really want, try new things or what you were not allowed to do to see if you like it or not and find your way.
It can then be that you go the same direction or somewhere else. In any case, then you know it is your way.

Angelina

Avery I sometimes wonder how much effect the parents' views have on their eventual grandchildren.

partly, i will definitely not use a chastity belt on my children (at least not against their will), but there are a few methods i would also use, like contractually agreeing on the house rules, but i want to make one thing clear, i want my father to stay out of our children's upbringing later on

Ines Here, in public schools there is not any code, and so many girls attend as true hookers.

and that is exactly why i would like school uniforms at german schools, some girls really look extremely slutty 🙁

LoonyMel

Here in Italy we have no uniforms even in private school. I did one (private is the low tiered school compared to public...).
There are no strange clothes anyeay; not today nor in the past. It is all pretty casual.

Vanessa

LoonyMel Or, at least, they would have a lot less leverage.

Yes,even if it is not the main one,in my case.

Breaking the relationship with my parents would be the worst part.

Renita I was trying to mention it, but was asked what for.

Difficult to answer,if you wear since a long time and so can't tell it is for comfort....

Sin It might break him but it sounds like he needs it.

But it can hurt her too.

Renita

Test what?

LoonyMel Here in Italy we have no uniforms

Same in France.

Renita

Vanessa if you wear since a long time and so can't tell it is for comfort....

It was too clear.

Vanessa Test what?

To see if I can quit.

Avery

Angelina Well said.

Vanessa

Angelina i would like school uniforms at german schools

Personally,I would have hated to have to wear an uniform!

Jen

You had one?

Renita To see if I can quit.

Not needed,except if you plan truly quit,not only testing.

HHelen Failed.

🤣

Jen

Private school and the uniform is fairly strict.

HHelen

Renita To test.

Failed.

LoonyMel

... I wrote in an uncouth manner. "I did one". Sorry for that orror. I was thinking in Italian and in Italian we use "fare" as a verb, that means "to do". Fare la privata (attend private school) is common, but I wrote "i did one".

AHAHA, silly me.

Jen

Vanessa You had one?

Still have one

Renita

Vanessa Not needed,except if you plan truly quit,not only testing.

I might need to take a break.

Angelina

Vanessa Personally,I would have hated to have to wear an uniform!

i would hate it too, yet but it's the better alternative compared to sitting in a room full of hookers. 😉

Ines

Vanessa Personally,I would have hated to have to wear an uniform!

Fixing a bit the length of the skirt and play a bit with las button of blouse, it is even nice. In my school, almost all of us played with these things.

Joh

Jen Still have one

You go to a private school. I heard it is not uncommon in Australia.

Vanessa

Jen

Sorry for you...

Which one?

For how long?

Renita

To get some pleasure?

Angelina

You can sit in the same room without being one,nor be friends with them.

Ines

It can be funny,yes.

But you would not prefer to not have one?

Renita No, but my mother thinks the same.

Logical.

Renita It has changed.

How?

a_father You can refuse taking the belt on again at the next cleaning break.

Of course;but it could depend on the consequences.

Angelina

Renita I might need to take a break.

why, do you regret your decision ?

HHelen

Renita I might need to take a break.

Break for a relationship?

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