Jen It is not possible to adjust so much on that model.
You can try to change which hole you have the waist belt locked. Try it out and see if you can find the perfect position, which provides the best protection.
Otherwise, maybe it's just to send it back and shorten the wire in the crotch part, so it gets tighter.
If you send it back, take some pics of the fit from a few different angles (over the top of bathers or underpants) so that they can see exactly what needs to be done.
Hi I'm making progress but also getting a bit over it really. Bending the hip band is easy really once you start. I ditched the main shield just got the secondary all the way under to the lock - not comfortable don't recommend! But it's easier to feel how the hip band pulls. Still need to find a bit more room.
Avery He put it in a vise
lol got no vise here. Would be easier with help for sure.
Tobbe You can try to change which hole you have the waist belt locked
Yep there's sort of two spots on my hip will sit so trying to make the higher tighter spot work. Still lots under my waist though.
Sin If you send it back, take some pics...
Sending back means more talk with mum n dad so yeah not keen on that
Angelina i read it should be measured multiple times - that didn't happen. They'd have it in email but seems pointless
Jen Sending back means more talk with mum n dad so yeah not keen on that
but not returning it means you may have to wear an uncomfortable belt at some point.
Jen They'd have it in email but seems pointless
your parents sent the measurements to the manufacturer. check the belt to see if the measurements match. if not, it is a mistake on the part of the manufacturer.
Jen it's my-steel hip and cable back - the comfort one on their site.
Maybe send it back,explaining the problems,would be the best solution.
They could adjust it more easily.
Jen But i think i can make this work with the right bending.
Could you ask your father to do it?
Jen But i read the cable is like a thong and no it's not the cable is much more noticeable than a thong.
A bit more,it is thicker.
Jen I was expecting tight
It should be.But not painfully,of course.
Good idea.
Jen i read it should be measured multiple times - that didn't happen. They'd have it in email but seems pointless
Maybe you can try to measure yourself(can be hard),to check if the measures were right.
Angelina your parents sent the measurements to the manufacturer. check the belt to see if the measurements match. if not, it is a mistake on the part of the manufacturer.
I would think more of an error when taking the measures(or when typing these),than an error of the manufacturer.
From your comments I suspect tht the waist band needs to be very gently bent so it moldes to your waistand and posssibly the crotch band the same
alison_cd5
I believe that length of crotch piece is now well measured and it is so long, and probably the cable too. If it is well fitted it avoids you can move up the belt when waist is well tight around your hips.
I'm making progress I've had it on for 20 minutes now and it's bloody frustrating i think I'm crazy thinking I could wear this long term. And the cable in my butt is really awkward. And it's all -like not what I imagined- like stuff I said about saving myself for my partner, I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.
Ines I believe that length of crotch piece is now well measured and it is so long, and probably the cable too. If it is well fitted it avoids you can move up the belt when waist is well tight around your hips.
Shield and cable both too long. But I think it was mum had the belt higher on my hips when measuring. With the whole chastity belt pushed up as high as it can go, and with the bending, I can do the waist band tighter and it's secure now.
Jen it's bloody frustrating i think I'm crazy thinking I could wear this long term. And the cable in my butt is really awkward. And it's all -like not what I imagined- like stuff I said about saving myself for my partner, I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.
Sounds like you're cured of the idea. Good that you refused wearing it. Now you have made your own picture without any pressure.
Jen And it's all -like not what I imagined- like stuff I said about saving myself for my partner, I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.
if you don't like it, you shouldn't wear the belt. it should be what you expected. of course it's difficult at the beginning, you shouldn't give up yet and give yourself enough time, maybe you'll like it better then.
but as i said, if you still think that way in a few weeks, i would advise you not to wear the belt.
Jen And it's all -like not what I imagined- like stuff I said about saving myself for my partner, I dunno it seems more like a sex toy.
Jen Shield and cable both too long. But I think it was mum had the belt higher on my hips when measuring. With the whole chastity belt pushed up as high as it can go, and with the bending, I can do the waist band tighter and it's secure now.
For me it sounds the whole try is an failure because the belt does not fit. I would stop and give it back your parents.
If you later still think it is worth to do it to saving yourself for you partner and you can't manage it without a belt get you own one. But I believe it is possible without if it really important for you.
Joh For me it sounds the whole try is an failure because the belt does not fit. I would stop and give it back your parents.
I agree with you in principle, but in the beginning it can also be more of a feeling and the belt doesn't feel so uncomfortable after a while (at least that's how it was for me). I agree with you, but I would wait a little longer before making that judgement.
Angelina In my opinion it's not @Jen's thing. @Angelina, please forgive me, but I think most girls here have a submissive part in their heart. If you don't have this, you can't stand the belt at all. It feels just 'not okay'.
For example my daughter would call the authorities. I'm absolutely sure. You need a dominant and a submissive part (at least a little bit). Otherwise it will never work. @Ines for example, wrote some time ago, she may give her keys to her husband and would continue wearing the belt.
In my case there is neither a dominant nor a submissive part. So a chastity belt will never find a way into our family.
