PaulE I have never considered the slim fit model. It looks quite easy to hide under clothing. Unfortunately it looks to me like a strong man could force it of her.

Nope. It's steel cable, and if the diameter of the waistband is smaller than your hip structure, it's not coming off without bolt cutters. It's as simple as that.

This doesn't appear to be your partner's kink (yet), but it's nice that she's willing to share. I would suggest a cable belt to start with too. Please just take it easy and let her explore it without expecting too much. There's a lot of misinformation online that skews people's perceptions.

Regarding exercise, I wear mine under yoga pants....I've taught a few classes with it on, but I would prefer not to. I think anything more energetic would hurt. I wouldn't even think of suggesting that to her.

      PaulE It is not my first language.

      It is not mine, so, probably, I did not explain myself rightly.

      PaulE I don't really understand, when exactly are they necessary.

      Well, they are necessary when we will have enough time alone. Use them for go to work or even go out with friends is a nonsense. Use them at night or when I am going to be alone in home, obviously, mandatory if there is not a good reason, (which can exist, of course).

      PaulE somewhat willing wearer

      Totally willingly and I am very skeptical about other usages.

      PaulE Which belt do you pick when staying at home

      Usually, NS. But if I was wearing FS because I went out, I can not ask for a change. One thing is to have needs and another being a brat and disturbing keyholders without reason.

      PaulE What is your main criteria which belt you pick out?

      Clothes! Easy but true.

      PaulE That always sounds so uncomfortable to a man, but you already said, that it is not, right?

      Probably, if she does not need wear it so tight as mine, she will find it, even, more comfortable.

                    PaulE Thanks, I have never considered the slim fit model. It looks quite easy to hide under clothing. Unfortunately it looks to me like a strong man could force it of her. That's a major concern for both of us. She considers wearing the belt mostly because she often feels unsafe walking alone after dark. Don't get me wrong, I don't know and could be wrong, but the belt should not primarily be safe enough for her to break out, but for somebody else to break in.

                    I could be wrong too but I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about. As I reported in my intro I was assaulted twice before I started wearing mine so I wanted to get a good one, regardless of price and I did. Don't cheap out on this. My father had to put it in a vise to help me fit it so I don't quite see how a strong man could get it off an unwilling person.

                        PaulE I have never considered the slim fit model.

                        I can imagine it biting my hip's flesh... No thanks.

                        Sin .I've taught a few classes with it on, but I would prefer not to. I think anything more energetic would hurt.

                        Totally agree, I have played, even, some matches in the yard, but no more of that. Even they cause redness.

                              Ines I can imagine it biting my hip's flesh... No thanks.

                              You made that up.

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                                  Avery I have one. It needed adjustment at first but is fine now and is secure but I do NOT wear it 24/7 or use a secondary shield so it's not clear what my experience is worth.

                                  do you think it would be possible to wear the belt 24/7, i.e. would the belt be safe and comfortable enough for such purposes?

                                      Thanks @all for your help!

                                      Sin Nope. It's steel cable, and if the diameter of the waistband is smaller than your hip structure, it's not coming off without bolt cutters. It's as simple as that.

                                      Avery I could be wrong too but I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about.

                                      As I said, I have never seen more than a picture, so my assessment wasn't very objective.

                                      Avery As I reported in my intro I was assaulted twice before I started wearing mine

                                      I am so sorry for that. That is terrible! The belt we wanna buy is thought of as a deterrent for exactly that kind of situation, but of course deep in your mind you always think that something like that never happens to yourself. I really hope not, but maybe it will be the best decision in our life...

                                      Ines Use them at night or when I am going to be alone in home, obviously, mandatory if there is not a good reason, (which can exist, of course).

                                      I see. Thanks for sharing. I don't think that would be an option for us, since we life together and I am often away for several days at a time. When I am there there is probably no need, and when I am away she will have a key to take the belt of, at least for sports, but probably also work.

                                      One question: Since I would like her to wear it at least during her trip home from work, is it possible to put the belt in a backpack and put it on after work in a toilet. My-steel seams to have some kind of travel option to compress the belt, but I am pretty sure it takes a long time to disassemble and reassemble the belt. Are there other options that can easily be transported and put on/taken off quickly?

                                      Ines Totally willingly and I am very skeptical about other usages.

                                      ... yes! That's why I do think it is an amazing gesture if a girl agrees to be belted for her husband.

                                      Ines Usually, NS. But if I was wearing FS because I went out, I can not ask for a change.

                                      So do I have it correct? Neosteel is more comfortable to wear, but your fancy steel is easier to hide? Do you think that to be because of the design or because of waist vs. hip? Which one would you normally pick if you went to work or study?

                                      Most important question: If you could have only one belt, which would you pick? (Could also be hip neosteel or waist fc)

                                      Ines Probably, if she does not need wear it so tight as mine, she will find it, even, more comfortable.

                                      It was just me thinking about it as a man, but since I have have never been a woman and never even seen a fancy steel belt its probably very hard for me to tell.

                                      @Ines I am so sorry for bothering you with so many questions. If it is to much, I will not bother you any further. You just seem to be the only one here who has experience with either belt.

                                      Thanks again and take care!

                                                      Avery
                                                      I do not understand you.
                                                      What do you try that I understand?
                                                      That it is not tight and do not hurt in hips?
                                                      Do you wear it very tight?

                                                          PaulE

                                                          PaulE am so sorry for bothering you with so many questions. If it is to much

                                                          You do not bother me at all, it is a chastity belt forum!

                                                              PaulE but I am pretty sure it takes a long time to disassemble and reassemble the belt. Are there other options that can easily be transported and put on/taken off quickly?

                                                              I can be put in a backpack, but not in a small feminine one. It should be bigger.

                                                              PaulE Do you think that to be because of the design or because of waist vs. hip?

                                                              Mostly due to hip design, but it has less locks too, take in account that secondary shield is not removable (it has screw).

                                                                  Angelina do you think it would be possible to wear the belt 24/7, i.e. would the belt be safe and comfortable enough for such purposes?

                                                                  Yes I do. I've worn it for as long as 1 1/2 days when there were boys I didn't know staying over. That's not a long time but I had no problems.

                                                                      PaulE I am so sorry for that. That is terrible! The belt we wanna buy is thought of as a deterrent for exactly that kind of situation, but of course deep in your mind you always think that something like that never happens to yourself. I really hope not, but maybe it will be the best decision in our life...

                                                                      I'm glad I went ahead with the belt. Talking to the police was very helpful but in a way kind of scary.

                                                                        Ines That it is not tight and do not hurt in hips?
                                                                        Do you wear it very tight?

                                                                        Get it adjusted. You should know that!

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                                                                            Cable belt folds into a bag easily. I wore mine for most of the past year, with breaks for work each day. Other than that belted most of the time.

                                                                            Depending on the season I use either latex oil on the cable, or I use a singlet / corset / body shaper underneath it for a little more comfort.

                                                                            I know you are aiming for big things, but seriously... just get a cheap cable belt to play with, aim for hours (not days) and have some fun to begin with. 24/7 is years away.

                                                                            Avery
                                                                            Yes, but I think that "adjustment" can not be the same for your usage than for mine.
                                                                            If my FS with "standard" frame is tight, I think I can imagine how can be the cable one.

                                                                                Ines I think I can imagine how can be the cable one.

                                                                                "You can IMAGINE." I repeat, stop making things up. I wear one, it's not tight. You need to order the right size and even then adjust if necessary.

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                                                                                    Avery

                                                                                    Avery "You can IMAGINE." I repeat, stop making things up

                                                                                    Eehhhh, stop.

                                                                                    Be kind, as everyone here.
                                                                                    Yes, I can imagine, because I wear other kind of belt, that I would wear that belt tight, and probably I will have some bruises.
                                                                                    If you do not agree, it is OK, I do not know how tight is your belt of even if you wear it to avoid something further sexual assault.
                                                                                    I do not imagine, I know that if my belt has only to protect me of sex or sexual assault I will not wear it so tight.

                                                                                        PaulE IMO FancySteel are really for show and not a patch on Mysteel, Neosteel or Tollyboy. They're certainly not fit for 24/7/365 or longterm.

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