Thighbands

Sara2001

Angelina That's not necessary. Really is never perfect.

Angelina

Sara2001

and if situations arise where your system does not work, what do you do?

Sara2001

Angelina and if situations arise where your system does not work, what do you do?

As I said several times, the main concept of our relationship is making sure that the other one is happy. If I feel that this is no longer his goal, I will end the relationship. It's very easy.

Angelina

Sara2001 If I feel that this is no longer his goal,

I do not mean a permanent state of dissatisfaction

i mean, what would you do if this situation rarely happens and it has bad consequences for you ?

Vanessa

Sara2001 I am sure he will fight well for my rights 🙂

Good!🙂

Sara2001 It's not allowed. They both think a woman should not be present if they have a discussion about things like that. If the woman is present she sees to much about the power between them, for the woman it should feel like one opinion From both of them (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality)

I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!😉

Angelina

I think,in such relationships,the two partners should talk a lot,and often,to avoid it,or solve it when it happens.

Sara2001

Angelina I do not mean a permanent state of dissatisfaction

i mean, what would you do if this situation rarely happens and it has bad consequences for you ?

I would talk with him and until we had the talk I would accept whatever he wants if it is not dangerous for me.

Sara2001

Vanessa I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!😉

Daniel will address this point when he knows better how the chastity bra is working and how long it is possible to wear it in a row.

His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.

Angelina

Sara2001 I would talk with him and until we had the talk I would accept whatever he wants if it is not dangerous for me.

that's good, that sounds much better than the last post from you 😃

Sara2001 His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.

that sounds like a good idea, even if it is only for the holidays 😉 did I understand correctly that daniel wouldn't have the keys to the bra during the holidays ?

Vanessa

Sara2001 His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.

I think it is a good idea,too.Not possible to play with your breasts,but easier to walk.

Sara2001 Yes, he had to pay a price for my freedom 🙂

A good proof of love.He would lose access to something he likes to increase your freedom.🙂

Sara2001 Daniel will wait with this suggestion until we know more about long time wearing the chastity bra to make sure it is possible and not to unpleasant.

Better to wait for knowing it,yes.

Sara2001 It has to be save from a hygienic point of view.

Sure;very important to take care of it.

Angelina then i could test it during the easter holidays and give you my experience 😉

Even if it is unlikely I would have to wear if full time,it is interesting for me too.

Sara2001 Maybe I will already have my own experience at this time.

But you'll have another input from your sister.

Angelina Maybe I will if you will. Then we'll share the experience 😉

It's a good idea.

Sara2001

Angelina that sounds like a good idea, even if it is only for the holidays 😉 did I understand correctly that daniel wouldn't have the keys to the bra during the holidays ?

He would have no access without knowledge of my father because it would be in an envelope. Yes, he had to pay a price for my freedom 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

it is not the ideal condition, but it is a deal that also has advantages for you, so you can walk a little better 😉

Has your father already agreed?
If so, how many centimeters will you get?

Sara2001

Angelina Has your father already agreed?
If so, how many centimeters will you get?

Daniel will wait with this suggestion until we know more about long time wearing the chastity bra to make sure it is possible and not to unpleasant.

Dee

Please forgive me but I have to ask... how do you manage with your period and thigh bands?

Angelina

Dee

the tighbands do not influence my period, i do not bleed on my legs 😂

What do you exactly mean?

Ines

Dee
Moré openings in my case. Worst is belly inflation. Fortunately my mother is fair enough to open every time I ask it with a reasonable motivation.

Sara2001

Angelina the tighbands do not influence my period, i do not bleed on my legs 😂

What do you exactly mean?

I can't put anything under my cb, so I wear special underwear and a pad over my cb. The underwear is hand made. The system is working like a diaper, so I can close it at the sides to get it under the chain.

Angelina

Sara2001

interesting, maybe I think about trying that too 😉

i currently always put pads in the cb, this sometimes causes problems when i go to pee, but it's my only solution. at home i can ask my dad to open the pad and i take it out before peeing, but in school it's already uncomfortable 🙁

but my tighbands are no problem during the period and @Dee wears the tighbands only when she goes out

Vanessa

Sara2001

Let's hope for her!

Sara2001 She would have probably more time without the bra if she had been honest.

Can she have more free time,as it could have been if she was honest,if she cooperate well and behave better?Or no chance it improves,now it was decided this way?

Sara2001

I do the same,but as I've not to wear thigh bands permanently,I use classical underwear.And more supervised showers.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Too bad for her!🙁

No "second chance",to prove him she has understood the rules?

Or is he stricter due,at least partly,to the fact she cheated on her belt soon before?

Angelina

I agree.

Angelina he always gives me the chance to make things easier for me through good behaviour

It is better.Even if it could be understandable it needs much time,if we still misbehave(especially about a similar offense).

Sara2001

It is very severe...

Angelina this is a very long time and it will be very hard for them 🙁

But,if their relationship last,he will be able to support her,it would be helpful.

mekekelo

In fact,she did.She was not supposed to date someone hiddenly,what she did... I can understand her,but I understand too her father is very unhappy.

Sara2001 She doesn't understand why I agreed and thinks I am crazy 🙂

Logical.I guess she was very surprised when you told it to her!

Sara2001 I think it will be very different for me because I will have regular releases.

It would still be hard,but better,sure.

Sara2001 she told his boyfriend from school about her equipment just after she had to change school. This was wrong, too.

I guess it plays a part in the severity of her rules,right?

However,we can notice that cheating on her belt,after some troubles,gave her the possibility to meet her boyfriend and fall in love with him...A misbehavior that ended pretty well for her(even if it is the reason for her chastity bra).

Angelina

I don't think it is wrong generally.But it is wrong in her family...So I can understand her father's decision to punish her,even if I don't support it.He could have been happy she did the right choice of boyfriend,as it seems he's approved.

Angelina

Which means more opening,and it is an important difference!😉

Sara2001

Vanessa No "second chance",to prove him she has understood the rules?

Or is he stricter due,at least partly,to the fact she cheated on her belt soon before?

If it comes to her sexual pleasure, he is very very strict. After lying, dangerous things respecting male and obedience, this is the most important rule in our family and she broke it with major incidents two times in a row. My father really hated that. I think he now keeps her locked in her equipment unit she turns 18.

Vanessa Logical.I guess she was very surprised when you told it to her!

She was surprised when I told her what kind of relationship I have with Daniel, now she only wonders how I can accept so much. Sometime I wonder myself 🙂

Vanessa I guess it plays a part in the severity of her rules,right?

A very big part, because it was a big additional risk. My father wants to make sure that something similar will never happen again.

Vanessa A misbehavior that ended pretty well for her(even if it is the reason for her chastity bra).

Yes, at the end it will bring her additional restrictions but also additional freedom. Actually she is very sad about her chastity bra but also very happy for her boyfriend. I hope her relationship will be long and happy.

Angelina

Sara2001 She was surprised when I told her what kind of relationship I have with Daniel, now she only wonders how I can accept so much. Sometime I wonder myself 🙂

i can understand your sister 100%, i have accepted it by now but i also wonder every day that the relationship works so well 🙂

Sara2001 I hope her relationship will be long and happy.

and hopefully stay happy until the wedding 😃

your sister has done a lot of wrong in the last few months, she has been severely punished, but I think she has suffered enough and deserves a little happiness 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001 If it comes to her sexual pleasure, he is very very strict. After lying, dangerous things respecting male and obedience, this is the most important rule in our family and she broke it with major incidents two times in a row. My father really hated that. I think he now keeps her locked in her equipment unit she turns 18.

"Good" she would have more freedom later,even if not married,at least.But it would be good too,if,after some time(maybe some months),he would let her prove to him she understood the rules and would be more obedient about these from now.

Sara2001 She was surprised when I told her what kind of relationship I have with Daniel, now she only wonders how I can accept so much. Sometime I wonder myself 🙂

She knew it from your parents,but she was suprised you agreed to the same type of relationship?

Sara2001 A very big part, because it was a big additional risk. My father wants to make sure that something similar will never happen again.

Not good for her,but understandable.Even if I think cheating on her chastity belt in the toilet was way more an offense than showing it to her boyfriend(especially if she wants her relationship to be serious and last long,he should know it...).But she may have been allowed to,and not punished for it,if she asked first,sure.

Sara2001 Yes, at the end it will bring her additional restrictions but also additional freedom. Actually she is very sad about her chastity bra but also very happy for her boyfriend. I hope her relationship will be long and happy.

Logical she's sad about the chastity bra,but I think the possibility to have a relationship(and be in love)is worth it,however.

Angelina and hopefully stay happy until the wedding 😃

I hope for her too.

Angelina your sister has done a lot of wrong in the last few months, she has been severely punished, but I think she has suffered enough and deserves a little happiness 😃

Sure,but I think she should have one opportunity,in some time,to prove such behaviors would never happen again,even with a bit more freedom.It would make her have even more happiness!😉

Sara2001

Vanessa "Good" she would have more freedom later,even if not married,at least.But it would be good too,if,after some time(maybe some months),he would let her prove to him she understood the rules and would be more obedient about these from now.

I agree with you, but it is not very likely. Especially because it looks like she can handle it well enough. She is of course still very unhappy, but the system itself is working without bigger problems.

Vanessa She knew it from your parents,but she was suprised you agreed to the same type of relationship?

Yes, she didn't think I would accept a relationship like this so easily. She is absolutely not into this lifestyle and will definitely not end up in a relationship like mine.

Vanessa But she may have been allowed to,and not punished for it,if she asked first,sure.

That's the point. Not her descision.

Vanessa Sure,but I think she should have one opportunity,in some time,to prove such behaviors would never happen again,even with a bit more freedom.It would make her have even more happiness!😉

I think my father will lower something after some time to proof her, but it will be a very small thing that she could earn, definitely not big enough to talk about additional freedom.

I will give an example. Before I had to wear the chain between my tightbands I doesn't have to wear tightbands during the day but only from dinner to the next morning. In the beginning I was not allowed to close the door to my room when I didn't wear the tightbands, after some month I got the freedom to decide that my tightbands will be back in place at an earlier time, so I could have time on my own in the afternoon.

Angelina

Vanessa (especially if she wants her relationship to be serious and last long,he should know it...)

I think so too, I think that absolute honesty is very important in such a special case to make the relationship work 😉

Vanessa Sure,but I think she should have one opportunity,in some time,to prove such behaviors would never happen again,even with a bit more freedom.It would make her have even more happiness!😉

interesting that you say but do not contradict my statement 🤣

Sara2001 but the system itself is working without bigger problems.

are there no hygienic problems with the bra?

Sara2001 I will give an example. Before I had to wear the chain between my tightbands I doesn't have to wear tightbands during the day but only from dinner to the next morning. In the beginning I was not allowed to close the door to my room when I didn't wear the tightbands, after some month I got the freedom to decide that my tightbands will be back in place at an earlier time, so I could have time on my own in the afternoon.

that's fair, it doesn't give you freedom in the true sense of the word but there is a certain amount of freedom of choice

so it's kind of a deal, like I often have with my father 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 agree with you, but it is not very likely. Especially because it looks like she can handle it well enough. She is of course still very unhappy, but the system itself is working without bigger problems.

Not good for her(even if better than having problems with hygiene while wearing it).

Sara2001 Yes, she didn't think I would accept a relationship like this so easily. She is absolutely not into this lifestyle and will definitely not end up in a relationship like mine.

If she's not into man led relationships,I understand she had trouble to understand your choice.

Sara2001 I think my father will lower something after some time to proof her, but it will be a very small thing that she could earn, definitely not big enough to talk about additional freedom.

It would at least be a pleasant first step.She should take care to use it to prove your father he can trust her again,and,maybe she could have a few more steps,until,at least,some freedom.

Angelina I think so too, I think that absolute honesty is very important in such a special case to make the relationship work 😉

Even more as it is far to be common.

Angelina interesting that you say but do not contradict my statement 🤣

It was to lessen the part about her misbhevaior,but it may look funny,yes!😉

Angelina there is a certain amount of freedom of choice

Better than nothing,I think.

Sara2001 it wouldn't be a big difference.

It would be a bit better for her,I think.

Sara2001

Right.But I guess she would like to be able to touch these(even only for shower)or look at these a bit more,instead of only having a piece of metal covering these.

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