Thighbands

Angelina i hope daniel can defend your interests with dignity, he seems to be something like your lawyer now . i think you have a much better chance because your father trusts daniel a lot

Yes, between my father and me this is a good description. I am sure he will fight well for my rights

Vanessa I hope it'll be allowed.

It's not allowed. They both think a woman should not be present if they have a discussion about things like that. If the woman is present she sees to much about the power between them, for the woman it should feel like one opinion From both of them (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality).

Sara2001 (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality).

exactly there i see the problem, i hope that daniel is very well aware of this responsibility

Angelina No one expects it to be that perfect. I just wanted to explain the idea behind it.

Sara2001

but in my opinion it must be perfect for this system to work well

Angelina That's not necessary. Really is never perfect.

Sara2001

and if situations arise where your system does not work, what do you do?

Angelina and if situations arise where your system does not work, what do you do?

As I said several times, the main concept of our relationship is making sure that the other one is happy. If I feel that this is no longer his goal, I will end the relationship. It's very easy.

Sara2001 If I feel that this is no longer his goal,

I do not mean a permanent state of dissatisfaction

i mean, what would you do if this situation rarely happens and it has bad consequences for you ?

Sara2001 I am sure he will fight well for my rights

Good!

Sara2001 It's not allowed. They both think a woman should not be present if they have a discussion about things like that. If the woman is present she sees to much about the power between them, for the woman it should feel like one opinion From both of them (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality)

I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!

Angelina

I think,in such relationships,the two partners should talk a lot,and often,to avoid it,or solve it when it happens.

Angelina I do not mean a permanent state of dissatisfaction

i mean, what would you do if this situation rarely happens and it has bad consequences for you ?

I would talk with him and until we had the talk I would accept whatever he wants if it is not dangerous for me.

Sara2001 I would talk with him and until we had the talk I would accept whatever he wants if it is not dangerous for me.

that's good, that sounds much better than the last post from you

Sara2001 His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.

that sounds like a good idea, even if it is only for the holidays did I understand correctly that daniel wouldn't have the keys to the bra during the holidays ?

Angelina that sounds like a good idea, even if it is only for the holidays did I understand correctly that daniel wouldn't have the keys to the bra during the holidays ?

He would have no access without knowledge of my father because it would be in an envelope. Yes, he had to pay a price for my freedom

Sara2001

it is not the ideal condition, but it is a deal that also has advantages for you, so you can walk a little better

Has your father already agreed?
If so, how many centimeters will you get?

Please forgive me but I have to ask... how do you manage with your period and thigh bands?

Dee

the tighbands do not influence my period, i do not bleed on my legs

What do you exactly mean?

Angelina the tighbands do not influence my period, i do not bleed on my legs

What do you exactly mean?

I can't put anything under my cb, so I wear special underwear and a pad over my cb. The underwear is hand made. The system is working like a diaper, so I can close it at the sides to get it under the chain.

Dee
Moré openings in my case. Worst is belly inflation. Fortunately my mother is fair enough to open every time I ask it with a reasonable motivation.

Sara2001

interesting, maybe I think about trying that too

i currently always put pads in the cb, this sometimes causes problems when i go to pee, but it's my only solution. at home i can ask my dad to open the pad and i take it out before peeing, but in school it's already uncomfortable

but my tighbands are no problem during the period and @Dee wears the tighbands only when she goes out

Sara2001

Too bad for her!

No "second chance",to prove him she has understood the rules?

Or is he stricter due,at least partly,to the fact she cheated on her belt soon before?

Angelina

I agree.

Angelina he always gives me the chance to make things easier for me through good behaviour

It is better.Even if it could be understandable it needs much time,if we still misbehave(especially about a similar offense).

Sara2001

It is very severe...

Angelina this is a very long time and it will be very hard for them

But,if their relationship last,he will be able to support her,it would be helpful.

mekekelo

In fact,she did.She was not supposed to date someone hiddenly,what she did... I can understand her,but I understand too her father is very unhappy.

Sara2001 She doesn't understand why I agreed and thinks I am crazy

Logical.I guess she was very surprised when you told it to her!

Sara2001 I think it will be very different for me because I will have regular releases.

It would still be hard,but better,sure.

Sara2001 she told his boyfriend from school about her equipment just after she had to change school. This was wrong, too.

I guess it plays a part in the severity of her rules,right?

However,we can notice that cheating on her belt,after some troubles,gave her the possibility to meet her boyfriend and fall in love with him...A misbehavior that ended pretty well for her(even if it is the reason for her chastity bra).

Angelina

I don't think it is wrong generally.But it is wrong in her family...So I can understand her father's decision to punish her,even if I don't support it.He could have been happy she did the right choice of boyfriend,as it seems he's approved.

Angelina

Which means more opening,and it is an important difference!