Chastity bra

Sara2001

Vanessa Maybe a too quick decision,but now it's done...

It took me weeks. I couldn't wait any longer. The in-between state made me crazy.

Vanessa Does your father know it?And your sister?

Daniel will make the rules clear between my father and him before we talk about my decision.

Vanessa Let's hope your boyfriend would use this power responsibly,yes.And that he would unlock you often.

If not it has a positive effect, too. Because if he doesn't take care of my wishes and needs I know earlier that he is not Mr. Right. So I would waste less time him. But I think he is Mr. Right 🙂

Vanessa I think too.

I still think it will be to my birthday in April as it was my idea at the beginning.

I think maybe it can be even easier then the "no touch"-rule I have now.

Angelina

Sara2001 I think maybe it can be even easier then the "no touch"-rule I have now.

of course it makes sense in this point and it is also easier, this rule is not reasonable to apply anyway

if it's really your birthday in april we have something in common 😉 even if you made the decision yourself . you have time to observe the functions of the bras at your sister's house (has her bra been delivered yet ?)

Vanessa

Sara2001 It took me weeks. I couldn't wait any longer. The in-between state made me crazy.

So thought about enough,yes.

Sara2001 Daniel will make the rules clear between my father and him before we talk about my decision.

Good they both agree,but it would have been even better if you were included in the talk...

Sara2001 If not it has a positive effect, too. Because if he doesn't take care of my wishes and needs I know earlier that he is not Mr. Right. So I would waste less time him. But I think he is Mr. Right 🙂

Right.A good test.

Sara2001 I still think it will be to my birthday in April as it was my idea at the beginning.

So,pretty soon,but after your sister.

Sara2001 I think maybe it can be even easier then the "no touch"-rule I have now.

I guess so,yes.A good use of it,at least!

Sara2001

I guess she get more and more worried and nervous while the first day of her wearing become closer.

Angelina i wish you and your sister much strength, it's really not easy (especially mentally) 🙁

I agree!

Angelina and I hope that daniel lets you out and spoils you often 😉

Let's hope so.

Sara2001

Angelina has her bra been delivered yet ?

No, it didn't arrive or at least she is not wearing it actually. I don't think it will take a lot of time until it arrives.

Angelina

Sara2001

i wish you and your sister much strength, it's really not easy (especially mentally) 🙁

and I hope that daniel lets you out and spoils you often 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Good they both agree,but it would have been even better if you were included in the talk...

That's not how it is working in our family and most probably it wouldn't be better. Daniel and my father can negotiate some kind of agreement while my my presence would immediately lead to a leader > submissive situation. I think they can talk at the same level, so I think my father will be more open for anything.

Vanessa I guess she get more and more worried and nervous while the first day of her wearing become closer.

I am really worried already but excited in the same time. It's a crazy time and it leads to more changes then I expected, like that I will no longer be part of discussions with my father, at least very often.

Vanessa Let's hope so.

For him. I will not be the nice submissive girlfriend he loves to have if I didn't get my fun. 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 I am really worried already but excited in the same time. It's a crazy time and it leads to more changes then I expected, like that I will no longer be part of discussions with my father, at least very often.

I don't even know what to say now.

it seems to me a little like your father doesn't care about your opinion and daniel now has to be the "mouthpiece" for both of you 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001 That's not how it is working in our family and most probably it wouldn't be better. Daniel and my father can negotiate some kind of agreement while my my presence would immediately lead to a leader > submissive situation. I think they can talk at the same level, so I think my father will be more open for anything.

Yes,if he'll react this way,it would be more easy to do it like it is planned.Will your opinion and feelings be taken into account,when you'll talk about your decision,even if it is after?

Sara2001 I am really worried already but excited in the same time. It's a crazy time and it leads to more changes then I expected, like that I will no longer be part of discussions with my father, at least very often.

Only about the chastity bra,or more generally?

Sara2001 For him. I will not be the nice submissive girlfriend he loves to have if I didn't get my fun. 🙂

So I hope you'll both get all the fun you want!😉

Angelina

It seems her father want to give more "power" to him about @Sara2001's lifestyle,maybe to prepare him well to lead the couple,as the relationship seems to be very serious,and can easily lead to marriage.

Sara2001

Angelina it seems to me a little like your father doesn't care about your opinion and daniel now has to be the "mouthpiece" for both of you 🙁

Of course that's not the case, communication structure is just very different. I think it is good that I am allowed to clarify anything with Daniel so that I don't have to deal with my father and Daniels opinion. It doesn't mean that my father doesn't care for me but that he trusts Daniel well enough to give him this responsibility. For me this is very good, because I know earlier how it will be later.

Vanessa Yes,if he'll react this way,it would be more easy to do it like it is planned.Will your opinion and feelings be taken into account,when you'll talk about your decision,even if it is after?

Normally I have to say my options and feelings before Daniel and my father talk. But if they have overseen something important they will of course talk again.

Vanessa Only about the chastity bra,or more generally?

In general. The chastity bra is only the beginning.

Vanessa It seems her father want to give more "power" to him about @Sara2001's lifestyle,maybe to prepare him well to lead the couple,as the relationship seems to be very serious,and can easily lead to marriage.

I think the same, this is how he supports our relationship and give us more freedom of choice. In our lifestyle this means the power goes to Daniel.

Sara2001

Angelina Has your father already agreed?
If so, how many centimeters will you get?

Daniel will wait with this suggestion until we know more about long time wearing the chastity bra to make sure it is possible and not to unpleasant.

Angelina

Sara2001

it is possible and it is unpleasant 🙁

what worries me much more is that you can't shower your breasts for several weeks 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001 His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.

I think it is a good idea,too.Not possible to play with your breasts,but easier to walk.

Sara2001 Yes, he had to pay a price for my freedom 🙂

A good proof of love.He would lose access to something he likes to increase your freedom.🙂

Sara2001 Daniel will wait with this suggestion until we know more about long time wearing the chastity bra to make sure it is possible and not to unpleasant.

Better to wait for knowing it,yes.

Sara2001 It has to be save from a hygienic point of view.

Sure;very important to take care of it.

Angelina then i could test it during the easter holidays and give you my experience 😉

Even if it is unlikely I would have to wear if full time,it is interesting for me too.

Sara2001 Maybe I will already have my own experience at this time.

But you'll have another input from your sister.

Angelina Maybe I will if you will. Then we'll share the experience 😉

It's a good idea.

Sara2001

Angelina what worries me much more is that you can't shower your breasts for several weeks 🙁

For me that's the major aspect that makes it unpleasant. We will only make this offer when we know what happens when I can not take a shower without chastity bra for a long time. It has to be save from a hygienic point of view.

Angelina

Sara2001

of course this could be a big problem 🙁

when i have school holidays i can test it for 2 weeks 😂

Sara2001

Angelina when i have school holidays i can test it for 2 weeks 😂

For me this would be awesome :🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

you're not going on vacation until summer, right?

then i could test it during the easter holidays and give you my experience 😉

Sara2001

Angelina you're not going on vacation until summer, right?

then i could test it during the easter holidays and give you my experience 😉

Yes, that would be great.

Angelina

Sara2001

ok I'll test it for you 😉

even if it won't be easy

Sara2001

Angelina ok I'll test it for you 😉

even if it won't be easy

That's so extremely nice. Maybe I will already have my own experience at this time. Than I won't need your input and of course tell you this as early as possible, but I think it is very unlikely that I already have air holes in the cups this time and I think they are very important for this.

Angelina

Sara2001

if you already got the bra by then, you should definitely have air holes 😉 without them the result of my experiment would be very falsified, because it is much more comfortable with the air holes (I would say it is impossible without air holes 🙁 )

i will contact you when my easter holidays start, then you can write again if you do the experiment yourself or if i do it

Maybe I will if you will. Then we'll share the experience 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa But you'll have another input from your sister.

Yes, but at least actually she has daily cleaning break. She is allowed to wash her breasts without the bra for 2 minutes every evening.

Angelina

Vanessa Even if it is unlikely I would have to wear if full time,it is interesting for me too.

then we do it together, maybe @Lea wants to join in 😃

Sara2001 Yes, but at least actually she has daily cleaning break. She is allowed to wash her breasts without the bra for 2 minutes every evening.

very good and very important, I have it similar with my disinfection breaks 😉

maybe she also wants to take part in our test ? 😃

Vanessa

Sara2001

2 minutes is not a long time,but she can look at her breasts a bit every day,at least.

Angelina then we do it together, maybe @Lea wants to join in 😃

Interesting to read your opinion,I won't do it!😉

I wear it often enough and don't want to prove to my parents I can wear it longer!

Angelina I understand that, she has the bra only a few days it is still very bad for her 🙁

I agree.She needs time to manage it as good as she can.

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