Thighbands
Sara2001 I am sure he will fight well for my rights
Good!
Sara2001 It's not allowed. They both think a woman should not be present if they have a discussion about things like that. If the woman is present she sees to much about the power between them, for the woman it should feel like one opinion From both of them (at least that's the abstract Idea behind it, of course it is not that perfect in reality)
I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!
I think,in such relationships,the two partners should talk a lot,and often,to avoid it,or solve it when it happens.
Vanessa I've understood it(but don't share this opirnion);I talked about the longer chain!
Daniel will address this point when he knows better how the chastity bra is working and how long it is possible to wear it in a row.
His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.
Sara2001 I would talk with him and until we had the talk I would accept whatever he wants if it is not dangerous for me.
that's good, that sounds much better than the last post from you 
Sara2001 His idea is to change the longer chain during holiday against the access to my chastity bra (that will definitely be in place in summer). He said if it is oiss and save he offer my father to just take the key with us in a closed and marked envelope in exchange for a longer chain. I think that's a good idea, even if I will miss the playing time, but I think it's still better than being unable to do almost anything.
that sounds like a good idea, even if it is only for the holidays did I understand correctly that daniel wouldn't have the keys to the bra during the holidays ?
Angelina that sounds like a good idea, even if it is only for the holidays
He would have no access without knowledge of my father because it would be in an envelope. Yes, he had to pay a price for my freedom
Please forgive me but I have to ask... how do you manage with your period and thigh bands?
Angelina the tighbands do not influence my period, i do not bleed on my legs
What do you exactly mean?
I can't put anything under my cb, so I wear special underwear and a pad over my cb. The underwear is hand made. The system is working like a diaper, so I can close it at the sides to get it under the chain.
interesting, maybe I think about trying that too
i currently always put pads in the cb, this sometimes causes problems when i go to pee, but it's my only solution. at home i can ask my dad to open the pad and i take it out before peeing, but in school it's already uncomfortable 
but my tighbands are no problem during the period and @Dee wears the tighbands only when she goes out
Too bad for her!
No "second chance",to prove him she has understood the rules?
Or is he stricter due,at least partly,to the fact she cheated on her belt soon before?
I agree.
Angelina he always gives me the chance to make things easier for me through good behaviour
It is better.Even if it could be understandable it needs much time,if we still misbehave(especially about a similar offense).
It is very severe...
Angelina this is a very long time and it will be very hard for them
But,if their relationship last,he will be able to support her,it would be helpful.
In fact,she did.She was not supposed to date someone hiddenly,what she did... I can understand her,but I understand too her father is very unhappy.
Sara2001 She doesn't understand why I agreed and thinks I am crazy
Logical.I guess she was very surprised when you told it to her!
Sara2001 I think it will be very different for me because I will have regular releases.
It would still be hard,but better,sure.
Sara2001 she told his boyfriend from school about her equipment just after she had to change school. This was wrong, too.
I guess it plays a part in the severity of her rules,right?
However,we can notice that cheating on her belt,after some troubles,gave her the possibility to meet her boyfriend and fall in love with him...A misbehavior that ended pretty well for her(even if it is the reason for her chastity bra).
I don't think it is wrong generally.But it is wrong in her family...So I can understand her father's decision to punish her,even if I don't support it.He could have been happy she did the right choice of boyfriend,as it seems he's approved.
Which means more opening,and it is an important difference!
Vanessa No "second chance",to prove him she has understood the rules?
Or is he stricter due,at least partly,to the fact she cheated on her belt soon before?
If it comes to her sexual pleasure, he is very very strict. After lying, dangerous things respecting male and obedience, this is the most important rule in our family and she broke it with major incidents two times in a row. My father really hated that. I think he now keeps her locked in her equipment unit she turns 18.
Vanessa Logical.I guess she was very surprised when you told it to her!
She was surprised when I told her what kind of relationship I have with Daniel, now she only wonders how I can accept so much. Sometime I wonder myself
Vanessa I guess it plays a part in the severity of her rules,right?
A very big part, because it was a big additional risk. My father wants to make sure that something similar will never happen again.
Vanessa A misbehavior that ended pretty well for her(even if it is the reason for her chastity bra).
Yes, at the end it will bring her additional restrictions but also additional freedom. Actually she is very sad about her chastity bra but also very happy for her boyfriend. I hope her relationship will be long and happy.
Sara2001 She was surprised when I told her what kind of relationship I have with Daniel, now she only wonders how I can accept so much. Sometime I wonder myself
i can understand your sister 100%, i have accepted it by now but i also wonder every day that the relationship works so well
Sara2001 I hope her relationship will be long and happy.
and hopefully stay happy until the wedding
your sister has done a lot of wrong in the last few months, she has been severely punished, but I think she has suffered enough and deserves a little happiness
Sara2001 If it comes to her sexual pleasure, he is very very strict. After lying, dangerous things respecting male and obedience, this is the most important rule in our family and she broke it with major incidents two times in a row. My father really hated that. I think he now keeps her locked in her equipment unit she turns 18.
"Good" she would have more freedom later,even if not married,at least.But it would be good too,if,after some time(maybe some months),he would let her prove to him she understood the rules and would be more obedient about these from now.
Sara2001 She was surprised when I told her what kind of relationship I have with Daniel, now she only wonders how I can accept so much. Sometime I wonder myself
She knew it from your parents,but she was suprised you agreed to the same type of relationship?
Sara2001 A very big part, because it was a big additional risk. My father wants to make sure that something similar will never happen again.
Not good for her,but understandable.Even if I think cheating on her chastity belt in the toilet was way more an offense than showing it to her boyfriend(especially if she wants her relationship to be serious and last long,he should know it...).But she may have been allowed to,and not punished for it,if she asked first,sure.
Sara2001 Yes, at the end it will bring her additional restrictions but also additional freedom. Actually she is very sad about her chastity bra but also very happy for her boyfriend. I hope her relationship will be long and happy.
Logical she's sad about the chastity bra,but I think the possibility to have a relationship(and be in love)is worth it,however.
Angelina and hopefully stay happy until the wedding
I hope for her too.
Angelina your sister has done a lot of wrong in the last few months, she has been severely punished, but I think she has suffered enough and deserves a little happiness
Sure,but I think she should have one opportunity,in some time,to prove such behaviors would never happen again,even with a bit more freedom.It would make her have even more happiness!