Ines I think so, but not for misstrust

Sure that's not about mistrust, it can't be solved by a chastity belt. But @newbie has asked the concrete question

      It's not mistrust. We are together for many years, we were many situations where trust was checked like - financial crises, some time when we don't live together, at the beginning of relationship we had very long-distance relationship. Both of us was possibility to breakout, promiscuity, possibility don't help 2nd half or even make a decision which is good for only 1, but none of us done it. I also fully accepts that her personality type is solitary , which is demanding for boyfriends ; ) (via oldham)

      @Ines is closest to think which I have about cb, but without frustration. The idea that your GF femininity is fully on your hands is very exiting for me.

      Even in CB she can easily be unlocked or break up engage. Even in CB woman is still independent person in hers decisions. Only children changed it, but partly. And I support what I wrote earlier If she refused CB or feels bad in it I will simple stop this play 🙂

        newbie I think you need to know if she wants it as play or as part of her life - but that's her choice.

            newbie The idea that your GF femininity is fully on your hands is very exiting for me.

            And if she likes it, she will be very happy, but that happiness includes a bit of frustration. It is not bad at all.

                Laura Sure that's not about mistrust, it can't be solved by a chastity belt.

                I agree.

                newbie

                Your relationship seems to be pretty strong.

                Do you think she could like to have her feminity in your hands?You told us she's a bit submissive,so would it be possible for her to accept,and like,it?

                Good you plan to not do it,without bad consequences,if she refuses or to stop as soon as she wants.

                James

                Right.They should be sure they consider it in the same way.

                Ines

                I think too,it includes some frustration.And if she likes to wear one,she may like it too.

                          Vanessa Do you think she could like to have her feminity in your hands?You told us she's a bit submissive,so would it be possible for her to accept,and like,it?

                          She gives me control many times so why not give me control over femininity?
                          I think she should accept to wear cb as gadget. But for long term? No Idea. Probably it will be easier when we back to co-housing. I will talk with her about it, when find few free days for ourselves.

                              newbie

                              Yes,you should discuss it with her calmly.Maybe propose her to start for short term duration and extend it step by step,if she hesitates.

                                newbie I think she should accept to wear cb as gadget. But for long term? No Idea

                                But what do you actually want?

                                    Renita Convince her to Lock up for short term and just observe how it's work. If the CB work well, lock up for longer periods like when I am away for delegation or when I simply really want it 🙂

                                        newbie I guess I’d say you have it backwards? What you really want to work out is how she wants to express herself and how she wants to wear it?

                                          newbie Yes, but what's a goal? Do you want to be sure that she is not cheating on you? Or use it as reminder for her?

                                            Reminder for who she belongs. I dont afraid cheating at all and i am not jealous.

                                              newbie ....that is not really how a woman thinks. She doesn’t belong - she wants to submit as an expression of pure love and trust maybe, but she doesn’t belong.

                                                  newbie

                                                  your girlfriend is not your property, and there are much more beautiful things than a cb to symbolize belonging to a partner (such as a wedding ring) 😉

                                                      Angelina I meant it symbolic. Sorry for misunderstanding - I haven't use English for 5y 🙂

                                                          @newbie

                                                          The only thing to do now is to talk with her about it.It is diffcult to decide anything as long as you don't know her feelings and thoughts about it.

                                                          James

                                                          I agree.Except,maybe,if she is very submissive,like in BDSM.And it seems it is not her case.

                                                          Laura

                                                          Should it be a new type of belt;the "wedding belt"?A belt like a chastity belt,but easy to open for the husband/wife? 😛

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                                                                So this is a question for all the future belted wives, or the ones who are already in a belted with a boyfriend/husband and obviously this is more like a kind of game during your marriage, but since your spouse is still in full control of your pleasure region, it is probably fair to assume that sexual release would still be more restricted, than without your belt. How often do you think a belted wife should be unlocked/allowed to cum? In comparison to her husband?

                                                                  PaulE this is more like a kind of game during your marriage

                                                                  I will stay belted after marriage, and I don't feel that it will be a kind of game. Even if my wearing is consensual, we will not really "play" around it.

                                                                  PaulE How often do you think a belted wife should be unlocked/allowed to cum? In comparison to her husband?

                                                                  I would love to cum whenever my husband cums, I think it is good for feeling submissive if it is less often, like he can cum several times a day, not important how often he uses this chance, while I can only cum any few days or so. Actually it looks like he wants to restrict my orgasms even more so I can expect that he will only let me cum 1 or 2 times a month.