Vanessa Do you think she could like to have her feminity in your hands?You told us she's a bit submissive,so would it be possible for her to accept,and like,it?
She gives me control many times so why not give me control over femininity?
I think she should accept to wear cb as gadget. But for long term? No Idea. Probably it will be easier when we back to co-housing. I will talk with her about it, when find few free days for ourselves.
Reminder for who she belongs. I dont afraid cheating at all and i am not jealous.
The only thing to do now is to talk with her about it.It is diffcult to decide anything as long as you don't know her feelings and thoughts about it.
I agree.Except,maybe,if she is very submissive,like in BDSM.And it seems it is not her case.
Should it be a new type of belt;the "wedding belt"?A belt like a chastity belt,but easy to open for the husband/wife? 
So this is a question for all the future belted wives, or the ones who are already in a belted with a boyfriend/husband and obviously this is more like a kind of game during your marriage, but since your spouse is still in full control of your pleasure region, it is probably fair to assume that sexual release would still be more restricted, than without your belt. How often do you think a belted wife should be unlocked/allowed to cum? In comparison to her husband?
PaulE this is more like a kind of game during your marriage
I will stay belted after marriage, and I don't feel that it will be a kind of game. Even if my wearing is consensual, we will not really "play" around it.
PaulE How often do you think a belted wife should be unlocked/allowed to cum? In comparison to her husband?
I would love to cum whenever my husband cums, I think it is good for feeling submissive if it is less often, like he can cum several times a day, not important how often he uses this chance, while I can only cum any few days or so. Actually it looks like he wants to restrict my orgasms even more so I can expect that he will only let me cum 1 or 2 times a month.
Sara2001 Actually it looks like he wants to restrict my orgasms even more so I can expect that he will only let me cum 1 or 2 times a month.
Wow, I mean that's not a lot of chances you get there. I believe you said your sister in law only get's like 12 chances a year. But yours would only be 12-24. Still a lot better, but not that much. But I also think you said they play a game of edging and denial with that.
Do you think this could be used to improve a girls behavior? Like any major punishment would also cancel her next scheduled release. That would make you want to get on his good side, right? You could even propose him to getting a few more chances a year, but making them dependent on your behavior. Win - Win
I guess it would be even more effective the way your sister in law does it, since of course hers are more rare and also she is kept in a more desperate state to want one.
Sara2001 my wearing is consensual,
Sara is this getting out of hand? I wonder one a man is 100% in charge if that is what you want a traditional old time marriage. What is in it for him to push past 100%???
What is this about his sister? Even if she is to be obedient to her husband If I were her brother, sister, or parent there would still be requirements for her happiness.
I don't know exactly what is going on so I just see this is all moving rather suddenly.
PaulE I will only get orgasms as a reward for outstanding good behaviour. If I doesn't act as expected, I will most probably loose my orgasm. I don't know if we will do the edging thing, too. I really have mixed feelings about it but my (future) sister in law swears to me that it is extremely hot for her.
Megan Sara is this getting out of hand? I wonder one a man is 100% in charge if that is what you want a traditional old time marriage. What is in it for him to push past 100%?
I think it should be anything or nothing. I don't want a husband who only want to be the leader if he feels in the right mood. In this case I would prefer a relationship with equal rights.
Megan What is this about his sister? Even if she is to be obedient to her husband If I were her brother, sister, or parent there would still be requirements for her happiness.
She is very happy and tells me that she has an exciting sex life.
Megan I don't know exactly what is going on so I just see this is all moving rather suddenly.
Right now and for the next year's nothing will change in our sex life, because as long as we are not married he will get no access to my chastity belt. After marriage he will have full control of my orgasms and will only grand them when he sees fit. He things, and I can see his point, that a submissive wife should focus on the husbands pleasure and not her own. So if I know, that no matter how much effort I invest in a sexual "session", only he can release his urges, I can focus more on him. Basically that's what we do now, too and I really enjoy his orgasms.
