newbie I think you need to know if she wants it as play or as part of her life - but that's her choice.

      newbie The idea that your GF femininity is fully on your hands is very exiting for me.

      And if she likes it, she will be very happy, but that happiness includes a bit of frustration. It is not bad at all.

          Laura Sure that's not about mistrust, it can't be solved by a chastity belt.

          I agree.

          newbie

          Your relationship seems to be pretty strong.

          Do you think she could like to have her feminity in your hands?You told us she's a bit submissive,so would it be possible for her to accept,and like,it?

          Good you plan to not do it,without bad consequences,if she refuses or to stop as soon as she wants.

          James

          Right.They should be sure they consider it in the same way.

          Ines

          I think too,it includes some frustration.And if she likes to wear one,she may like it too.

                    Vanessa Do you think she could like to have her feminity in your hands?You told us she's a bit submissive,so would it be possible for her to accept,and like,it?

                    She gives me control many times so why not give me control over femininity?
                    I think she should accept to wear cb as gadget. But for long term? No Idea. Probably it will be easier when we back to co-housing. I will talk with her about it, when find few free days for ourselves.

                        newbie

                        Yes,you should discuss it with her calmly.Maybe propose her to start for short term duration and extend it step by step,if she hesitates.

                          newbie I think she should accept to wear cb as gadget. But for long term? No Idea

                          But what do you actually want?

                              Renita Convince her to Lock up for short term and just observe how it's work. If the CB work well, lock up for longer periods like when I am away for delegation or when I simply really want it 🙂

                                  newbie I guess I’d say you have it backwards? What you really want to work out is how she wants to express herself and how she wants to wear it?

                                    newbie Yes, but what's a goal? Do you want to be sure that she is not cheating on you? Or use it as reminder for her?

                                      Reminder for who she belongs. I dont afraid cheating at all and i am not jealous.

                                        newbie ....that is not really how a woman thinks. She doesn’t belong - she wants to submit as an expression of pure love and trust maybe, but she doesn’t belong.

                                            newbie

                                            your girlfriend is not your property, and there are much more beautiful things than a cb to symbolize belonging to a partner (such as a wedding ring) 😉

                                                Angelina I meant it symbolic. Sorry for misunderstanding - I haven't use English for 5y 🙂

                                                    @newbie

                                                    The only thing to do now is to talk with her about it.It is diffcult to decide anything as long as you don't know her feelings and thoughts about it.

                                                    James

                                                    I agree.Except,maybe,if she is very submissive,like in BDSM.And it seems it is not her case.

                                                    Laura

                                                    Should it be a new type of belt;the "wedding belt"?A belt like a chastity belt,but easy to open for the husband/wife? 😛

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                                                          So this is a question for all the future belted wives, or the ones who are already in a belted with a boyfriend/husband and obviously this is more like a kind of game during your marriage, but since your spouse is still in full control of your pleasure region, it is probably fair to assume that sexual release would still be more restricted, than without your belt. How often do you think a belted wife should be unlocked/allowed to cum? In comparison to her husband?

                                                            PaulE this is more like a kind of game during your marriage

                                                            I will stay belted after marriage, and I don't feel that it will be a kind of game. Even if my wearing is consensual, we will not really "play" around it.

                                                            PaulE How often do you think a belted wife should be unlocked/allowed to cum? In comparison to her husband?

                                                            I would love to cum whenever my husband cums, I think it is good for feeling submissive if it is less often, like he can cum several times a day, not important how often he uses this chance, while I can only cum any few days or so. Actually it looks like he wants to restrict my orgasms even more so I can expect that he will only let me cum 1 or 2 times a month.

                                                                  Sara2001

                                                                  I agree with this, as a wife i should only be able to cum once a month

                                                                      Sara2001 Actually it looks like he wants to restrict my orgasms even more so I can expect that he will only let me cum 1 or 2 times a month.

                                                                      Wow, I mean that's not a lot of chances you get there. I believe you said your sister in law only get's like 12 chances a year. But yours would only be 12-24. Still a lot better, but not that much. But I also think you said they play a game of edging and denial with that.

                                                                      Do you think this could be used to improve a girls behavior? Like any major punishment would also cancel her next scheduled release. That would make you want to get on his good side, right? You could even propose him to getting a few more chances a year, but making them dependent on your behavior. Win - Win

                                                                      I guess it would be even more effective the way your sister in law does it, since of course hers are more rare and also she is kept in a more desperate state to want one.