Max9

i agree with you completely on the first part. on the second part you seem to be getting a bit worked up. you can't control love, it's there or it's not. not everyone makes the promise to god (i won't) and for me marriage doesn't mean love until death, but the promise to try everything to make the marriage last until the end of life, but no one should be unhappily married.

    Angelina Depends on whether your objective is to preserve virginity or to prevent unmarried sex. If the objective is the latter, then it only matters whether the person is married now, not whether they have been in the past. Same with widows.

      Angelina for me marriage doesn't mean love until death, but the promise to try everything to make the marriage last until the end of life, but no one should be unhappily married.

      Well said.

      Angelina yes, but then it can happen that a woman stays in the belt until she dies, scary idea or marries a man by force in order not to die as a virgin. 🙁

      Right,it would not be very good in such cases...

      HHelen

      As it would be a dystopie,I guess it would mean back in the chastity belt.

      Angelina

      It was meant about the wearing of chastity devices.

      youdontknowme Depends on whether your objective is to preserve virginity or to prevent unmarried sex. If the objective is the latter, then it only matters whether the person is married now, not whether they have been in the past.

      Right.

        youdontknowme

        i agree with you, but my answer was not really related to the goal of the belt, but only my opinion on the mother's statement.

        Vanessa It was meant about the wearing of chastity devices.

        I know I took the sentence out of context, but that was my intention, because this sentence is simply wrong (my opinion).

        Vanessa it would mean back in the chastity belt

        "It would mean" or "It would be mean"?

          HHelen Therefore it's mean.

          depends on what the goal is, if the goal is to maintain virginity it is of course also nonsense

            Vanessa a woman would have to wear it again until married again.

            Hence you support my mom's decision.

              Vanessa But not sure it is the goal,in this case.

              yes, I am not 100% sure either

              Angelina if the goal is to maintain virginity it is of course also nonsense

              She would have to maintain her marital status at any cost, because it's only way to avoid a chastity belt.

                Renita that's true, for some people it means the behinning of life

                HHelen She would have to maintain her marital status at any cost, because it's only way to avoid a chastity belt.

                which would be terrible if she were unhappily married.

                Renita Chastity belt is not end of life.

                At least better than an unhappy marriage

                  Vanessa Only in a dystopie using a chastity belt law.

                  wait and see how it develops in a few years time