Chastity belt law

Angelina which would be terrible if she were unhappily married.

Her marriage would be only for status, that gives he a right to not wear a belt and be in a relationship with someone else.

HHelen

yes, but i don't like sham marriages, for me they have the wrong moral concepts.

HHelen that gives he a right to not wear a belt

Unless her current husband requires it.

Angelina but i don't like sham marriages, for me they have the wrong moral concepts.

This is reality, despite it's wrong. I have few female friends doing it.

Renita Unless her current husband requires it.

If he is aware of.

HHelen If he is aware of.

Somebody would tell him.

Angelina

I doubt it would happen.

Angelina

I agree.

If she's unhappy,she should divorce instead of staying married and have a lover.

Renita

Not if they're discreet enough.

Vanessa Not if they're discreet enough.

And not tell friends like @HHelen

HHelen This is reality, despite it's wrong. I have few female friends doing it.

I know it is reality, but in my opinion it is worse than chastity and absolutely unacceptable.

Vanessa I doubt it would happen.

i can no longer be surprised by politics i can now imagine anything

Vanessa If she's unhappy,she should divorce instead of staying married and have a lover.

I agree

Vanessa If she's unhappy,she should divorce instead of staying married and have a lover.

Different status.

Angelina but in my opinion it is worse than chastity and absolutely unacceptable.

Would you approve a chastity belt in this case?

Vanessa Only in a dystopie using a chastity belt law.

She believes it's real.

Vanessa If she's unhappy,she should divorce instead of staying married and have a lover.

Agree.

HHelen Different status.

Why?

Angelina not everyone makes the promise to god (i won't) and for me marriage doesn't mean love until death, but the promise to try everything to make the marriage last until the end of life, but no one should be unhappily married.

Just saw this and it struck a cord. Angela and I are not married - at least in the eyes of the law. When we first got together it wasn't an option anyway. Marriage and even civil unions were not yet a "thing". Instead we lived together (in sin? ). At first it was just convenient (she nursed me back to health). Then we became aware that by living together we made each other happy. Both of us realised that while it wasn't always roses, on balance we made each others lives better and grew "comfortable" in our relationship. It always made more sense to stay together and work out what differences we had, than to split up. In essence we became "married" in the truest sense of the word.

While we have never formally promised to stay married until death us do part, long ago we realised that that is what we both want. Our goal ultimately is to make each other happy and by doing so increase our own happiness. It works for us and these days we actually both wear rings signifying our unity.

Angela has indeed looked after me in sickness and in health and I would always do the same for her. It doesn't matter that we occasionally get cranky and annoyed with each other, we have long since learned that what ever our differences are, together we can always sort things out and restore life to the wonderful feeling of being together.

Believe me, it has nothing to do with chastity or sex. They merely add to the spice of life, increase the fun, and humor. My "equipment" while real and very much a part of my life, is merely an adjunct to our relationship, albeit providing a sense of being bound together which is important, but only because it is consensual on both our parts.

(Sorry if this was off topic - but Angelina's comment triggered my commenting urge )

HHelen Would you approve a chastity belt in this case?

of course, i would go even further and shoot myself rather than marry someone i don't love, marriage is too important for me.

Rina

admire your strength and i totally agree with you, however, the difference is that it is not a legal requirement to wear a belt. you should decide the way you can best accept yourself

Foxies (Sorry if this was off topic - but Angelina's comment triggered my commenting urge )

i always enjoy reading your comments because they are very harmoniously written and yes i agree with you. of course no one is forced to get married and even a partnership without marriage can mean love until the end of life. but for me marriage means a promise, a promise that i am determined to share my life with camryn.

HHelen Would you approve a chastity belt in this case?

Have your friends seen your belt?

Angelina

I understand completely. I would only point out that you can make a promise in numerous ways. And such promises can be just as binding, with or without the sanctity of any authority. We just chose to make the promises personal and private,

Angelina however, the difference is that it is not a legal requirement to wear a belt. you should decide the way you can best accept yoursel

That's why I said it would be very dystopian thing.

Foxies I would only point out that you can make a promise in numerous ways. And such promises can be just as binding, with or without the sanctity of any authority.

Yes agreed it's not about church or the government but I'd like to include family and friends

Renita And not tell friends

Of course.

Angelina it is worse than chastity

I agree.

HHelen Different status.

But she would be able to find someone else to marry,which make her happier,even if it means a "lower" status for a while.

HHelen Would you approve a chastity belt in this case?

If the only possibilities are an unhappy marriage or a chastity belt?

The chastity belt,in my case.

Foxies

It is very romantic.

And a good way to consider how you live together,even if not wed.

I like you wear rings like wedding ones,too.

Angelina i always enjoy reading your comments

Me too.

Foxies We just chose to make the promises personal and private,

that is also perfectly ok, but i must also point out again that at least in our country there are also legal things that ensure that we make this promise as a marriage promise.

Rina That's why I said it would be very dystopian thing.

I agree with you, even though I don't think it's impossible

Vanessa If the only possibilities are an unhappy marriage or a chastity belt?

The chastity belt,in my case.

I agree even if it is a hard decision