Been gone a while
good that it's working better now. does your mother meet your boyfriend in the meantime?
as for the belt, you should think about what will happen if you break the belt and what the consequences will be. think about it, maybe you will get married sooner than you think, then it wouldn't be worth the risk.
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Yes,but at least,you know it could work well!
Funguy My mom hasn’t met him yet and I’m not sure when that will happen.
Is she open about meeting him?
Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?
Funguy If I break it I’m sure my relationship with my mom will be very angry with me and might cut contact for a while or maybe stop supporting me so I don’t think it’s worth it I’ll just wait.
It's the consequences for many of us,and we generally make the same decision too.
Funguy And if he’s willing to wait then I am too I think it’s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf
that would be the best. the question is of course if you have a good relationship with your mother outside of the chastity topic, if so (like me with my father) it is probably not worth giving that up.
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Yeah we do have a good relationship she’s my mom and I love her and she loves me and we get along very well and it’s great. The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.
Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.
Funguy The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.
From what you've written I really think she does have good intentions. Experience does count for something. Looking back on my own life, if I had a do-over, I'd put me in a belt if I could.
Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.
Best of luck with this Funguy!!