Funguy I guess marry my bf and then see what I do about the belt.

When?

      Funguy Oh wow! I'm so happy to read you've told your mother how things are. I think it's much better to live life as the person you really are. That's great news. As to the belt... well, at least you know what the arrangement actually is now.

          Angelina

          Thanks for the advice 🙂 I'm so happy she didn't freak out and hopefully I'll be able to move out soon and then maybe I'll break the belt or just wait I'm not sure.

              Funguy Maybe a year or 2.

              So long. Why did you ever talk to your mom about it?

                  Renita

                  Because I wanted her to know and I wanted to be sure what I’d have to do to get out of the belt.

                      Funguy

                      good that it's working better now. does your mother meet your boyfriend in the meantime?

                      as for the belt, you should think about what will happen if you break the belt and what the consequences will be. think about it, maybe you will get married sooner than you think, then it wouldn't be worth the risk.

                          Angelina

                          My mom hasn’t met him yet and I’m not sure when that will happen.

                          If I break it I’m sure my relationship with my mom will be very angry with me and might cut contact for a while or maybe stop supporting me so I don’t think it’s worth it I’ll just wait.

                              Funguy I wanted to be sure what I’d have to do to get out of the belt

                              What would you do if she didn't agree?

                                  Renita

                                  I’m
                                  Noy sure I’d probably just try to get out ASAP and then see if she’s be willing to give me the key

                                      Funguy

                                      she should meet him, I think that is important so that she realises how much you are in love 🙂

                                      as for the belt, hmmm.... i think it would be the right decision to wait, you wrote in another thread that your boyfriend is willing to wait too. i think it's similar to me and my girlfriend

                                          Angelina

                                          I also want my mom to meet him, I think it would help her understand that we do love eachother and that it’s real.

                                          And if he’s willing to wait then I am too I think it’s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf

                                              Funguy

                                              Yes,but at least,you know it could work well!🙂

                                              Funguy My mom hasn’t met him yet and I’m not sure when that will happen.

                                              Is she open about meeting him?

                                              Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?

                                              Funguy If I break it I’m sure my relationship with my mom will be very angry with me and might cut contact for a while or maybe stop supporting me so I don’t think it’s worth it I’ll just wait.

                                              It's the consequences for many of us,and we generally make the same decision too.

                                                      Vanessa

                                                      Vanessa Is she open about meeting him?

                                                      Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?

                                                      I’m not sure I’ll have to talk to her about it

                                                            Funguy Noy sure I’d probably just try to get out ASAP and then see if she’s be willing to give me the key

                                                            Then you shouldn't wait and let her change her mind.

                                                              Funguy And if he’s willing to wait then I am too I think it’s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf

                                                              that would be the best. the question is of course if you have a good relationship with your mother outside of the chastity topic, if so (like me with my father) it is probably not worth giving that up. 🙂

                                                                  Angelina

                                                                  Yeah we do have a good relationship she’s my mom and I love her and she loves me and we get along very well and it’s great. The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

                                                                  Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

                                                                      Funguy The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

                                                                      From what you've written I really think she does have good intentions. Experience does count for something. Looking back on my own life, if I had a do-over, I'd put me in a belt if I could. 😅

                                                                      Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

                                                                      Best of luck with this Funguy!!