Vanessa So until a serious relationship?

Good goal

Right.

Vanessa Harder in Summer?

Or only due to the clothing?

That plus lots of free time, places to go, stay out later because it's warm. Lots of temptations.

Vanessa Even if no one is close to the door?

Well I'm kind of a screamer. Plus someone might still be up in the common room, plus it's usually dead quiet after about 11.

Vanessa Maybe at first,until you manage your urges better?

I'll use it if I have to. Just seems like a fail.

            Vanessa I will still have access to this board I think, but the time I spend on here must be limited.

            Try to,at least,have time on it not counted as "social media" but in special "forum" part,with its own duration.

            At this stage I've a lot of input in making and setting up the rules. Once the "lock" is in place however, I no longer get a say, for obvious reasons. So, yeah, I'll make sure at this point that there's time to visit the forum

            Vanessa Jonas some sort of cyborg

            Vanessa 🤖
            🤣

            😄 Part man, part machine, flesh and steel as one!

                    Joh 🤣 🤣 Great. I should remember it the next time I am in the same situation.

                    let me know how it went 🤣

                    Vanessa Or you had "love at first sight"

                    not at first sight, but at the first date 😉

                    Vanessa Ok,I thought you may have opened it during her training for permanent wearing

                    I have (un)locked the padlock, but not any more.

                            Vanessa Sometimes,I think a new boyfriend/girlfriend was the right,but I was wrong,however...

                            As I wrote in another topic. Nobody is perfect from the beginning.
                            For me helped a lot to get my head around who I am, what I like and not like and what I expect from my partner. After that was done I started to search for a new one.

                                Joh

                                I still believe that a big problem in many relationships is that people don't talk honestly with each other from the beginning, about common wishes and ideas for the future. most of the time, couples who have just fallen in love don't want to destroy their romance and later everything has somehow become everyday life. at least that's what i've often experienced in my circle of friends.

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                                    Avery Right.

                                    A nice goal.🙂

                                    Avery That plus lots of free time, places to go, stay out later because it's warm

                                    But you would be trained a bit more,it may help.

                                    Avery Well I'm kind of a screamer.

                                    And the door closed was enough to not be heard?

                                    Avery Just seems like a fail.

                                    Understandable,even more at the start.

                                    Or in Summer!😉

                                    Jonas So, yeah, I'll make sure at this point that there's time to visit the forum

                                    Good!🙂

                                    Angelina not at first sight, but at the first date 😉

                                    It is quick too!🙂

                                    Joh After that was done I started to search for a new one.

                                    And,after it,you met your current girlfriend without any fail?

                                                    Vanessa But you would be trained a bit more,it may help.

                                                    I haven't had a real test so far though I am better prepared to resist.

                                                    Vanessa And the door closed was enough to not be heard?

                                                    Well if I could be heard someone at least could not just look in and see. They might knock but at least I wouldn.t get caught red handed.

                                                          Vanessa Jonas So, yeah, I'll make sure at this point that there's time to visit the forum

                                                          Good!

                                                          That was a nice thing to write. Thank you!

                                                            Vanessa And,after it,you met your current girlfriend without any fail?

                                                            So far yes.
                                                            My life circumstances had changed so I was looking again.

                                                                Vanessa It is quick too!🙂

                                                                yes, but i had already fallen slightly in love before, it was just a confirmation of my feelings, so to speak. 🙂

                                                                Joh My life circumstances had changed so I was looking again.

                                                                I am glad you are so happy today 🙂

                                                                      Angelina I am glad you are so happy today

                                                                      It was hard work to come so far and it needs work to stay happy. Nothing is set in stone.

                                                                          Joh It was hard work to come so far and it needs work to stay happy. Nothing is set in stone.

                                                                          of course, that's exactly what we do, we work on our relationship every day and frankly we get happier every day. 😃

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                                                                              Joh Wow. Than you do it better than I.

                                                                              how long have you been together 30 years? then you have definitely work well 🙂

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                                                                                  Angelina
                                                                                  No, only 4 years, but when you're older, the excitement isn't as great as it was the firth time.

                                                                                      Avery I am better prepared to resist.

                                                                                      Very willing to stay chaste,it would help you.

                                                                                      Avery Well if I could be heard someone at least could not just look in and see. They might knock but at least I wouldn.t get caught red handed.

                                                                                      Sure.

                                                                                      Even if they should not enter if they hear you screaming.

                                                                                      Angelina yes, but i had already fallen slightly in love before, it was just a confirmation of my feelings, so to speak. 🙂

                                                                                      That's why you knew before dating your girlfriend that you are bisexual?

                                                                                      Already being in love does not mean it would be quicker the next time,however.😉

                                                                                              Joh No, only 4 years, but when you're older, the excitement isn't as great as it was the firth time.

                                                                                              ok, then I have confused you with someone else, but still you have my respect 🙂

                                                                                              Vanessa That's why you knew before dating your girlfriend that you are bisexual?

                                                                                              no, I knew that when I was about 13 😉

                                                                                              Vanessa Already being in love does not mean it would be quicker the next time,however.😉

                                                                                              what exactly do you mean? i don't quite understand it

                                                                                                      Angelina what exactly do you mean? i don't quite understand it

                                                                                                      Even if you were already in love,you would not necessarily fall in love quicker the next times.

                                                                                                      I've read again your reply and by

                                                                                                      Angelina yes, but i had already fallen slightly in love before, it was just a confirmation of my feelings, so to speak. 🙂

                                                                                                      did you mean you were slightly in love with your girlfriend before the first date?

                                                                                                      I thought you were in love with someone else before her...