Been gone a while

Funguy

Alright I’m back to talk about how my bf meeting my mom went.

When he came over I opened the door for him and then we went into the kitchen where my mom was cooking the dinner. They greeted eachother and then we went into my room to hang out.

After a while dinner was ready and I knew the tough conversation was coming now and I was hoping for the best, we sat down and talked about my bf most of the time my mom asked him many questions about his hobbies work family things like that. Then she asked what he thought about the belt and if he wants it off. He said that he thinks it’s weird that she has me in it and that he wants it off ASAP even if he thinks it’s sexy. (He told me he thought that later not infront of my mom) after that it was just normal conversation and they seemed to get along well. Nobody said anything bad and my mom said she thought he was a good choice and that he will do.

And that’s basically it 🙂

Laura

Funguy He said that he thinks it’s weird that she has me in it and that he wants it off ASAP

And what did she answer?

youdontknowme

Funguy even if he thinks it’s sexy. (He told me he thought that later not infront of my mom)

Good thing you clatified, I thought it was a little... bold... of him to bring that up.

Joh

Funguy Nobody said anything bad and my mom said she thought he was a good choice and that he will do.

If you remember your fist time at the forum you got the advice to stand to your opinion and refuse the CB. From your posting I get now the impression your mother accepts you as you are and see no further need to keep you in.
Your fears were groundless.

Jonas

Funguy she thought he was a good choice and that he will do.

😃 Am so happy to read this. What a wonderful thing. Am so glad to read it went so well.

Funguy he thinks it’s sexy.

Chastity *is* sexy!!

Funguy

Laura

She said she understands that but that it’s best for me to be locked up

Funguy

youdontknowme

Haha yeah that would’ve been strange

Funguy

Joh

Well she still wants me locked until marriage but now I know that I’ll get the key once I’m married.

Funguy

Jonas

Jonas 😃 Am so happy to read this. What a wonderful thing. Am so glad to read it went so well.

Yeah I’m really happy with how it went too 🙂 i feel much better knowing I’ll be out once I’m married which will be soon hopefully

Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

Hahaha you could say that

youdontknowme

Funguy I’ll get the key once I’m married

Funguy he thinks it’s sexy

Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

Funguy Hahaha you could say that

Hope your experience under your mother's lock and key did not ruin your acveptance of the device too much. Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

Vanessa

Jonas Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

I think so,too.

Jonas the quicker you stop fighting it.

I still fight mine a lot...

Jonas Nothing worse than a belt that keeps orgasm out of reach but seemingly attainable.

More frustrating,yes.

Jonas That's where internet filters come in. I can and will have to ask my wife for limits to be set on this website. The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

How long would you be allowed?

Angelina right, mostly it is a form of stubbornness, but no ill will

I agree.

youdontknowme that is why I like chastity devices as a sort of "are you sure" prompt.

Only if you are your own keyholder.

Avery

Mainly to be sure I don't cheat during it.

youdontknowme I do not think that, outside of fetish couples, anyone is supervising showers for the viewer's gratification.

I agree.

youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower, more like staying in the room and casting a quick glance at unpredictable interviews to make sure nobody is abusing their hygiene break.

Yes,even if more watched when I shower/dry the part which are generally under my chastity belt...

Funguy

Good it went well!🙂

It is similar to the "approval talk" with my parents when I wanted to date a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,except they told me if they approved him/her only after he/she left.

Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

🤣

Funguy now I know that I’ll get the key once I’m married.

Good to be sure of it,now.

youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

It would not be bad.

I would find somehow romantic,if,at my wedding,Emilie get the key to my chastity belt,and I get the key to Emilie's chastity belt(we plan to both wear it during our wedding).

Laura

Funguy it’s best for me to be locked up

To prevent random straight sex?

Jonas

Funguy Yeah I’m really happy with how it went too 🙂

It really couldn't have gone much better!! 😁

The fact the belt came up in conversation sounds more than a little embarrassing though! Did the reason for the belt come up too? 😳 Or, I forget, does your bf already know your mother's reasons? 😅

Jonas

youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

Funguy

youdontknowme

If he does get the key I’m sure the belt will come off very fast, but I’m not against having it as a toy but I don’t think I’ll go into long term wear anytime soon

carg

Laura

LOL. Yes, what is she afraid of? That you'll make your boyfriend pregnant? 🤰

Funguy

Laura

To prevent masturbation actually

Laura

carg There are girls around 😂

Angelina

youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower,

of course not, in most cases my father sits on the toilet lid and looks more at his smartphone than at me. it's not like being in prison

Jonas Thanks for this @Angelina, I really, really, appreciate the time you've put into understanding me.

of course i understand you, i have learned a lot about voluntary chastity here and of course i understand what it means to be sexually frustrated. i think the important thing is that you don't forget the big goal and that your wife supports you. 🙂

Funguy

that sounds good, very good even. you see, you don't have to worry too much. i am really happy for both of you. 🙂

youdontknowme

Jonas The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

I figured it would be more of a three-way meeting between the mother, the wearer and the partner where they make that decision together, some time during wedding preparations. In a fictional world where chastity is more commonplace, I might imagine the key being handed along with the rings from the parents to the best man to the wearer and finally to their partner, but that would be kind of impractical in reality, where most of the wedding party is unlikely to know about your chastity arrangement.

Funguy

Jonas

That would be quite the gift 😂

carg

Jonas The key would indeed make an amazing wedding gift, but not from his mother, from @Funguy to his husband.

I think either way it is a (symbolic) transfer of power to his husband. If they want an equal relationship, I'm not sure that such a symbolic gesture is quite fitting on their wedding day, even though it would be a romantic one. (Unless the boyfriend also wears a chastity device for the wedding, and the exchange of keys is mutual, like Vanessa is considering.)

Funguy

Jonas

Haha yeah it was embarrassing but not unexpected, she didn’t bring up the reason but he already knows. 😅

Jonas

Vanessa How long would you be allowed?

A half hour I guess, but that would be for all social media.

Angelina

Vanessa It is similar to the "approval talk" with my parents when I wanted to date a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,except they told me if they approved him/her only after he/she left.

why only after he/she has left? i think it is better if the potential partner is still there in case there are misunderstandings that can easily be cleared up

Vanessa I would find somehow romantic,if,at my wedding,Emilie get the key to my chastity belt,and I get the key to Emilie's chastity belt(we plan to both wear it during our wedding).

that sounds very romantic 🙂 but before you ask no, that is no longer possible for us, we have sold camryn's belt in the meantime. 😉

Jonas A half hour I guess, but that would be for all social media.

not much, when I think about how much you write here alone 😉

Laura But since you have a partner now it doesn't make sense anymore

why? he can still masturbate. i have a different opinion, but i wouldn't say that it should be forbidden in general.

Vanessa

Jonas A half hour I guess, but that would be for all social media.

You would not be able to post much here,so...

Funguy If he does get the key I’m sure the belt will come off very fast

Not surprising!😉

Funguy don’t think I’ll go into long term wear anytime soon

You may do it again?

Laura

Why?

Even if he has a boyfriend,he can still may be forbidden to masturbate...

youdontknowme it will not go back on as fast as it came off 😜

🤣

youdontknowme such things need to be consensual

I agree.

carg Vanessa is considering

Emilie is considering it too!😉

Angelina why only after he/she has left? i think it is better if the potential partner is still there in case there are misunderstandings that can easily be cleared up

Because they think I would fight the decision more if he/she is with me(which can be true,I've to admit).

If there is a misunderstanding,they're not stubborn,and can accept another talk.

But,in this case,I must stay on a "friend level" until the next talk,not be his/her girlfriend.

Angelina that sounds very romantic 🙂 but before you ask no, that is no longer possible for us, we have sold camryn's belt in the meantime. 😉

Too bad,she could have worn it only on the wedding day!

Have you already opened her belt,or was it always her who opened it?

If you already did it,you've had a romantic moment anyway,unlike Emilie and me.

youdontknowme Yeah, the fact that it might cement an inequality may be a concern.

In this case,it could be discussed before.

Jonas I'm lucky

I think so,you and your wife have found a dynamic that suits you well.🙂

Jonas

Funguy Haha yeah it was embarrassing but not unexpected, she didn’t bring up the reason but he already knows.

Funguy That would be quite the gift

Well, if you do ever find yourself falling into old habits, you'll know what to do! 😁

youdontknowme

Funguy but he already knows.

Funguy To prevent masturbation actually

Funguy If he does get the key I’m sure the belt will come off very fast, but I’m not against having it as a toy but I don’t think I’ll go into long term wear anytime soon

If he knows you are such a compulsive masturbator that you need a chastity belt to keep you in check, who is to say it will not go back on as fast as it came off 😜. Especially if he seems to find your belt quite hot, he might enjoy being your only source of relief.

That said, that would not be for him alone to decide, such things need to be consensual. But considering you are kept belted until you marry, he seems to have the better bargaining position.

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