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Maybe you can explain her this board should be an exception,as it helps you about your chastity.
Angelina definitely not, I look at my watch and ... Oh 55 minutes and I still have a lot to answer π
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Angelina i find it frankly interesting that your parents think they can influence whether you love someone, that was a lesson my father had to learn too (you remember i wasn't allowed to have a relationship until i was 18) but he learned that love is not controllable and certainly not who you love
The talking is generally before I was in love,right after I want to date someone,so it is manageable(but unpleasant).
And they can't influence it,but make the relationship difficult to keep enough(not allowed to meet,going back straight home,rarely allowed to go out unsupervised,checking regularly my phone,etc...)to make it fail.Specially as it is the start of the relationship,so still not very strong.
Angelina uh... i think you forgot that camryn hasn't worn the belt since august (see in should i become a keyholder?). since we decided against it, the belt has been in her wardrobe.
Yes,but,when she was trying to wear it more often,do you opened it yourself sometimes?And especially the last time it was opened?
Angelina there is still the possibility that she wears my old neosteel belt when we get married, it doesn't fit perfectly, but it should be enough for the occasion. π
Good idea!π
Funguy I can't say that I'm totally against the idea π Altough I'd like to start slowly to see if we both enjoy it if it's brought up.
You would have a lot of trying to do before finding what you like about it,I think.
Funguy she wouldnβt trust him to keep my locked.
Understandable,I think!π
youdontknowme It would probably be a bad idea for you to bring up the fact that it might actually result in less masturbation though
Right.
Funguy She is very against pre-marital sex which is another reason for my belt.
Not surprising.
Funguy She's said I won't have control over the keys until I'm married, moving in with him could result in him being given the keys for convince but I think that if I do move in with him before marriage then she'd be worried he'd just give me the keys and then I'd be free to be sinful and greedy (masturbate).
Do you think you would be forbidden to move in with him?
youdontknowme Be glad if she does not ask him to get locked up if you plan to move in together before marriage.
Not sure she would be at ease to ask him to wear such device.
Funguy Yeah that is the plan we have at the moment. Get married and move out and then Iβll be free.
As you're in love,it seems a good decision!π
Funguy My mom would probably be okay with holding the keys if he's okay with being belted and she wants him belted. I don't think his parents would ever be okay with him wearing a belt for these purposes and much less would hold his keys. The thing is you're right that we can still do sinful things while only one of us is belted which is why she doesn't want me to stay overnight at his place.
So,if you move,but not too far away,she may suggest it?
But not force him,it seems.
Jonas Am glad that love is put before sexual orientation in your home, That's a good sign I think.
I agree.
Avery I have gone 3 months without either masturbating or having sexual contact with some else
Congratulations,I don't think I could manage it if not wearing a chastity belt.