Joh I didn't ask it in the introduction this time. I did that by accident once.

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    Renita Yes, at least she likes to.

    But what is your opinion, not hers?

      Chris1 I didn't ask it in the introduction this time.

      You were gone. Now you are back and the first what you ask is the same rude question. It is like a introduction.

        Chris1

        You would have no more answers;so stop it now.

        Renita

        Not good...

        Laura He keeps asking the same question over and over again

        And in different threads.

        Chris1 No, I meant another person who I'm asking.

        No.You asked her.

        Renita

        Would you obey it?

        Chris1 But this site is meant for exaclty those questions

        Not at all.

          Chris1 Everybody asks those questions here and they get answered.

          Respectfully, after the person asked has given an indocation that they might be willing to talk about it. Not repeatedly asking the same person after they have ignored the message several times.

          Joh So you mean that because I have not written anything in a while I can't ask a question like this? Come on, I have asked others too, completely nice and they have answered me the question and everybody was happy.

            Chris1 Here we go again. Nothing learned.

            Laura But what is your opinion, not hers?

            She shouldn't be so strict, however it might work.

            Vanessa Would you obey it?

            I don't think I have a choice.

              youdontknowme I am just imagining someone walking through a shopping mall asking young women what was the last time they masturbated. I reckon that person would be walking home with a very red cheek.

              I'll try it out and let you know. 🤣

              Chris1 It was the first time I asked her.

              uhh..... no 🤥

              Chris1

              You can ask anyone what you want, but you can't insist on getting an answer.

                Angelina I'll try it out and let you know.

                I think the outcome would be much more severe for a male interviewer. Probably will end up with all four cheeks bright red.

                  youdontknowme I think the outcome would be much more severe for a male interviewer. Probably will end up with all four cheeks bright red.

                  Probably, but the looks would also be very interesting for a woman. 🤣

                  Angelina I didn't insist. I just asked her why she didn't want to answer, but I would never force her too

                    Chris1

                    just accept that you won't get an answer, then we don't have to argue here in the forum either. 😉

                      @Chris1 I'm not holding back this time, so I'll tell you why people are reacting this way towards you. (Wish I could have sent this in a personal message, but can't wait for the mods to delete this post)

                      First, the same question was asked on Aug 5, and for nearly 2 weeks, it was alot of back and forth from comparing yourself to other members who asked similar questions. Think about who asked and when they asked, because they spent many weeks, months, and years being active without asking personal questions, and through trust and communication, another person felt safe to open up to give them an answer. From your post history, the last time you responded directly to Jen was in April, and while you offered 2 sentences of your opinion/advice, that was it, no feedback needed. When others offer advice, its done out of knowledge or sympathy, something to help one make a choice while having emotional support. While there were no conversations directly to Jen, the next question you asked was a personal sexual question, which led to red flags, because of the age and persistence of asking that question repeatedly. There were other times that you denied it was wrong, even though most users here are adults, they don't even ask other people something that directly. Even the adults on here admit to doing certain things related to their situation, but its not something to make a full blown topic about. It's something people mention, but not something they'd only want to talk about. Which leads to the other possibility that they do not feel comfortable entertaining someone else in those specific adult-related topics.

                      Now, Angelina is kind enough to offer her perspective in similar topics, but do not expect it to be something you can talk about for weeks at a time. Be thankful you got a reply and share something in return, even your gratitude. From your post history, you disappeared after August and reappeared in October, directing most of your questions to one person. To be honest, it looked like you were targeting someone specifically, not in a good way, but in a predatory way, which even puts me on edge. While another user here on this forum also said, "there are a bunch of people here I choose not to have an interaction with." As I said in my own post before, I don't care if people respond to me or like what I say, I just say what I mean and move on. If no one responds to you, find someone else you can connect with, never force a friendship, especially online.

                      Whatever happens next is on you, but be careful and don't push anyone, even if you don't mean to. We are here to share thoughts and ideas, so learn from others, there are others in similar positions, so you don't have to focus on one person. Even I'm not here to open up on a friendship level, but if we happen to be in the same town, maybe we'll meet or not. I don't know how that'll work out, and I haven't gotten close to anyone here personally to reach that level either, and that is fine, because staying anonymous is for all our safety.

                      Chris1

                      But she doesn't want to answer so respect it.

                      No matter if other users have answered you or not.

                      Renita She shouldn't be so strict, however it might work.

                      What would you prefer?

                      Until you're in a serious relationship?

                      Until you're engaged?

                      Renita I don't think I have a choice.

                      Don't put back on the belt/lockpick the belt/destroy the belt.

                      It seems you would not have much bad consequences if you stop wearing the chastity belt when you want.

                      youdontknowme

                      I think so,too.

                      Angelina just accept that you won't get an answer

                      I doubt he would accept.

                      He would probably keep asking until he is bored and leave,or banned.

                        Vanessa Until you're in a serious relationship?

                        Yes. But she said it's not a reason to take the belt off.

                        Vanessa Don't put back on the belt/lockpick the belt/destroy the belt.

                        It's not possible now.

                          Vanessa It seems you would not have much bad consequences if you stop wearing the chastity belt when you want.

                          especially because she wanted it voluntarily at the beginning. the only consequence as far as i can see is that her mother would no longer hold the keys.

                          Vanessa He would probably keep asking until he is bored and leave,or banned.

                          after he has had such a long break it will probably come down to the second alternative, but hey, you are admin, you can take care of it 😉

                            Renita Yes. But she said it's not a reason to take the belt off.

                            It would be right,is serious enough,however.

                            Renita It's not possible now.

                            Why not?

                            Angelina the only consequence as far as i can see is that her mother would no longer hold the keys.

                            I think so,too.

                            Angelina you are admin, you can take care of it 😉

                            I know,but banning is a very serious sanction,so,except if he goes too far,like seriously insulting,threatening other users,etc...,I prefer at least two moderators/administrators are considering it.

                              Vanessa ,I prefer at least two moderators/administrators are considering it.

                              I think @Laura and @Ines would support this (and many users in the forum) 😉

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