Questions for those who asked to be locked up
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- Mother, 37
- Locked the secondary shield on
- To prevent random sex
- Yes, but I received more then expected
- It was not set
- I don't understand the question
- Sometimes. Wanted to stop, but got declined
- No
- Dating being belted
- Marriage or long-term relationship
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- Selflocked, 15 / 16
- Was too afraid of the reaction at first, later tried an online friend who I searched for who was into keyholding
- To be responsitive.
- selflocked again...
- didn't think about it, to be honest
- I got used to the idea of wearing ot for a very long time...
- often after some long periots of being locked... but I never had the desire to stop it permanently, just for a small orgasm. In the beginming I unlocked me pretty often when being selflocked . After some time the constant strong desire becomes easier, so it's not anymore such a big problem, usually... still, there are some times when it's just still very difficult.
8 Yes, but don't know who to ask, to be honest. Fetishists are often dangerous, ok, some of them are ok, but they also usually want you to do more stuff and tasks which you don't want to do. Parants are a no-go for me personally, so... yeah... - ooh... that's a tough one... for me there are not really such great moments that I'd experience.
10 Finding the perfect woman to marry who is not ok with me wearing a belt.
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1) Girlfriend in my 20s
2) Surprised
3) Prevent me from removing the belt
4) No. It was too much like a game
5) I constantly changed my mind between long and short term
6) When I can't masturbate I am more productive, happy, and engaged with life
7) All the time. I increase security, monitoring, and my committent
8) Yes
9) Absolute faithfulness
10) No reasons
1) Who did you ask to be your (first) keyholder and how old were you back then?
A friend in the UK. I was 30.
2) How did he or she react?
Jumped at the chance!
3) What were your expectations from your keyholder?
Tease me relentlessly.
4) Did he or she meet those expectations?
Hell yes!
5) How long did you want to be belted?
4 days.
6) If you are belted for way longer periods of time now, what has changed your mind to wish for it?
Got better at it / used to wearing it.
7) How often have you had some weak moments when you wanted to stop being chaste and how have you dealt with the situation then?
Very often! Up to my keyholder. Usually bondage. Sometimes I'll have a lil squirt in exchange for more time locked up.
8) Have you ever considered to find a keyholder who might keep you locked up even unvoluntarily?
God no.
9) What is the greatest experiece you have made while being locked up?
Having my head shaved whilst tied to a chair.
10) What are possible reasons for you to stop being belted once and for all?
Pregnancy!
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Thx for the answers so far. It is interesting to see that the starting age and reactions were quite different from person to person. Here are the answers to my-own questions.
Michael 1) Who did you ask to be your (first) keyholder and how old were you back then?
A girl I had an affair with, probably when I was 26
2) How did he or she react?
I knew that she was kinky and she loved the idea. However, she was almost a bit pushy when it came to
locking me up again and for how long which scared me off.
3) What were your expectations from your keyholder?
Probably back then I was expecting a good tease and that I can trust her which means she would stick to our agreements and she would react immediatly in case of emergency.
4) Did he or she meet those expectations?
Yes and no. I mean she would have liked to belt me almost 24/7 for sure ans she did tease me a lot. The only downside was that I had the feeling that I could get out whenever I wanted to during the first few times when she took the keys. Of course we discussed that and not much later she refused to give me back the keys after the week that was agreed on was over. This is something I didn't find very funny back then at first. After a month she finally let me out and overall the wasn't that bad. However the next time she wanted me to lock up for 3 months at least which then scared me off totally.
5) How long did you want to be belted?
As said above it was up to a week during the first few times. After having completed a whole month I would have been fine with up to 6 weeks.
6) If you are belted for way longer periods of time now, what has changed your mind to wish for it?
Doing the whole month has probably made clear to me that I won't die from not having an orgasm for quite some time which led to the conclusion that I could try it for longer periods of time to see what it does to me. Later I did regret that I didn't take the chance to let her lock me up for at least 3 months but when she told me that it was just too much for me.
Under 9 I describe what really has changed my mind.
7) How often have you had some weak moments when you wanted to stop being chaste and how have you dealt with the situation then?
Of course that did happen but apart from my first keyholder who probably would have let me out after a few days already if I had asked for it my 3rd keyholder made clear that shy wouldn't and shy just helped me by guiding me through bad times, she gave me a lot of support by letting me focus on the positive things why I wanted to be belted.
8) Have you ever considered to find a keyholder who might keep you locked up even unvoluntarily?
To be honest, yes. After making the experience for a second time that I could get out if I had just begged enough, I came too the conclusion that chastity cannot work if there is always a way to chicken out. However, this would have been the complete opposite extreme and therefore I am happy to have found something in between.
9) What is the greatest experiece you have made while being locked up?
In general it was the experience of the effects of chastity on me when I am belted for more than a month. When chastity had been more a less a kinky fetish thing for me at first, I could finally see all the positiv effects of more serious chastity. I was way more relaxed, centered and freed from this constant urge to get another orgasm.
10) What are possible reasons for you to stop being belted once and for all?
What I have described unter 9 is probably the reason why I consider chastity to be addictive. Therefore it is hard for me to imagine any reason why I would like to never be belted again.
Michael chastity cannot work if there is always a way to chicken out.
Yep. The more secure the belt and the keyholding arrangement, the more relaxed and acceptant I feel.
Michael When chastity had been more a less a kinky fetish thing for me at first, I could finally see all the positiv effects of more serious chastity.
I might have thought of my interest in chastity as more of a fetish thing when I was younger, but yeah this changed over time for me too. In no sense is it a game any more.
Michael I consider chastity to be addictive. Therefore it is hard for me to imagine any reason why I would like to never be belted again.
Yup.
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Michael 1) Who did you ask to be your (first) keyholder and how old were you back then?
My girlfriend / domme when I was 20 years old.
I finally bought a belt when I was with my now wife / domme when I was 28.
2) How did he or she react?
At 20: Very interested, but we didn't have the money to buy me a belt at the time.
At 28: Reluctant, but supportive.
3) What were your expectations from your keyholder?
At 28: Teasing and denial to support increased intimacy.
4) Did he or she meet those expectations?
We tried some short rounds at the beginning, but I was never able to solve the hygiene challenges until more recently. Now that I have, yes she did meet them.
5) How long did you want to be belted?
We didn't have a set time in mind at the beginning, but it ended up being a run of about 6 weeks.
I've had the goal to go for a year with only cleaning breaks, but we're not there quiet yet.
6) If you are belted for way longer periods of time now, what has changed your mind to wish for it?
We're both getting more used to it, and enjoying the benefits of keeping me belted.
7) How often have you had some weak moments when you wanted to stop being chaste and how have you dealt with the situation then?
We've taken some breaks. They only serve to make me realize how much I prefer to be belted.
8) Have you ever considered to find a keyholder who might keep you locked up even unvoluntarily?
Yes. My partner at 20 would definitely have fallen into that category. I don't think she'd ever have let me out. I'm pretty sure I'd have had to cut the belt off after we broke up.
9) What is the greatest experiece you have made while being locked up?
We have been surprised how effective it is at building good habits.
10) What are possible reasons for you to stop being belted once and for all?
Medical contradiction or a job that required me to pass through a metal detector regularly
Hi don't know if I've worn enough to qualify but still awake cause of my bent so ha
1) Who did you ask to be your (first) keyholder and how old were you back then?
18, didn't really ask, became interested in a belt they'd bought for me
2) How did he or she react?
They were too pushy to start with but happy I'm trying it now
3) What were your expectations from your keyholder?
Oh god I don't know what I was thinking wanted to be left alone mostly. But then supported / encouraged but not trapped.
4) Did he or she meet those expectations?
Yes we got there
5) How long did you want to be belted?
Short term to get used to it, see what it's really like.
6) If you are belted for way longer periods of time now, what has changed your mind to wish for it?
Not yet but I guess it's a life plan thing like I think of the belt being locked most of the time until I find my man.
7) How often have you had some weak moments when you wanted to stop being chaste and how have you dealt with the situation then?
I need to know i can get out I can't deal with actually being stuck
8) Have you ever considered to find a keyholder who might keep you locked up even unvoluntarily?
Omg no no no.
9) What is the greatest experiece you have made while being locked up?
Again haven't worn that much yet but exploring and paying attention to other parts of my body yeah
10) What are possible reasons for you to stop being belted once and for all?
Marriage - at least it would change a lot
Kids it really has to stop
gwen Yes. My partner at 20 would definitely have fallen into that category. I don't think she'd ever have let me out. I'm pretty sure I'd have had to cut the belt off after we broke up.
I think it's fine that there are keyholders who truly want to lock someone up pretty much forever.
It is even fine if someone is aware of that and willingly agrees to it.
However, I think it is absolutly irresponsible to not unlock someone after end a relationship. This is a perfect example of how I wish my keyholder not to be... Even if my first keyholder could have enjoyed keeping me locked 24/7, I am sure she would never have left me without unlocking me.
The reason why I am answering right now is that I've just had the idea if this would be ok if the old keyholder would have found a new keyholder beforehand and would hand over the keys to the new keyholder immedatly after you end the relationship but for me that would be too extreme as well because I might not be ok with the new keyholder.
Michael I think it is absolutly irresponsible to not unlock someone after end a relationship.
When you hear about acrimonious break ups it's not beyond the boundaries of possibility that this could happen. If the belt is just physically locked, of course it could be removed, but if it were being checked by a third party, it is possible that a person could find themselves belted indefinitely. Yikes!
