gwen We have been surprised how effective it is at building good habits.

We're just starting to find this out. The belt can be an amazing tool.

Hi don't know if I've worn enough to qualify but still awake cause of my bent so ha

1) Who did you ask to be your (first) keyholder and how old were you back then?

18, didn't really ask, became interested in a belt they'd bought for me

2) How did he or she react?

They were too pushy to start with but happy I'm trying it now

3) What were your expectations from your keyholder?

Oh god I don't know what I was thinking wanted to be left alone mostly. But then supported / encouraged but not trapped.

4) Did he or she meet those expectations?

Yes we got there

5) How long did you want to be belted?

Short term to get used to it, see what it's really like.

6) If you are belted for way longer periods of time now, what has changed your mind to wish for it?

Not yet but I guess it's a life plan thing like I think of the belt being locked most of the time until I find my man.

7) How often have you had some weak moments when you wanted to stop being chaste and how have you dealt with the situation then?

I need to know i can get out I can't deal with actually being stuck

8) Have you ever considered to find a keyholder who might keep you locked up even unvoluntarily?

Omg no no no.

9) What is the greatest experiece you have made while being locked up?

Again haven't worn that much yet but exploring and paying attention to other parts of my body yeah

10) What are possible reasons for you to stop being belted once and for all?

Marriage - at least it would change a lot
Kids it really has to stop

    gwen Yes. My partner at 20 would definitely have fallen into that category. I don't think she'd ever have let me out. I'm pretty sure I'd have had to cut the belt off after we broke up.

    I think it's fine that there are keyholders who truly want to lock someone up pretty much forever.
    It is even fine if someone is aware of that and willingly agrees to it.
    However, I think it is absolutly irresponsible to not unlock someone after end a relationship. This is a perfect example of how I wish my keyholder not to be... Even if my first keyholder could have enjoyed keeping me locked 24/7, I am sure she would never have left me without unlocking me.
    The reason why I am answering right now is that I've just had the idea if this would be ok if the old keyholder would have found a new keyholder beforehand and would hand over the keys to the new keyholder immedatly after you end the relationship but for me that would be too extreme as well because I might not be ok with the new keyholder.

      Michael I think it is absolutly irresponsible to not unlock someone after end a relationship.

      When you hear about acrimonious break ups it's not beyond the boundaries of possibility that this could happen. If the belt is just physically locked, of course it could be removed, but if it were being checked by a third party, it is possible that a person could find themselves belted indefinitely. Yikes!

      Jen So how long have you managed not to masturbate so far? And was it hard during breaks form your belt?

        Laura Will you be allowed to stop wearing the belt?

        It was the initial plan and not now.

          Angelina Hey, what kind of reply is that? I was just curious. you guys ask those questions all the time too.

            Laura He keeps asking the same question over and over again

            Excuse me, this is another person. What is wrong about asking her that?

              Chris1 Excuse me, this is another person

              Another person under name @Chris1 ? 😂

              Chris1 What is wrong about asking her that?

              She doesn't want to answer, but you keep asking her

                Laura Another person under name @Chris1 ?

                No, I meant another person who I'm asking.

                Laura She doesn't want to answer, but you keep asking her

                How would you know that? I asked her a question like a week ago and she answered.

                  Laura He keeps asking the same question over and over again

                  i know, so i know where the problem lies. i just find it funny how persistent some users are 😂

                  Chris1 Hey, what kind of reply is that? I was just curious. you guys ask those questions all the time too.

                  Feel free to ask me the question, I am relatively open, but you are asking @Jen for what feels like the 1000th time now. 🤣

                    I am just imagining someone walking through a shopping mall asking young women what was the last time they masturbated. I reckon that person would be walking home with a very red cheek.

                      Laura Another person under name @Chris1 ? 😂

                      what do you mean by this? I meant the person I asked is another person.

                      youdontknowme Of course they would. But this site is meant for exaclty those questions. I don't get what your problem is. Everybody asks those questions here and they get answered. But when I ask them, nobody wants to answer them.