confusion and pride at the same time

Angelina

Vanessa As the door would not be closed anymore during it,I guess she would not be able to disobey.

as i understand it, the door is just not locked anymore. that's why i ask. i can hardly imagine her calling out: "mom, please come into the bathroom and put my belt back on".

Vanessa

Angelina

Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

Renita

I doubt it.

You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case(even if it is what happened to you).

Renita

Vanessa Until now,it seems her parents were fair about the rules,so I doubt they would betray this agreement.

There was no serious reason for it yet.

Chris1

Amira Wow, that's a very tough decision. So to be sure I understand it right, you are still allowed releases but you're not allowed to touch yourself anymore, right? And if so, how long do you plan to keep it that way?

Raziel

Chris1
Dude, be careful, she's 16. 🤦‍♂️

Amira

Amira I will still have the opportunity to take baths without the belt on for relaxation, but then the door to the bathroom can't be closed.

Now I'm quoting myself....

Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

Raziel I thought it was about to go in the wrong direction.

so far the direction of the whole thread was perfectly ok to me 🙂

Chris1 So to be sure I understand it right, you are still allowed releases but you're not allowed to touch yourself anymore, right?

Hmmm, it is a bit more complicated than that: I want to stop it so I asked to stop these releases for that purpose, but not for the purpose of relaxing baths. I hope you understand what I mean.

Billy has your new agreement changed anything about thighbands? Do you think you will fight more or less because of this in the future?

I think I am going to fight less in the future and I never really put up a fight about the belt anyway, I sometimes fought against the effects of it when I was wearing it though.

there's a bit of news about my thigh bands. I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday. I do so as my Mom said that she thinks this is something I should consider because friday is the most important day of the week in the muslim week.

Angelina

Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

right, maybe @Amira mira can clarify that again 😉

Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case

right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding

Renita

Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement

Every keyholder of an unwed daughter, because they want to protect her.

Vanessa

Angelina right, maybe @Amira mira can clarify that again 😉

I'm pretty sure she meant "door open" but yes,she can explain it.

Angelina right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding

Were you surprised it was going to be used so long?

Renita

Which does not mean they would betray her.

They can tell at the start it would be until wedding,however,for example.

Chris1

@Raziel quoted one of your precedent post,not the one you agree with me.

Chris1

Renita But that doesn't necessarily mean they need ot betray her.

Chris1

Raziel Not again. why is my comment wrong? Renita said that she thinks every keyholder betrays them. Vanessa said not every keyholder betrays them. And I just agreed with Vanessa, so I said if they want to protect her, it doesn't mean they have to betray her. Why is everything I write wrong? Vanessa and Renita talked aboutt he whole thing as well

Angelina

Raziel

Chris1

in this case i have to agree with Chris, the questions do not seem unreasonable to me, so from my point of view everything is ok

Raziel

Chris1
I thought it was about to go in the wrong direction.

Chris1

Angelina Thank you. I mean, I just wanted to take part in the same discussion Vanessa and Renita were, and when Raziel answered it seemed as though he doesn't like anything I'm saying. All I did was agree with what Vanessa said. So thanks for agreein with me
Vanessa Oops, you're right. 😃 . I missed that. But still the same is true. Everybody had questions for amira, and of course my question was wrong again. I think Angelina is right too, the question was both legit and itnerestign for everyone

Chris1

Raziel It's not your job to look out for me all the time. Ut's annoying

Angelina

Vanessa I'm pretty sure she meant "door open" but yes,she can explain it.

yes, that would make more sense

Vanessa Were you surprised it was going to be used so long?

No, but frankly I didn't expect him to actually go through with it. 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina No, but frankly I didn't expect him to actually go through with it. 🙁

At first,you didn't even know chastity belt exists and are still used nowadays...

Amira I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

Having it a bit open,and not totally open is enough to not cheat?

Amira I sometimes fought against the effects of it when I was wearing it though.

Logical.

Amira I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday.

Every week?

Would it stay that way or would you have to wear these longer with time?

It seems you often have to wear thigh bands for a longer time than before...I wonder if there is no risk to become permanently wearing of these...

Angelina as long as you remain polite and also accept if someone does not answer you are welcome to participate in any discussion ;à

I confirm.

Joh

I agree.

Angelina as long as this is done in a respectful way it is ok

Of course.

Chris1

Amira Yes I think I understood that. And the releases for touching, when will you allow yourself that again?

Angelina

Amira I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

thank you for the clarification, now i understand 🙂 then i wish you a lot of fun and relaxation while bathing 😃

Amira there's a bit of news about my thigh bands. I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday. I do so as my Mom said that she thinks this is something I should consider because friday is the most important day of the week in the muslim week.

how are you doing in general? are you holding up well without breaks so far? do you think the thighbands could even help you?

Chris1 Thank you. I mean, I just wanted to take part in the same discussion Vanessa and Renita were, and when Raziel answered it seemed as though he doesn't like anything I'm saying. All I did was agree with what Vanessa said. So thanks for agreein with me

as long as you remain polite and also accept if someone does not answer you are welcome to participate in any discussion 😉

Joh

The forum lives from being mindful of each other. That includes looking at it and addressing it when it gets out of hand. And everyone is allowed to do that.

Angelina

Joh The forum lives from being mindful of each other. That includes looking at it and addressing it when it gets out of hand. And everyone is allowed to do that.

as long as this is done in a respectful way it is ok, you are doing it very well 🙂

Joh

Angelina Thanks. I try my best.

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