confusion and pride at the same time
thanks to all of you
I read everything each and everyone of you has written.
Today it feels like the right decision to not have breaks for masturbation anymore. Even though this decision might be difficult at times it feels right.
I will still have the opportunity to take baths without the belt on for relaxation, but then the door to the bathroom can't be closed.
We agreed that the decision is not final and that I can back out of it at any time in the future, witz one small side agreement: When I say, that I want to get back to the old agreement, I have to wait at least one week for the first release. So it is made sure that the decision isn't made because of some kind of mood swing
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Amira When I say, that I want to get back to the old agreement, I have to wait at least one week for the first release.
This seems like a sensible way to start off the agreement, and a good trial to see how things go... all without losing the luxury of your bath. I would go for something a little longer than just a week if you want to revert to the old agreement though. Either way, I hope everything works out well for you!
Kaja Masturbate every time you can!
she can't always (physically) that's the problem
i think that sounds good, so no more mastubation breaks for now? it's good that you keep doing your relaxing bath. what happens when you're lying in the bath and your sexual feelings come over you? do you tell your mother then?
i think it's good that you can go back in an emergency but that it's not made too easy for you. decisions have consequences!
good luck
I'm surprised to not have answered you,especially as I'm pretty sure I've read it...
Anyway,you're strong to have decided to not have breaks anymore!
But if you feel better for you this way,it is the right decision.
Good you can decide to change this rule again;and the one week wait is a good idea.
Until now,it seems her parents were fair about the rules,so I doubt they would betray this agreement.
Angelina what happens when you're lying in the bath and your sexual feelings come over you?
As the door would not be closed anymore during it,I guess she would not be able to disobey.
Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...
right, maybe @Amira mira can clarify that again
Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case
right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding
Raziel Not again. why is my comment wrong? Renita said that she thinks every keyholder betrays them. Vanessa said not every keyholder betrays them. And I just agreed with Vanessa, so I said if they want to protect her, it doesn't mean they have to betray her. Why is everything I write wrong? Vanessa and Renita talked aboutt he whole thing as well
I'm pretty sure she meant "door open" but yes,she can explain it.
Angelina right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding
Were you surprised it was going to be used so long?
Which does not mean they would betray her.
They can tell at the start it would be until wedding,however,for example.
@Raziel quoted one of your precedent post,not the one you agree with me.