thanks to all of you 🙂

I read everything each and everyone of you has written.

Today it feels like the right decision to not have breaks for masturbation anymore. Even though this decision might be difficult at times it feels right.

I will still have the opportunity to take baths without the belt on for relaxation, but then the door to the bathroom can't be closed.

We agreed that the decision is not final and that I can back out of it at any time in the future, witz one small side agreement: When I say, that I want to get back to the old agreement, I have to wait at least one week for the first release. So it is made sure that the decision isn't made because of some kind of mood swing 🙂

    @Amira has your new agreement changed anything about thighbands? Do you think you will fight more or less because of this in the future?

      Amira When I say, that I want to get back to the old agreement, I have to wait at least one week for the first release.

      This seems like a sensible way to start off the agreement, and a good trial to see how things go... all without losing the luxury of your bath. I would go for something a little longer than just a week if you want to revert to the old agreement though. Either way, I hope everything works out well for you!

        Amira We agreed that the decision is not final and that I can back out of it at any time in the future

        Be careful, it might not be possible.

            Kaja Masturbate every time you can!

            she can't always (physically) that's the problem 😉

            Amira

            i think that sounds good, so no more mastubation breaks for now? it's good that you keep doing your relaxing bath. what happens when you're lying in the bath and your sexual feelings come over you? do you tell your mother then?

            i think it's good that you can go back in an emergency but that it's not made too easy for you. decisions have consequences!

            good luck 😃

                  Amira

                  I'm surprised to not have answered you,especially as I'm pretty sure I've read it...

                  Anyway,you're strong to have decided to not have breaks anymore!

                  But if you feel better for you this way,it is the right decision.

                  Good you can decide to change this rule again;and the one week wait is a good idea.

                  Renita

                  Until now,it seems her parents were fair about the rules,so I doubt they would betray this agreement.

                  Angelina what happens when you're lying in the bath and your sexual feelings come over you?

                  As the door would not be closed anymore during it,I guess she would not be able to disobey.

                          Vanessa As the door would not be closed anymore during it,I guess she would not be able to disobey.

                          as i understand it, the door is just not locked anymore. that's why i ask. i can hardly imagine her calling out: "mom, please come into the bathroom and put my belt back on".

                              Vanessa Until now,it seems her parents were fair about the rules,so I doubt they would betray this agreement.

                              There was no serious reason for it yet.

                                  Amira Wow, that's a very tough decision. So to be sure I understand it right, you are still allowed releases but you're not allowed to touch yourself anymore, right? And if so, how long do you plan to keep it that way?

                                      Angelina

                                      Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

                                      Renita

                                      I doubt it.

                                      You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case(even if it is what happened to you).

                                            Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

                                            right, maybe @Amira mira can clarify that again 😉

                                            Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case

                                            right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding

                                                  Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement

                                                  Every keyholder of an unwed daughter, because they want to protect her.

                                                      Renita But that doesn't necessarily mean they need ot betray her.

                                                        Raziel Not again. why is my comment wrong? Renita said that she thinks every keyholder betrays them. Vanessa said not every keyholder betrays them. And I just agreed with Vanessa, so I said if they want to protect her, it doesn't mean they have to betray her. Why is everything I write wrong? Vanessa and Renita talked aboutt he whole thing as well

                                                            Raziel

                                                            Chris1

                                                            in this case i have to agree with Chris, the questions do not seem unreasonable to me, so from my point of view everything is ok

                                                                  Angelina right, maybe @Amira mira can clarify that again 😉

                                                                  I'm pretty sure she meant "door open" but yes,she can explain it.

                                                                  Angelina right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding

                                                                  Were you surprised it was going to be used so long?

                                                                  Renita

                                                                  Which does not mean they would betray her.

                                                                  They can tell at the start it would be until wedding,however,for example.

                                                                  Chris1

                                                                  @Raziel quoted one of your precedent post,not the one you agree with me.

                                                                            Vanessa I'm pretty sure she meant "door open" but yes,she can explain it.

                                                                            yes, that would make more sense

                                                                            Vanessa Were you surprised it was going to be used so long?

                                                                            No, but frankly I didn't expect him to actually go through with it. 🙁

                                                                                  Amira I will still have the opportunity to take baths without the belt on for relaxation, but then the door to the bathroom can't be closed.

                                                                                  Now I'm quoting myself....

                                                                                  Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

                                                                                  I meant that the door to the bathroom stays a bit open.

                                                                                  Raziel I thought it was about to go in the wrong direction.

                                                                                  so far the direction of the whole thread was perfectly ok to me 🙂

                                                                                  Chris1 So to be sure I understand it right, you are still allowed releases but you're not allowed to touch yourself anymore, right?

                                                                                  Hmmm, it is a bit more complicated than that: I want to stop it so I asked to stop these releases for that purpose, but not for the purpose of relaxing baths. I hope you understand what I mean.

                                                                                  Billy has your new agreement changed anything about thighbands? Do you think you will fight more or less because of this in the future?

                                                                                  I think I am going to fight less in the future and I never really put up a fight about the belt anyway, I sometimes fought against the effects of it when I was wearing it though.

                                                                                  there's a bit of news about my thigh bands. I started to wear them on Fridays from after school till around mid day of Saturday. I do so as my Mom said that she thinks this is something I should consider because friday is the most important day of the week in the muslim week.