in my opinion swimming is impossible with thighbands, where should you hide the chain? the belt and the bra can be hidden if you wear a full body swimsuit
Sara2001 My boyfriend decided that the ability to do swimming is not important enough to get out of the belt.
also not to have a few nice hours together in the swimming pool? that's very romantic
I am scared about this, but I have good advisors.
Joh Without the chain swimming is possible. With boxer shorts and a swim shirt you can hide your equipment. Especially when you at a not crowded beach nobody will notice it from the distance.
If the clothes are wet, I think it is very likely that the equipment becomes visible. I don't think that I should use a pool on a place that is accessible to anybody while I wear my equipment. My best chance would be a private pool, but of course anything with a private pool is very expensive (like booking a place with a private pool for honeymoon). At the end I think I will just not be able to do swimming a lot in the future. I don't like this aspect but I think I receive more in return then it costs me.
Sara2001 If the clothes are wet, I think it is very likely that the equipment becomes visible.
Test it and you will know. You can ask @Angelina which kind of swimwear she can recommend.
Sara2001 My best chance would be a private pool, but of course anything with a private pool is very expensive
Maybe someone will give you a place to stay as a wedding gift.
Raquel I am scared about this, but I have good advisors.
from what? that you can no longer go swimming with the belt?
indeed something similar to what @reactionary69 has linked, but i would recommend to wear a pair of swimming shorts over it to make the marks from the lock on the belt invisible.
Hi, I do not want there to be answers to this post in this thread, if you want, in the complaints thread.
It is not important, but what has happened illustrates well what I say many times:
Raquel was talking about the original approach to the thread, and Angelina thought they were talking about the latest twist in the thread.
I repeat, I do not want answers and it does not matter, but it is important that the conversations stay on track.
Angelina indeed something similar to what @reactionary69 has linked, but i would recommend to wear a pair of swimming shorts over it to make the marks from the lock on the belt invisible.
I can show it to him, but it's very expensive for trying. With a boxer short and a wide t-shirt it could maybe work. How hot will it be in this outfit when you wear it for a few hours at the beach?
Roland If the chain is removed you should be able to move relatively freely. Do I understand it correctly only the chain is removed the the bands themselves?
Yes the bands itself will stay in place at all times, except for cleaning and after marriage of course for having fun together. He will just remove the chain from time to time if it is necessary, like for sports.
Sara2001 I can show it to him, but it's very expensive for trying. With a boxer short and a wide t-shirt it could maybe work. How hot will it be in this outfit when you wear it for a few hours at the beach?
yes, i admit that i found it by chance during a shopping trip in the city, over the internet it's a risk. after a while it gets very hot, but then it's even more worth it because then you go swimming more often 
Angelina after a while it gets very hot, but then it's even more worth it because then you go swimming more often
That's what I worried about. He is not very open to the idea anyway. He says for refreshing I can take a shower whenever I want, but he thinks that it's not save that my equipment doesn't get discovered, so I will not be allowed to do so.
Sara2001 but he thinks that it's not save that my equipment doesn't get discovered
i can take his worry away, if you wear a full body suit no one sees anything and what could be noticed is not recognised as a belt etc., but i can understand his worry.
good idea, the beach is then also emptier and it would most likely not be noticed 
...or you could just, you know... tell your husband to stop being an obsessive controlling dick about everything because it's hot and you want to go for a swim.
Sin ...or you could just, you know... tell your husband to stop being an obsessive controlling dick about everything because it's hot and you want to go for a swim.
Why should I do this? I agreed to this kind of lifestyle. This way of living is consensual. I don't need to go swimming for my long term happiness, while feeling his love and seeing how proud he is of me gives me a lot of great feelings.
