Maija how did your friends react? How did he react? Did he search you precisely? I mean how did he discover the bamds? How did the other people in the museum react?

      Maija The (male) guard was looking mortified while I explained what thighbands are 😃

      i would worry less about the security guard and more about my friends. what did they say? or did they already know?

        Maija The (male) guard was looking mortified while I explained what thighbands are 😃

        I am glad you are okay.
        I learned that they police are only scared when you act scared first and never the other way around. It is perfectly fine to ask for a girl or to discuss in private

            Megan I learned that they police are only scared when you act scared first and never the other way around. It is perfectly fine to ask for a girl or to discuss in private

            Yes, exactly this!

            Max9 how did your friends react?

            They already know, which was fortunate 🙂

                  Maija They already know, which was fortunate

                  How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.

                      Sara2001 How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.

                      Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 😃. I blame the wind earlier in the summer

                          Maija What do they think about you wear a cb and bands?

                            Maija Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 😃. I blame the wind earlier in the summer

                            So all of them know? How did they react?

                              Maija They already know, which was fortunate 🙂

                              that's good of course, but on the one hand i am surprised that you are so open about it and on the other hand i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?

                              Maija Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 😃. I blame the wind earlier in the summer

                              and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?

                                    Angelina i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?

                                    I initiated the whole thing, so probably not

                                    Angelina and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?

                                    They are my two closest friends, so I told them as best as I could. Fair enough, I got my load of questions, but they understand there's nothing for them to do in the matter since I'm a voluntary wearer nowadays.

                                    Totally unrelated: what if we had an OOTD thread? (Like chastity perspective) Would it be too offtopic?

                                          Maija For what is OOTD standing for?
                                          What I found at the internet didn't get me an inside.

                                              Never, to my knowledge, has anyone I didn't want noticed my belt.
                                              It is also true that until a couple of years ago, I used it mainly at home and little outside. Since I've been using it 24/7, it's coincided with the pandemic, and that made things easier.
                                              But hey, be careful with the skirt I think it's a minimum required of all women, although in the end each of us has had a scare.

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                                                Maija I initiated the whole thing, so probably not

                                                did you know about the security check? 😂

                                                Maija They are my two closest friends, so I told them as best as I could. Fair enough, I got my load of questions, but they understand there's nothing for them to do in the matter since I'm a voluntary wearer nowadays.

                                                I can understand you, I think that's how it is for many. of course they are your two best friends and it is good that they support you. I also got a lot of questions from my best friend, she thinks it's crazy, but actually it's not a big issue anymore, unless we want to go to a swimming pool

                                                    Maija Maybe she has the possibility to go swimming after her wedding. Daniel is going to decide for what activity the chain gets off.

                                                        Maija Was it @Sara2001 who had to completely give up swimming since she wouldn't be released from her thighbands?

                                                        Yes, I can't visit public pools or beaches anymore for swimming. My boyfriend decided that the ability to do swimming is not important enough to get out of the belt.

                                                        Joh Maybe she has the possibility to go swimming after her wedding. Daniel is going to decide for what activity the chain gets off.

                                                        No. The belt will stay in place, except for cleaning and fun time together. I will only get the opportunity to have the chain of the tightbands removed more often. So many outdoor activities will become possible again but swimming will stay impossible.