Accidentally flashing chastity equipment in public

LoonyMel 3) why stigmatize BDSM lifestyle so much?

i don't, i just doubt it's a lifestyle. if it is, it's like @Sara2001, a male-led or in other cases female-led relationship. a sub/top relationship.

Joh The different names/abbreviations should help us only to understand what it means. Nothing more nothing less.

i admit that i am sometimes a bit small-minded, but i, for example, would imagine a BDSM relationship that involves one partner being led on a dog leash by the other partner all day long, even in public. that is certainly wrong, but i would associate it with that.

Sara2001 I just think/thought that when it becomes a 24/7 thing, it's more then BDSM

I agree with you, I think so too

Angelina i admit that i am sometimes a bit small-minded, but i, for example, would imagine a BDSM relationship that involves one partner being led on a dog leash by the other partner all day long, even in public. that is certainly wrong, but i would associate it with that.

As I said, it is only a description. A suitable example would be:
Class: Car
Including subclass: sports car, station car, bus, truck.

It is only a description to differentiate it and not to rank it.

Joh

i'm afraid i have to agree with you, i should perhaps think a little more before criticising something. i will pay attention to this in the future.

Abby82 if you've been wearing the belt for 6 years, you must have outgrown the very first one. Did you get a bigger one yet? ?

Abby82

may i ask at what age was your belt changed? how old are you now 19/20 or? then you will probably have undergone the biggest changes physically, i don't think you need a new one unless the old one is damaged

Abby82 But how would this get damaged?

i don't know exactly (but i keep thinking about how i can make it look like an accident). frankly, i would have thought earlier because a girl's body changes a lot during puberty. that's why i ask again about your starting age? didn't your body change too much until 17?

Abby82 But how would this get damaged?

Normally the lining get damaged.

Abby82

ok, i also changed the most between 12 and 14, but my puberty wasn't exactly ... how do I put this now ..... intensively. however, many people changed a lot between 14 and 17, and they all look more grown up than me now.

Abby82

understandable, a belt should never be too tight or too loose, if we wear it permanently it has to fit like a second skin

I would take a very loose belt if dad offered LOL

I doubt I am the only one!
Unfortunately he is 'kind' enough to get me very well fitting gear

saras I doubt I am the only one!

I would say, everybody

saras I would take a very loose belt if dad offered LOL

well, then of course you would have some cheating possibilities, however, i believe that if you wear such a belt permanently, it can become very uncomfortable and unpleasant and at the latest then you would have to admit that the belt cannot be worn permenently and you would get a tighter one again.

Not flashing but I and Mark we were outed yesterday. My family had a kind of event and one of my aunts was talking about a couple she knows that is very conservative etc, my cousin jokingly said that she wouldn't be surprised if the wife wore a chastity belt, to which the aunt said something along "thanks heavens they are just a myth".

To which my mom flat out exclaimed "no they're not, Sammy wears one! And Mark too!".

Damnit, mom.

Samantha To which my mom flat out exclaimed "no they're not, Sammy wears one! And Mark too!".

Did she ask you to demonstrate?

Samantha Maybe you’ll set off a new line of belt-wearers! See if your aunt’s friend needs some guidance .

Laura Fortunately not! I mean there was a lot of mistrust in her statement. but just a peek at the part that sits above my hips was enough...

Samantha look out, auntie, your spouse might get ideas now .

Samantha my jokes aside, even though your mom may be a little too quick to blurt it out, you’re fortunate that she’s so casual and relaxed about your belts!