I have one "accident" from yesterday, I was with my boyfriend and our keyholder in a coffee shop and we were talking about "our stuff" in a language we all know, which, where we live, almost no one knows. Almost. At a table next to us there was a couple, I think in their 50s, when they were leaving, the lady leaned to us and whispered to us to "have fun" in the mentioned language.

    Samantha
    It shows you can expect at every country people form you home country.

      Max9 🥶🕯 That makes everyone melt

      well, i always try to stay cool in public, but that would be very difficult for me. 😂

      Samantha

      i know situations like that, so always watch out. i was once out with a relative (turkish, but looks very german). there were two others who were talking in turkish and said something bad about us, they really blushed when they realised that my relative understood them. 😉

          Samantha the lady leaned to us and whispered to us to "have fun" in the mentioned language

          And thought about one for her daughter 😂

            a month later

            So umm, today I went to a museum with a couple of friends, and there was a security check.

            The (male) guard was looking mortified while I explained what thighbands are 😃

              Maija how did your friends react? How did he react? Did he search you precisely? I mean how did he discover the bamds? How did the other people in the museum react?

                  Maija The (male) guard was looking mortified while I explained what thighbands are 😃

                  i would worry less about the security guard and more about my friends. what did they say? or did they already know?

                    Maija The (male) guard was looking mortified while I explained what thighbands are 😃

                    I am glad you are okay.
                    I learned that they police are only scared when you act scared first and never the other way around. It is perfectly fine to ask for a girl or to discuss in private

                        Megan I learned that they police are only scared when you act scared first and never the other way around. It is perfectly fine to ask for a girl or to discuss in private

                        Yes, exactly this!

                        Max9 how did your friends react?

                        They already know, which was fortunate 🙂

                              Maija They already know, which was fortunate

                              How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.

                                  Sara2001 How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.

                                  Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 😃. I blame the wind earlier in the summer

                                      Maija What do they think about you wear a cb and bands?

                                        Maija Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 😃. I blame the wind earlier in the summer

                                        So all of them know? How did they react?

                                          Maija They already know, which was fortunate 🙂

                                          that's good of course, but on the one hand i am surprised that you are so open about it and on the other hand i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?

                                          Maija Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them 😃. I blame the wind earlier in the summer

                                          and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?

                                                Angelina i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?

                                                I initiated the whole thing, so probably not

                                                Angelina and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?

                                                They are my two closest friends, so I told them as best as I could. Fair enough, I got my load of questions, but they understand there's nothing for them to do in the matter since I'm a voluntary wearer nowadays.

                                                Totally unrelated: what if we had an OOTD thread? (Like chastity perspective) Would it be too offtopic?

                                                      Maija For what is OOTD standing for?
                                                      What I found at the internet didn't get me an inside.

                                                          Never, to my knowledge, has anyone I didn't want noticed my belt.
                                                          It is also true that until a couple of years ago, I used it mainly at home and little outside. Since I've been using it 24/7, it's coincided with the pandemic, and that made things easier.
                                                          But hey, be careful with the skirt I think it's a minimum required of all women, although in the end each of us has had a scare.

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