Max9 who wouldn't?
someone who is really freezing cold 
Joh Let make a education tour.
The vagina us usual closed because it is surrounded of muscles. It is quite flexible otherwise the baby would not come out.
Their is no gaping hole where you can stick a soft fabric in.
Dr. Joh explained it well (medical advanced training stage 1 completed)
Maija Well, this conversation has gone sideways, for sure
yes, but good that despite the serious topic of the forum we still have room for funny aspects 
While it seems natural and easy, sex is not always so the first time.
Mechanically it is not hard, but a lot of thing can be mentally hard. The anticipation, the anxiety, expectations.. There are high risks to not perform at its finest.
Knowing himself and knowing herself, knowing our bodies and what we need to fee good helps in doing the right thing for ourselves; knowing how we can feel good can help in knowing how, at least, helping someone feel good.
For how much a "first time" would be romantic, I have this convinction that a "disaster" or a "fail" would not be a so romantic "once in a lifetime gift".
Plus, having to do it with an u experienced person, I swear, is pretty hard. It is almost a job where you have to take care of the other person so much that there is little room for your needs. That if you care for the other one.
To gwt back in the topic: pretty positive discussion. Taking into account other people accident can be quite positive into thinking that it is somewhat part of normality and minimize the embarrassment coming from memories.
I have one "accident" from yesterday, I was with my boyfriend and our keyholder in a coffee shop and we were talking about "our stuff" in a language we all know, which, where we live, almost no one knows. Almost. At a table next to us there was a couple, I think in their 50s, when they were leaving, the lady leaned to us and whispered to us to "have fun" in the mentioned language.
Max9
That makes everyone melt
well, i always try to stay cool in public, but that would be very difficult for me.
i know situations like that, so always watch out. i was once out with a relative (turkish, but looks very german). there were two others who were talking in turkish and said something bad about us, they really blushed when they realised that my relative understood them.
So umm, today I went to a museum with a couple of friends, and there was a security check.
The (male) guard was looking mortified while I explained what thighbands are 
Maija They already know, which was fortunate
How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.
Sara2001 How many of your friends know about your equipment and how did they react? I have only invited my very best friend and hide it from everyone else. Only one of Daniels friends and his girlfriend know about my equipment beside my family and my best friend.
Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them . I blame the wind earlier in the summer
Maija They already know, which was fortunate
that's good of course, but on the one hand i am surprised that you are so open about it and on the other hand i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?
Maija Well, I wasn't up to me to tell them
and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?
Angelina i wonder if your friends knew about the security check and put you in this situation on purpose ?
I initiated the whole thing, so probably not
Angelina and how did your friends react? did you say the true reason or did you say an excuse?
They are my two closest friends, so I told them as best as I could. Fair enough, I got my load of questions, but they understand there's nothing for them to do in the matter since I'm a voluntary wearer nowadays.
Totally unrelated: what if we had an OOTD thread? (Like chastity perspective) Would it be too offtopic?
