Laura It's probably forbidden

I don't know, I guess I could have it done if I really wanted to, but there is no medical necessity from my point of view.

Christine Don't give parents such a crazy idea.

i didn't do that. it's more about when, for example, german women want to have a "virginity certificate", in my opinion the parents are left out.

    Laura But in this particular case his mother requires it, that means she doesn't trust him

    This is one way to see it.
    Another way is she doesn't trust her or she will be sure nothing can happen like rape.

      Joh she will be sure nothing can happen like rape.

      Can she rape him? 🤣

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        Laura Yes, it is possible. It's not often but already done.
        But she herself could also be raped by someone before she is married.

          Angelina but after the wedding, no one but the two of you will be interested

          Both could be interested if explained the advantage.

          Angelina sex life is something very special and intimate

          That's exactly the reason, and they should wait at least until night.

          Laura But in this particular case his mother requires it, that means she doesn't trust him

          No, it's because her parents are irresponsible. She will have to present that certificate right before marriage as a proof she didn't sleep with him yet. Otherwise it would be the shame for both families and other negative consequences.

          Joh Another way is she doesn't trust her or she will be sure nothing can happen like rape.

          Not rape, but seduction.

            HHelen No, it's because her parents are irresponsible.

            And just how did you arrive at that conclusion?

              Avery And just how did you arrive at that conclusion?

              Because they had to take care about their daughter's virginity, rather than his parents.

                Joh But she herself could also be raped by someone before she is married.

                Less likely

                HHelen No, it's because her parents are irresponsible.

                Or they trust her more

                HHelen Because they had to take care about their daughter's virginity

                I guess they did a good job, she's still a virgin.

                  HHelen Both could be interested if explained the advantage.

                  i see no advantage in this

                  HHelen That's exactly the reason, and they should wait at least until night.

                  in the first weeks of marriage, it should be more often than normal, even during the day. that's why there's a honeymoon, so you have the whole day for that 🙂

                    Avery I guess they did a good job, she's still a virgin.

                    It's more about the religion. And she is still young.

                    Angelina i see no advantage in this

                    To make sex something special, for example.

                      HHelen It's more about the religion. And she is still young.

                      It's not about religion or her age. The family she expects to marry into is simply protecting their own interests. Like buying a horse. I'd say it's business, Sonny, it's not personal but I doubt you've seen the Godfather.

                        Angelina it's more about when, for example, german women want to have a "virginity certificate", in my opinion the parents are left out.

                        I guess, they don't want to, but required to have one.

                          Avery Like buying a horse

                          But the horse must be unspoiled. Only in this case it has a value.

                          Avery but I doubt you've seen the Godfather

                          Which part?

                            HHelen But the horse must be unspoiled. Only in this case it has a value.

                            You sound like a man.

                            HHelen Which part?

                            I said The Godfather. Not Godfather 2 or 3. The Godfather.

                              Max9 usually done by a priest and the father

                              That is really dangerous, any surgeries should be done by professionals, not priests or parents…

                              Circumcision doesn’t even have any practical reasons nowadays with higher hygiene standards.

                              https://youtu.be/gCSWbTv3hng

                                Rina I know, there's absolutely no reason for it - ok, except for some rare medical cirumstances, but that happens only rarely.
                                It also has a lot of downsided. It's difficult for you to actually experience an orgasm again... you are no more such touch sensitive there and you just ... yeah.. don't feel anything. It also makes it hard to masturbate (you need tons of lube) because otherwise it will hurt a lot. And the process itself is extreamly painful when it's about to heal, especially when you keed to pee. That's really more painful as a swollen appendix that's about to crack. And it looks bad ... well, that are my experiences with it... ok, That's not the only surgery I had... they did also need to fix my urethra and so on back then.

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                                  HHelen To make sex something special, for example.

                                  But that should not be the case in a marriage and especially not at the beginning of the marriage.

                                  Christine I guess, they don't want to, but required to have one.

                                  That's why I'm talking more about girls who want to do it voluntarily, for example because it means a lot to their partner.

                                  Max9

                                  a friend of mine had to have his penis circumcised because the foreskin had grown together with the glans and he could no longer pull it down, a very unpleasant experience.

                                    Angelina for example because it means a lot to their partner

                                    I would run away from such guy.