Max9 qhat if a mother lies about her daughtery hymen... I mean... does someone else also check it? Becsuse otherwise anybody cab say my daughters one is ok
There are two constellations that need to be considered differently:
For the girl's esteem in the Turkish community, hymen examinations by her mother are sufficient. There is a general trust in a mother's declarations about her daughter's chastity. So, it is satisfying enough for Turkish communities that women explain the frequency and the results of the virginity tests they perform on their daughters.
In many cases, the examinations are performed on a monthly basis. However, I myself have agreed to get my hymen checked each week. Women with weekly tests are treated like saints - and that's very enjoyable for me. π
Before weddings, there are of course higher standards. The examination here is usually done by the mother-in-law and sometimes even observed by her sister or cousin. So there is no way to cheat here.
Modern Turkish families often prefer virginity testings done by doctors. These examinations are of course very professional and come together with an official certificate of chastity, which is considered as very trustworthy. π
I hope I could grant a brief overview of our tradition of chastity. This would make me very happy. π€