ZeynepFox My family can be described as semi-conservative. I wear a headscarf in public, avoid sex before marriage and my mother examines my hymen every weekend. On the other hand, I am allowed to take part in social life without limitations.

Just a note about the males for a change, I saw a travelogue on American TV produced by Rick Steves, a well known American travel host. He included in his program on Central Turkey a circumcision party for a young man who looked about 8-9 years old. It was a big family event with dancing and the boy dressed up like a prince. They were somewhere South of Cappadocia. Interesting, quite unlike anything I know about in my country.

    ZeynepFox Is it unwanted to express religious value systems in this forum?

    No, it's not. You're welcome to do so. Just btw. we usually do make posts a bit longer with several responses included so that the amount of messages in the notification box is a bit smaller πŸ˜‰

    Avery Interesting, quite unlike anything I know about in my country.

    That's very interesting, I always thought only the Jewish do that

    Avery circumcision party

    Last week a two year old boy died and his six month old baby brother ended up in intensive care after circumcisions in Perth, Western Australia.

      Laura How will it work once you start wearing your belt 24/7?

      With 24/7 chastity, there will be no need for further hymen checks. And after marriage, my fiancΓ© will become my husband and my hymen will hopefully disappear. I think that he will also be given the keys to my My-Steel. With emergency keys kept by my mother.

        Joh If you could decide freely and independently, would you also choose this way of life?

        Yes, definitely. I believe that wearing a headscarf and staying chaste is quite virtuous and the right way for me. This does of course not mean that I consider females with other value systems as bad or immoral. I only talk about my personal views about what is suitable for myself.

        And I really enjoy that unmarried women with very frequent (in my case: weekly) hymen examinations are treated as saints in my community. 😊😊😊

          Sin Last week a two year old boy died and his six month old baby brother ended up in intensive care after circumcisions in Perth, Western Australia.

          Hopefully they'll be an investigation of how that happened.

          Sin Last week a two year old boy died and his six month old baby brother ended up in intensive care after circumcisions in Perth, Western Australia.

          That's so crap it's not even very common here probably not done by a doctor

            Jen In jewish communities it's usually done by a priest and the father, as far as I've learnt

            • Rina replied to this.

              ZeynepFox there will be no need for further hymen checks

              If she trusts his parents

              ZeynepFox And I really enjoy that unmarried women with very frequent (in my case: weekly) hymen examinations are treated as saints in my community.

              Probably I was a saint too πŸ˜‚

              ZeynepFox I have a very good feeling with Petra. She was so nice on the phone. 😊😊

              I am happy for you, that sounds very good πŸ˜ƒ

              ZeynepFox My religion has a lot to do with my decision to wear a chastity belt. So I think it should be okay to talk about it at least a bit

              it's perfectly ok, please don't get me wrong. but i would disagree if you were referring to islam only, my hardcore christian grandma also supports my belt wearing for religious reasons.

              Sara2001 I agree but I think the ethics in islam vary as much as in the Christian, Jewish, Hindu and even Buddhism community.

              yes and i reject all these religions equally. but i should write that it is only my opinion, i don't want to hurt anyone and i respect other views. πŸ™‚

              ZeynepFox qhat if a mother lies about her daughtery hymen... I mean... does someone else also check it? Becsuse otherwise anybody cab say my daughters one is ok

                ZeynepFox I think that he will also be given the keys to my My-Steel

                Is there a chance that he will not be?

                ZeynepFox I think that he will also be given the keys to my

                Do you think or hope only or do you know he will get the key?

                Max9 qhat if a mother lies about her daughtery hymen... I mean... does someone else also check it? Becsuse otherwise anybody cab say my daughters one is ok

                There are two constellations that need to be considered differently:

                For the girl's esteem in the Turkish community, hymen examinations by her mother are sufficient. There is a general trust in a mother's declarations about her daughter's chastity. So, it is satisfying enough for Turkish communities that women explain the frequency and the results of the virginity tests they perform on their daughters.

                In many cases, the examinations are performed on a monthly basis. However, I myself have agreed to get my hymen checked each week. Women with weekly tests are treated like saints - and that's very enjoyable for me. 😊

                Before weddings, there are of course higher standards. The examination here is usually done by the mother-in-law and sometimes even observed by her sister or cousin. So there is no way to cheat here.

                Modern Turkish families often prefer virginity testings done by doctors. These examinations are of course very professional and come together with an official certificate of chastity, which is considered as very trustworthy. 😊

                I hope I could grant a brief overview of our tradition of chastity. This would make me very happy. πŸ€—

                  ZeynepFox I hope I could grant a brief overview of our tradition of chastity. This would make me very happy.

                  yeah, you could

                  Martin From my point of view the chastity belt is much more better solution then periodical hymen test.

                  I agree. Chastity belts offer more protection, especially if parents / spouses want to protect women from clitoral masturbation.

                  But unfortunately, there seem to be only few belted girls in Germany?

                  In conservative communities in Turkey, a mother who does not offer regular updates about her girl's hymen would be considered a godless communist. πŸ˜…

                  • Joh replied to this.

                    ZeynepFox But unfortunately, there seem to be only few belted girls in Germany

                    We don't know how many women wear a belt. In Germany are two manufacture and they would not exist if they have no demand.

                    ZeynepFox In conservative communities in Turkey, a mother who does not offer regular updates about her girl's hymen would be considered a godless communist

                    Is this common or only in your kind of community?

                      Joh We don't know how many women wear a belt. In Germany are two manufacture and they would not exist if they have no demand.

                      My-Steel and Neosteel are really amazing. But I am afraid, most customers may be fetishists and only few from the Islamic community. My fiancé's sister wears a Neosteel Female Sports. And it is so cute, just breathtaking. 😍😍😍

                      Joh Is this a common or only in your kind of community?

                      I would say that % 40 of Turkey's population are semi-conservative and maybe % 30 conservative. So we have % 70 traditionalists.

                      Weekly virginity checks may be performed in % 30 till 40 of Turkey's families. The other traditionalists have only monthly tests or maybe only occasional tests (including the one before the wedding). Some of them performed in the family, other ones by doctors.

                        I searched it and feel sick. Anyone putting any importance on the hymen is wrong I think.