Angelina thanks 🙂 well, you can be sure that I seriously have a belt, though I won't shot me in it here for obvious reasons.
Yeah, probably will be here now more often... the first time of being locked up after having been out if it for a long time is always the first weeks.

      Max9 Yeah, probably will be here now more often... the first time of being locked up after having been out if it for a long time is always the first weeks.

      Well so long as everyone is well and there is no illegal porn or any offensive thing.
      How has life been as of lately?

        Max9 Yeah, probably will be here now more often... the first time of being locked up after having been out if it for a long time is always the first weeks.

        may i ask why you took this break? you have always been very convinced of chastity.

        • Max9 replied to this.

            Angelina I still am. I frankly don't know why... sometimes I just loose a bit the drive to be chaste from time to time and after that I'm always very happy to be locked up back, till I start to regret it the first weeks and finally get comfortable with being locked again.
            edit: this time it was a very surprisingly long break. however, now i'm back

                Max9

                i think i can understand that, even the very convinced certainly have fluctuations. that's why there's actually a keyholder there who has to take care of it.

                  9 days later

                  Hi, im new here. I found this site after searching for possible help with my issues.. So I really need some real advice in this, as part of me wonders if some of the stories here is true or not.

                  Anyways I have struggled with addiction to self love, and have seriously thought about getting some chastity device so I can focus on my life, be social again, and get better grades. Trust me therapy dose not work and I would not dream of asking for prayer for this issue with anyone I know.

                  I was wondering if anyone experienced anything similar and how it worked out for them. If I did get a chastity of some sort, who sells them with very discrete shipping, as I do not want my family finding out thinking that I'm doing it for weird reasons. Also, what kind will not be easily seen as I don't want to go around looking inappropriate.

                    Hey there. Yep, we got some people with this addiciton here. Oh, feel invited to introduce youself first in the adequate thread.
                    Most devices are being sent discretely and no, you normally don't notice them

                    Jay I was wondering if anyone experienced anything similar and how it worked out for them. If I did get a chastity of some sort, who sells them with very discrete shipping, as I do not want my family finding out thinking that I'm doing it for weird reasons. Also, what kind will not be easily seen as I don't want to go around looking inappropriate.

                    normally this is not a problem with well-known manufacturers such as mysteel or neosteel, you can also write a message so that it is packaged discreetly.

                    I'm wondering though, if you don't want to tell anyone who's supposed to be the key holder?

                    • Jay replied to this.
                        7 days later

                        Angelina I don't know anyone that I could trust with the key. I supose I could create a safe with time activation locks, and program a override for emergencies, that would make it more difficult to unlock without true motivation to unlock it.

                            Jay

                            this is an idea, even if i am not a fan of it, because i think a real key holder is better. chastity is something highly emotional and the connection between the wearer and the key holder is important.

                              Jay
                              I locked in a cage wideout a key holder to. I don’t have any body to trust the key with. So at the moment my best option is having control over it it’s not optimal.
                              I’m looking in to getting a my-steel belt. But don’t know which type yet hoping to get some advices on this forum on that subject.

                                8 days later

                                Simo
                                Do you think it is a normal question for someone?
                                He is a minor.
                                This is a warning.

                                    [deleted] So, as I can see in your profile name you are a femboy 😀
                                    Does chastity for you has to do with that?

                                      [deleted] oh, you're not only a femboy, you are trans. Cute 🥰
                                      yeah, would probably be pretty embaressing to get hard under a skirt in public.
                                      Edit: There are some belts which have a shaped base to make it look like you had a vulva in leggins

                                        [deleted] well, for belts it is really important that they have a good fit.
                                        There are some good steel cages from china, but no good cheap belts.
                                        I'd take a look at Mysteel, they have a belt, for transvestides and I guess Neosteel also has one.
                                        I have a Mysteel untouchable with tube, it also has a shape where you can't explicitely see the male genitals or the tube. Or take the Latwoski, it's similar to the untouchable but with some extras that make urination easier. The cocoon is a chine belt that also covers the genitals

                                          [deleted] I am a male who is into mommy-dom / cgx (cgl without ageplay but possible ageplay)

                                            [deleted] There can be Fancy Steel hybrid belt, which offers kind of less bulky design, and there's an option to choose pink strap (It basically has strap instead of metal waistband, and straps are locked with two locks. Chain jock strap is available for that hybrid belt. So it doesn't completely cover the butt but V-shaped, so doing second business may be easier with it.) It costs lower than other belts like MySteel or Neosteel too!

                                              [deleted] Hybrid belt costs 499 - 569 AUD, so it's kind of has lower price point than over 1K belts!

                                                Ines Do you think it is a normal question for someone?
                                                He is a minor.
                                                This is a warning.

                                                what was that about? did you delete it?

                                                [deleted] yeah sort of ig? it helps with the gender dysphoria sometimes, and also prevents erections in a skirt

                                                i didn't know you were transsexual. i ask because it's a common reason, but does the belt help you "manage" your sexuality better?

                                                [deleted] haha i identify as a demiboy

                                                sorry i don't know exactly what that is. something like non-binary or?

                                                      [deleted] If your budget is $100 then I'd go for a Holytrainer. They are one the best cages you can get. Premium swiss handmade quality 👌🏼 Made of a natural resign that, different to chineese pladtic, doesn't contain cancer-causing softeners.