Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt

HHelen And you started wearing a chastity belt.

Yes, it solves that problem, but raises one from the topic.

alina My question is, what will be the right time to tell him my situation?

Let him discover.

Joh If he can not wait he is not the right one.

you put it perfectly in one sentence

Christine Let him discover.

i strongly advise against the idea, then he might feel that she does not trust him enough to tell him herself and he would leave not because of the belt but because of lack of trust.

@alina I guess you have a double difficulty with dating: not only the belt, but her job might also be hard to accept for a boyfriend, especially in such a conservative environment.
By the way, is it a side job, or do you do it 'full time'?
I think you might want to think about if you would give up the job if he asks. That might get rid of the belt as well. I don't like bringing this up again, since I don't want to persuade you to give it up, but it might be better to have thought about how you would react before it is asked. (Perhaps it is hard to say no at that moment when you are really in love.)

alina We have some conversations (ok I must admit this guy exists, we are already chatting) and he already showed me girls who do sex work he likes.

Why does he show girls who do sex work?
Is he interested in you or in your work?

alina he's from a big city compared to mine

This is an opportunity and a risk. If you move to another city you will depended on him. You do not know someone and nobody is near you to help is something goes wrong.

alina I agree, I think if we meet it's need to be first in my city.

Sorry if you said it already, but what would you do if he wants to keep you belted?

alina I explained, we were not talking about sex work but sharing girls we consider beautiful,

OK. Still, it's strange to me that he's showing you girls.
If I would do it to a girl when we chat it would be most likely she would end the conversation.

The question is still valid. Is hi interested in you because of you or because you are pretty and fit in what he has in mind?

James but what would you do if he wants to keep you belted?

It's not his choice, but her parents'

alina If I am really interested and more intimate with him in the future then yes I would keep it.

It's really surprising to me how easily you would give up your freedom to someone.
Maybe I live in the wrong area?!

alina I agree but I'm not one of them

Everybody says this.
You didn't have relationships yet, so you don't know.

Kaja Most of girls want sex too

That's obvious. A chastity belt is supposed to prevent wanted sex.

Renita but raises one from the topic

You keep the belt a secret from him.

Angelina When she moves in with him, her parents have nothing more to say.

They promised a belt until marriage

Laura They promised a belt until marriage

If she moves in she can pick the lock or use a hacksaw. Problem solved.

Laura so, in the religion of beling women ut would be on him as well as soon as they are married, isn't it?
So, if you want to meet a women to marry whom you want to wear a belt then.... when is it the time for him to tell her?

And for us boys: When would you like to be told (and how) that we wear a chastity belt... if you were not in that szene?

alina I'm considering if I really like him, and if he chooses to keep the belt. I don't think he would anyway.

I don't know him but this would be a opportunity too appealing. I would not decline.

Laura That he wants her to wear a belt?

yeah

Laura Honestly, I can't imagine it

would be interresting to know

Max9 yeah

It depends on whether she is familiar with chastity belts

Laura how about both cases?

Max9 Also for what purpose? To ensure my virginity or my fidelity?