Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt

alina I explained, we were not talking about sex work but sharing girls we consider beautiful,

OK. Still, it's strange to me that he's showing you girls.
If I would do it to a girl when we chat it would be most likely she would end the conversation.

The question is still valid. Is hi interested in you because of you or because you are pretty and fit in what he has in mind?

James but what would you do if he wants to keep you belted?

It's not his choice, but her parents'

alina If I am really interested and more intimate with him in the future then yes I would keep it.

It's really surprising to me how easily you would give up your freedom to someone.
Maybe I live in the wrong area?!

alina I agree but I'm not one of them

Everybody says this.
You didn't have relationships yet, so you don't know.

Kaja Most of girls want sex too

That's obvious. A chastity belt is supposed to prevent wanted sex.

Renita but raises one from the topic

You keep the belt a secret from him.

Joh OK. Still, it's strange to me that he's showing you girls.

this is really very strange. why does a man who wants a woman show her photos of other women he finds pretty?

I would not like that

alina it's just internet photos not real people

behind people from the internet there are also real people

Laura It's not his choice, but her parents'

When she moves in with him, her parents have nothing more to say.

Joh It's really surprising to me how easily you would give up your freedom to someone.

But she also gains freedom, namely freedom from her parents, or rather, from her parents' methods of education.

Angelina When she moves in with him, her parents have nothing more to say.

They promised a belt until marriage

Laura They promised a belt until marriage

If she moves in she can pick the lock or use a hacksaw. Problem solved.

Laura so, in the religion of beling women ut would be on him as well as soon as they are married, isn't it?
So, if you want to meet a women to marry whom you want to wear a belt then.... when is it the time for him to tell her?

And for us boys: When would you like to be told (and how) that we wear a chastity belt... if you were not in that szene?

alina I'm considering if I really like him, and if he chooses to keep the belt. I don't think he would anyway.

I don't know him but this would be a opportunity too appealing. I would not decline.

Max9 yeah

It depends on whether she is familiar with chastity belts

Laura how about both cases?

Max9 Also for what purpose? To ensure my virginity or my fidelity?

Laura well, virginity after marriage doesn't make sense and if you are infidel without a belt the marriage is as good as over anyway... how about to ensure your sexuality is exclusive for your husband, so said to prevent masturbation.

HHelen You keep the belt a secret from him

Yes, I do. And I think, that a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

Max9 well, virginity after marriage doesn't make sense

Before, if you know your girlfriend is virgin

Renita a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

Ideally until wedding night

Angelina and he would leave not because of the belt but because of lack of trust.

Men's logic. Coz that was him who tried to move forward with sex.

Laura They promised a belt until marriage

that's true, but how should this be implemented in practice? i'll give you an example. i would move with my girlfriend into a flat 500 kilometres away from my father. i don't see any way that belt-wearing would still work.

Renita Yes, I do. And I think, that a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

but only as long as there is no danger of him discovering it by accident. then he could have the feeling that you were not honest and that the relationship is not important to you.

Christine Men's logic. Coz that was him who tried to move forward with sex.

this is not men's logic. at a certain point, both partners in a relationship usually want to have sex, and at the latest (really at the latest) at this point the woman should say it honestly.

So ... how would you girls react when a man who you're dating tells you that he likes being belted? How would you like to be told that?