Diana, you seem so knowledgeable, I hope you don't mind me asking questions, I am kinda scared but I love Steve and want to please him

    Nina There's a wealth of knowledge here from these girls to be sure. 🙂

      Nina
      It Will be hard in the beginning but if you love him. You Will manage it

        Diana_V yes he did because he used her still belted

        It's your fault, you could take her belt off before

        Nina Do you wear a second shield all the time?

        As everybody else here

        Nina Why is his father involved with me?

        And not Steve?

                Nina Usually these families come from the perspective of men and girls - so if you're not a man, your status is that of a girl at 18 years less a day - and so you answer to Dad too.

                  But I am over 18, Steve said until marrage

                    Nina Yes you would, on an ongoing basis. The email works!

                      Nina So I would have to submit to his parents

                      Of course, they are not happy, that you don't wear a chastity belt being not married.
                      But you can also submit to your parents

                          Laura But you can also submit to your parents

                          That...depends entirely on if her parents approve of this sort of thing at all.

                              James if her parents approve of this sort of thing at all

                              They will discover her belt shortly anyway

                                Nina few things I'm replying to here

                                Any kind of spanking - nothing to do with chastity that's like a totally different lifestyle. And I get some people are happy discovering it - but being pushed - yikes🥴

                                Chastity - I care now but yeah I used to masturbate, used a toy.....
                                This - it's got to become something you care about - like having it forced on you I think I'd go crazy. Took me a while to convince myself. So go slow see what you think - try to see the value of it - think about that part of your life being something which is only with your husband not yourself

                                  Diana_V your not married so in their eyes a girl

                                  Neither you or me.

                                  Nina So I would have to submit to his parents

                                  Try to discuss an abstinence belt.

                                        I was a little surprised when I read this experience.As a Chinese,I was too conservative to accept such things at beginning.There are so many different cultures in the big world,so I am curious about your life now.

                                          Renita Neither you or me.

                                          diana: That's why I'm in a chastity belt

                                              Laura It's your fault, you could take her belt off before

                                              Diana: We removed the belt before she put on her wedding dress. After the wedding ceremony in the town hall and before the service in the church. He said I appreciate that you remain chaste (under the same circumstances) now that we are married. She said of course. After the church service, we pick up the chastity belt and fasten it again.
                                              So we gave her the choice!

                                              It was her own decision