Intro

Diana, you seem so knowledgeable, I hope you don't mind me asking questions, I am kinda scared but I love Steve and want to please him

Nina There's a wealth of knowledge here from these girls to be sure.

Why is his father involved with me?

Diana_V yes he did because he used her still belted

It's your fault, you could take her belt off before

Nina Do you wear a second shield all the time?

As everybody else here

Nina Why is his father involved with me?

And not Steve?

Nina Usually these families come from the perspective of men and girls - so if you're not a man, your status is that of a girl at 18 years less a day - and so you answer to Dad too.

But I am over 18, Steve said until marrage

Diana_V ...and when married, a married girl.

Nina So I would have to submit to his parents

Of course, they are not happy, that you don't wear a chastity belt being not married.
But you can also submit to your parents

Laura But you can also submit to your parents

That...depends entirely on if her parents approve of this sort of thing at all.

James if her parents approve of this sort of thing at all

They will discover her belt shortly anyway

Nina few things I'm replying to here

Any kind of spanking - nothing to do with chastity that's like a totally different lifestyle. And I get some people are happy discovering it - but being pushed - yikes

Chastity - I care now but yeah I used to masturbate, used a toy.....
This - it's got to become something you care about - like having it forced on you I think I'd go crazy. Took me a while to convince myself. So go slow see what you think - try to see the value of it - think about that part of your life being something which is only with your husband not yourself

Diana_V your not married so in their eyes a girl

Neither you or me.

Nina So I would have to submit to his parents

Try to discuss an abstinence belt.

I was a little surprised when I read this experience.As a Chinese,I was too conservative to accept such things at beginning.There are so many different cultures in the big world,so I am curious about your life now.