Nina few things I'm replying to here
Any kind of spanking - nothing to do with chastity that's like a totally different lifestyle. And I get some people are happy discovering it - but being pushed - yikes🥴
Chastity - I care now but yeah I used to masturbate, used a toy.....
This - it's got to become something you care about - like having it forced on you I think I'd go crazy. Took me a while to convince myself. So go slow see what you think - try to see the value of it - think about that part of your life being something which is only with your husband not yourself