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Diana_V
I think you're thinking right, because chastity belts are not that common among men who date, it can be daunting for them. But in the right company, there will be no problems.

Diana_V no risk for sex because i can control myself. Interested, sure

So, are you looking for marriage?

Diana_V I'm open to a new relationship, but the belt is often the bummer

Do you think my mom is right?

Diana_V That she doesn't let me date without the belt.

Laura Did you wear your belt under your wedding dress?

Of course a belt is a normal clothing, I don't want to be nude at the altar.
There were some nudists who wear body-paint wedding dresses and that isn't for me.

Laura Did he finally take her virginity?

Diana_V Months

Laura Why so long?

Diana_V I can only guess

Diana_V she told me anal

Okay that is unreasonable. You can not learn anal in one night, and anal mostly involves being kissed and caressed by the man for some time before slowly starting penetration. There is no "use her" like you wrote.

Diana_V I don't think so and I don't want to the belt is a part of my life. Should I be ashamed?

Absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. If the man walked out you scared him did you shout or complain about it?
They don't care and they don't even know what it is until they first feel it. Did you show your belt to him in the restaurant or something?

Renita No, just not scare out from the beginning.
That's my idea, but my mom is against it and doesn't allow dating with the belt.
I thought, that you son might think differently.

Tobbe I think you're thinking right, because chastity belts are not that common among men who date, it can be daunting for them. But in the right company, there will be no problems.

Men do NOT care. You don't need to go to a dating fetish website where the men want some weird weird things like tying you up and hitting you.

Renita That she doesn't let me date without the belt.

Great. Find a hot guy you like. Go on the date, if the date is fun go on another date. If he is really really great marry him, it's great ! there is no problem

Megan did you date many and none of them cared? Were you intimate in other ways?

Diana_V I dont have the spare key

May I ask you why? Coz he doesn't trust you?

Megan You don't need to go to a dating fetish website

No, don't need a fetishist at all.

Megan Go on the date, if the date is fun go on another date. If he is really really great marry him, it's great

The only problem how to explain the belt to him.

Renita The only problem how to explain the belt to him.

well, i'm serious now. just tell him why you wear the belt or rather have to wear it. if he doesn't understand that, he's not the right person because he won't understand you either.

Angelina just tell him why you wear the belt or rather have to wear it

"Have to" sounds better, but I also want to hear @Diana_V 's experience, because she did it already.

Diana_V e told him she must.

How do you explain a secondary shield?

Renita How do you explain a secondary shield?

Diana_V the truth to prevent masturbation

They prevent terrible pinching and help with ventilation. When you have a husband there is no need to masturbate.
No husband should be that lazy or disinterested.