AlexandrA aren’t you worried that they might keep you both belted after marriage? Parental authority should yield to a spouse after that.
My own mother-in-law wants my wife and I belted with her holding the keys but that’s partially because she doesn’t really approve of a trans lesbian marriage, haha. I’ve discovered that half the reason she approves of me belting my wife in the last year is because as a trans woman, mom thinks of me as being kind of like a guy and thus I should be in charge.
AlexandrA and her girlfriend
I'm not afraid of that, To my surprice my girlfriend also wants to wear a chastity belt, (her own will) to show solidarity with me.
AlexandrA you should prepare yourself for a certain amount of frustration after marriage, then! I’m a big fan of chastity and even I’m afraid of a married scenario where neither spouse has access to the keys.
But if your girlfriend volunteered for the belt, she may be more into it than expected. Especially since it sounds like she could have gotten your keys after marriage if she so wished.
Right she can get both keys if she wants to after marriage or leave both keys with my mom
AlexandrA ah, I misread an earlier response; I thought you were both indefinitely belted after marriage. If your girlfriend can take the keys back at that point, it makes more sense. (And unless she has a REALLY submissive streak, she’ll take the keys back after years of denial!)
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She can choose not to use my key.
Or leave both keys with my mother
AlexandrA yes, but it would make the most sense for her to claim your key and have the option. You seem to be at peace with being locked; I imagine that you’d accept being locked by your wife.
Would you really allow your wife to decide a scenario where you’re both permanently belted after college and marriage, without the choice to unlock yourselves?
I think she choose the first option and if she decides not to take off my chastity belt then I have no problem with that.
Second option:
I am a submissive and will respect her choice
AlexandrA it seems that you are honestly quite happy with the belt. You describe yourself as being involuntarily belted after you got your girlfriend, but I also think you didn’t mind that they lifted the burden of the choice from you.
Saintprudence
I meant by forced that I was not present during that decision. But glad they made that decision
AlexandrA it seems that all worked out for the best and prepared you for a life of virtue, including controlling your self-pleasure habit before it got out of control.
Maybe I'll make a separate page just like Sun. named Story of Alexandra and Kim
Of course if others are interested and Kim agrees.
control over my pleasure habit is the best thing that happened to me and that Kim is supporting me is great.
AlexandrA that would be welcome here, I think. If your girlfriend is Kim, who is Faye?
Saintprudence
I didn't know she was okay with giving her real name, just asked and corrected
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Thank you Laura
Intro"
Alexandra 21 years. Belted by parents, Mother keyholder. A relationship with Kim (22 years) for a year and a half. Both Law students. Both in the second year of our study. Still 4 or 5 years to go. Out of solidarity, Kim has been wearing a belt for 3 months now. She also choose my mother as keyholder. The best way to describe our relationship is as Dominant and sub. Me as a sub, later more have to study now
AlexandrA I totally get that.