Introductions
Really no idea
compulsive excessive masturbation, think 15+ every day
AlexandrA
We had a discussion what we should post in introduction, only introduction.
If you don't mind we could move the discussion to Sexual frustration in CB
Laura
Yes I am.
Why ?
Raquel
I am not forced, but convinced that the belt was the right solution for me. They were right. I am more focused on my studies, get better results. My girlfriend supports me enormously and to show her solidarity and love for me, she first offers to wear a belt to me and later to my parents. My parents (especially my mother) really appreciated that under the following conditions:
A. That she hand over all her keys (and also my spare key) to my parents, actually to my mother.
B. Earlier agreed that my girlfriend and my parents decide when I get the key to my belt, appointment is now after my graduation. is adjusted, my parents (actually my mother) decide now that we get our keys back. My girlfriend was initially shocked by point B. My girlfriend is quite dominant and giving up her dominance was difficult for her, but she accepted the conditions. My mother has taken her measurements and now waiting (4 weeks) for the delivery of the belt.
Thank you Kris.
welcome to the forum
you write that it is no longer voluntary, which surprises me because for most people it would rather change to voluntary if the girlfriend asks.
welcome to the forum too
AlexandrA compulsive excessive masturbation, think 15+ every day
That is really a lot, I can at least understand that your girlfriend does not like it.
Lana Hello
I am back for a few days. Gotta say, this forum has been more popular since last time I checked. I will catch up with many users soon.
Welcome back Lana
so your girlfriend also wears a belt to support you and your parents have the keys? do you both live together with your parents?
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Angelina
Mother has the keys
Yes we do.
Angelina When talking about my interest in thigh bands, it's like talking about my interest in my future wife cooking what I want for dinner. The fact that it's a form of physical restraint doesn't make it any different than anything else you're willing to do for yourself or your spouse. I wake up at 7am everyday, for example. It's difficult at times, but I'm willing to do that for myself.
Lana It is your decision. You are old enough and they can't tell you what to do. If you find a well-paid job and are also financially independent, how will they be able to continue to demand it of you?
If you see the advantage of wearing the CB when you go out of the house, no one is stopping you. But then it is up to you to do it or not.
If you prefer to wear it after your marriage and you future husband should be the key holder than do it. If you don't like it to hand over this power don't do it.
i agree with @Joh, especially because you are already living relatively independently. i think you should do what makes you happy and not just your parents. i kind of don't like the fact that only now they talked about you wearing it until the wedding, plus there are so many breaks and gaps in it that it doesn't make much sense to me, but well, all the best.