Ines she wouldn't get rid of the thighbabds then

And of the virginity, I guess 😂

  • Ines replied to this.

      Laura Angelina are you making any progress in terms of relationships or something like that?

      No

      Is it that you date and the belt proves an insurmountable obstacle to the relationship? Or do you chose not to date, as the prospect of telling someone about it seems too daunting?

          Ines
          Welcome back to the forums! Your presence was missed and am quite happy to see you commenting on this thread.

          Ines Seeing how interested Bryan is in the concept, she wouldn't get rid of the thighbabds then.😈😂

          As I recall @Laura not only doesn't have thighbands but is immune from them due to her classic Tollyboy belt. I suppose we could all chip in to get her a new one in case she is worried she is missing out from the full experience...
          #GoFundMe

                Laura

                lol. Attitude towards dating generally (ie choose not to date), or "attitude" while out on dates with folks (ie a bit skeptical of the folks you go on dates with)?

                    Laura Because my attitude 😂

                    how exactly do you mean that? dating is an option and you are actually confident enough to date with a belt. 😉

                        Bryan Attitude towards dating generally (ie choose not to date), or "attitude" while out on dates with folks (ie a bit skeptical of the folks you go on dates with)?

                        Former

                        Angelina how exactly do you mean that?

                        Inability to build relationships

                              Laura Inability to build relationships

                              I don't believe you, you've set up a contact forum here, so you'll be able to do it privately too 😉

                                  Abby82 Well i've thought about this and if i'm willing to get married, at some point i have to go on a date with the belt :/

                                  If you date someone, if its the right person, you will forget about the belt for the time you are together 🙂 Just act normal as always, and there is a good chance that he/she will not notice it. I one dated a girl and she didn't noticed it

                                    Abby82 Well i've thought about this and if i'm willing to get married, at some point i have to go on a date with the belt :/

                                    Abby82 Yeah i'll have to try. However theres gonna be a situation where i need to admit that i'm belted etc.

                                    I think that one way to approach it is to establish a friendship, and, if you like what you are experiencing, open the door to having dates.
                                    I don't think that with a properly checked and tightened belt your parents should have any problem with you dating boys.
                                    Its normal...
                                    Or have "non-dates" with a "non-boyfriend", like my sister 😅

                                    Laura Inability to build relationships

                                    I only know you from the forum, and at least to me you have seemed a more interesting girl than the vast majority of those I know.
                                    Don't worry, @Bryan , I don't want to steal anything from you, I really like men, especially mine.

                                            Abby82

                                            Ines

                                            I'm worried it will get out and everyone will think I'm "that kinky girl who wears a chastity belt".

                                                  Abby82 Well i've thought about this and if i'm willing to get married, at some point i have to go on a date with the belt :/

                                                  that will be the case, yes, have you never been on a date before? it's a bit of a leap, but it's best not to tell him about the belt until you're very close anyway. 😉

                                                  Laura I meant IRL

                                                  i get that, but i don't believe you. you're an open person here, so you can bring it out. 😉

                                                  Abby82 However theres gonna be a situation where i need to admit that i'm belted etc.

                                                  yes, but normally much later and then you can still weigh up whether it's worth it to you.

                                                  Jen I'm worried it will get out and everyone will think I'm "that kinky girl who wears a chastity belt".

                                                  this can happen but the probability is very low. it should be well hidden at first and after some time you can judge if you should tell the potential partner openly. I can guarantee one thing, a happy relationship is definitely worth talking about openly 🙂

                                                            Laura Inability to build relationships

                                                            What happens when you try to build relationships?

                                                                Ines I only know you from the forum, and at least to me you have seemed a more interesting girl than the vast majority of those I know.
                                                                Don't worry, @Bryan , I don't want to steal anything from you, I really like men, especially mine.

                                                                Quite happy to hear things are going well for you on the dating front :-)

                                                                Not sure I understand what you mean by "steal anything from [me]"?

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                                                                    Ines Since I was praising @Laura, I didn't want you to be jealous.

                                                                    lol. I understand now. I appreciate your concern about being perceived as a rival suitor for Laura's virtual affections ;-)

                                                                      Jen I'm worried it will get out and everyone will think I'm "that kinky girl who wears a chastity belt".

                                                                      Rather than something by which you worry you might be judged, I wonder if you could view your belt as something that helps you judge wisely? I grew up in a religiously conservative environment where folks take waiting for marriage seriously, but there were still many men who take this view as a "challenge" rather than a resolution. A belt is a powerful tool for putting the intentions of anyone you date to the test. If they care about you and your views on waiting, they should be fine (if not perhaps a bit frustrated) with your belt. If they have an issue with it (and the fact that no amount of convincing will get them certain pleasures without marriage) then perhaps they aren't worth your time. Rather than something "kinky", you are wearing something that gives you extraordinary powers of perception that most women don't have :-)