Laura updates?

Laura Just don't see a purpose. Sex? Impossible. Marriage? It would make things more complicated

well, you could also date to build a relationship with someone you really love.

curious that also means you will never get a chance to have an orgasm

pay close attention to what @Laura writes. she writes that she is not allowed to have an orgasm. as far as i know she has breaks but is not allowed to masturbate, that she is officially not allowed does not mean that she does not do it, i had a similar discussion with Laura before

@Laura now something personal for you. do you really want to be still in the belt at 50 and have the keys held by your parents? do something, go out into the world, try online dating if necessary.

@Laura do you consider yourself asexual? (Naturally I mean, not as a result of the belt).

Laura Just don't see a purpose. Sex? Impossible. Marriage? It would make things more complicated

Do you wish for sex without relationship?
Like it's opposite of this forum, but one of my happiest friends does this and she's in Uni and she's amazing.

Laura I'm not sure. Didn't even think about it

It is a hard question, truly is not so easy as ask "what is your favorite snack".

Laura I think I remember your age, and I also remember when I was that age. I had plenty of friends, I was busy with activities... and had no real goal of finding a person for a long term relationship. It was on the back burner; however, not one of my active goals... with the passage of time, my goals rearranged....

If I have read enough, I think that might sum up some of your position.

Laura What for?

To get out of the belt?
Or do you actually enjoy being in a belt 24/7?

I'm think Laura has a right to think and believe as she wishes. I know this is a chastity site, with long suffering for the chance of marriage and orgasm being the big prize. But sex is not all there is to this world. I've has close female relationships that i've enjoyed more than lovers. As a guy in chastity i haven't had intercouse in twelve years, i've also been told it will never happen again BAV born again virgin. This in no way diminishes our love for each other or life. It seems Laura finds the role of wife and housekeeper distasteful. My advice? Go Domme, keep him in chastity as he does the housework. This world is full of options and all are available!

Laura What for?

maybe to meet someone you could have a relationship with. you seem to have a bit of a hard time just approaching someone, so that would be an alternative. i also met my future wife online, so it can work.

toad But sex is not all there is to this world

of course not, but a relationship has many beautiful moments and i think it would be good for @Laura to find someone who makes her happy (no matter what this happiness looks like in the end).

a_father One does hope so...

Laura It makes it harder

It should prevent it completely.

a_father She will eventually inherit the key to her chastity belt sometimes in the future .

it can happen, but hopefully it will take many years and i think it is more likely that @Laura is over 30, she should slowly try to find a partner.

Renita It's my fear

Laura
It is impossible to please everyone with this neverending topic of masturbation.

If you never masturbate some people will complain and if you are ridiculous and tear your body up overtime more people will complain. A belt is not the ultimate answer. I have been surprised that women here will be belted after making terrible decisions with many many partners and continue to do lewd things once in a belt and simply hate the belt.
Where were the parents before the belt???? They want to make the daughter uncomfortable as the solution when there is no way to go back in time.

I never masturbated and while I would feel sexual it would pass after awhile just like any other feeling, but now that I have been with my husband it does not pass but just shift in intensity over some time locked the chastity belt .

I used to think that it was better not to masturbate but I think really you shouldn't press hard with your hands or force things as that's what causes all the damage. Also we don't make fun of lesbians here and so I am tired of lesbians mocking straight women for wanting penetration. I think if a girl chooses to start a belt after she has masturbated she should be allowed breaks and the details of the breaks should be planned out ahead of time with some privacy and a way to get clean.

Megan I used to think that it was better not to masturbate but I think really you shouldn't press hard with your hands or force things as that's what causes all the damage.

Yes this is danger

Megan .... there is no way to go back in time.

Hey even if things happened changing the future is real. I value my commitment since 2021, but like I don't regret what was before. It's just like we all need to know what we're doing and why and know it's right for us. And actually for Laura I think she doesn't have that.

Laura It's my fear

You should talk to your parents.

Renita You should talk to your parents.

why? this could lead to her really being permanently in the belt and no longer having any chance of any form of relief

Angelina To stop cheating.