Bryan Are you comfortable sharing why you don't date?

Just don't see a purpose. Sex? Impossible. Marriage? It would make things more complicated

    Laura Companionship? Lots of fun physical interactions short of sex (a good make-out can be underrated :-)

    How would marriage make things more complicated? If your family is into traditions, marriage is a popular one :-)

      Bryan Companionship?

      I prefer online

      Bryan How would marriage make things more complicated?

      More duties, more responsibility

      Bryan If your family is into traditions, marriage is a popular one

      For them, but not for me

        Laura Do you prefer online relationships because in-person would result in sexual frustration (and the only way to "solve" would be marriage which you don't want right now)? Or would you have the same online preference without your belt?

          Bryan Is it the sexual frustration that would result from an in-person relationship (due to your belt and not looking for marriage right now) that causes you to prefer online relationships?

          The question is: Is there sexual frustration in the first place?

          @Laura are you locked to only preserve virginity or is the belt also used to make any form of masturbating impossible?

            Bryan Do you prefer online relationships

            I don't practice online relationships either

            Bryan Or would you have the same online preference without your belt?

            No difference, I suppose

            curious or is the belt also used to make any form of masturbating impossible?

            It makes it harder. And no, I'm not allowed to masturbate

              Laura If you truly don't have any desire for a relationship that is totally fine. However if anxiety or fear are holding you back I do hope you are able to put yourself out there when you feel ready. Dating can definitely be hard but it can also be quite satisfying and a great chance to grow.

                Laura Just don't see a purpose. Sex? Impossible. Marriage? It would make things more complicated

                I may not fully understand your motivation, but wouldn't it be easier for you to form relationships if you weren't wearing a chastity belt?

                  Laura I'm not allowed to masturbate

                  So, if you do not date that means you are most likely never going to meet someone whom you could marry, right?
                  But when the belt is used strictly, that also means you will never get a chance to have an orgasm - potentially never. Have you been belted before you ever experienced an orgasm or why don`t you miss having one?

                    Laura Just don't see a purpose. Sex? Impossible. Marriage? It would make things more complicated

                    well, you could also date to build a relationship with someone you really love. 🙂

                    curious that also means you will never get a chance to have an orgasm

                    pay close attention to what @Laura writes. she writes that she is not allowed to have an orgasm. as far as i know she has breaks but is not allowed to masturbate, that she is officially not allowed does not mean that she does not do it, i had a similar discussion with Laura before

                    @Laura now something personal for you. do you really want to be still in the belt at 50 and have the keys held by your parents? do something, go out into the world, try online dating if necessary. 🙂

                      Bryan If you truly don't have any desire for a relationship that is totally fine

                      No, I don't. And I'm trying to explain it

                      Andrew but wouldn't it be easier for you to form relationships if you weren't wearing a chastity belt?

                      I don't think you would make a big difference. It's more about my personality

                      curious that also means you will never get a chance to have an orgasm - potentially never.

                      It doesn't mean it

                      Angelina do you really want to be still in the belt at 50 and have the keys held by your parents?

                      No

                      Angelina try online dating if necessary

                      What for?

                        @Laura do you consider yourself asexual? (Naturally I mean, not as a result of the belt).

                          Laura Just don't see a purpose. Sex? Impossible. Marriage? It would make things more complicated

                          Do you wish for sex without relationship?
                          Like it's opposite of this forum, but one of my happiest friends does this and she's in Uni and she's amazing.

                            Sin Pretty much, however I can't say I'm not interested in sex completely

                            Jen Do you wish for sex without relationship?

                            I'm not sure. Didn't even think about it

                              Laura I'm not sure. Didn't even think about it

                              It is a hard question, truly is not so easy as ask "what is your favorite snack".

                              Laura I think I remember your age, and I also remember when I was that age. I had plenty of friends, I was busy with activities... and had no real goal of finding a person for a long term relationship. It was on the back burner; however, not one of my active goals... with the passage of time, my goals rearranged....

                              If I have read enough, I think that might sum up some of your position.

                              Laura What for?

                              To get out of the belt?
                              Or do you actually enjoy being in a belt 24/7?

                              I'm think Laura has a right to think and believe as she wishes. I know this is a chastity site, with long suffering for the chance of marriage and orgasm being the big prize. But sex is not all there is to this world. I've has close female relationships that i've enjoyed more than lovers. As a guy in chastity i haven't had intercouse in twelve years, i've also been told it will never happen again BAV born again virgin. This in no way diminishes our love for each other or life. It seems Laura finds the role of wife and housekeeper distasteful. My advice? Go Domme, keep him in chastity as he does the housework. This world is full of options and all are available!

                                Laura What for?

                                maybe to meet someone you could have a relationship with. you seem to have a bit of a hard time just approaching someone, so that would be an alternative. i also met my future wife online, so it can work. 🙂

                                toad But sex is not all there is to this world

                                of course not, but a relationship has many beautiful moments and i think it would be good for @Laura to find someone who makes her happy (no matter what this happiness looks like in the end).

                                Angelina now something personal for you. do you really want to be still in the belt at 50 and have the keys held by your parents?

                                She will eventually inherit the key to her chastity belt sometimes in the future 😬.