Philip I was playing with myself several times a day. I felt like I was cheating on my wife. I wanted to stop doing that.

i can even understand that, i don't think it's right in a relationship either. however, i doubt whether a chastity belt/cage is directly necessary, love for the partner should be enough.

      Angelina The problem was i was finding it easier to play with myself and not playing with my wife. I was just ignoring her as it was easier to skulk off and play with myself.

          Philip

          as i said, i don't know if the belt is the solution, but it could be. you should definitely work on it. 😉

              Angelina I am now 5 days in and no sign of getting out. I know I have been spending my energy on my wife. She seems to be liking it.

                  The problem is any cage without PA can get out of it

                    Igor I don't think my wife would approve if I was to pull out of it. I would end up getting put in to a full belt.

                      Philip The problem was i was finding it easier to play with myself and not playing with my wife. I was just ignoring her as it was easier to skulk off and play with myself.

                      Well if it works for you then happy wife happy life.
                      Just so long as you are safe and comfortable

                        Philip I am now 5 days in and no sign of getting out. I know I have been spending my energy on my wife. She seems to be liking it.

                        that sounds good and remember that you are not doing without completely, hopefully your wife will take care of your sexual needs. 😉

                            Angelina I do know that my wife will take care of me. The only thing has surprised me so far is the initial duration. No build up learning how to wear the cage. 2 hours one day, 4 hours the next day. None of that I was put in and that was it.

                            I do think I might get out on Monday but more likely Tuesday.

                                @Philip, you've already been wearing a cage, although it was some time ago. Once you've been accustomed to a cage, you can get used to it again very quickly. That's how it's been for me atleast...
                                Like driving a bicycle! 😅 Once you learn it, you can't really forget it!
                                I was thinking to get locked up again when my summer vacation is over on next week.

                                  LazyGoat Yea i kind of guess it is like that. I was supprised how quickly i got used to it. Like i barly notice it most of the time now.

                                  LazyGoat were you locked up in the past?

                                      Nah, i've mostly just like played with chastity (few months at most), nothing compared to some of the girls in here.
                                      I've got so much respect for them!

                                        LazyGoat Ah right fair enough. Just need a some one to hold the keys and try for longer then.

                                          Philip The only thing has surprised me so far is the initial duration. No build up learning how to wear the cage. 2 hours one day, 4 hours the next day. None of that I was put in and that was it.

                                          that's hard, of course, but since you're not permanently locked but only for a certain time and your wife can let you out for sexual adventures, that could be ok. a short training session would have been better anyway

                                              Angelina I dont know how long i am going to be locked for. I am hopeing that i will get out either Monday or Tuesday. I think i will probably be once or twice a month i will get out.

                                              I would of liked a break in period but that dident happen.

                                              My wife has already started discussing getting a full belt. She said that she prefares how they look compared to the cage. i would think that we will have one before the end of the year.

                                                  Philip well, both have their advantages.
                                                  Which one do you both consider to buy?

                                                      Max9 I got myself the Neosteel measuring kit for a waist belt so will probably go for that.

                                                      Saying that I do like to do DIY and play about with things so I might go for a Chinese belt and try and modify it myself.

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                                                          Philip Your wife is wise. Full belts are more uncomfortable for men to wear, but the important part is that you be kept secure, and they are much more effective at preventing unvirtuous behavior!