Philip The problem was i was finding it easier to play with myself and not playing with my wife. I was just ignoring her as it was easier to skulk off and play with myself.

Well if it works for you then happy wife happy life.
Just so long as you are safe and comfortable

    Philip I am now 5 days in and no sign of getting out. I know I have been spending my energy on my wife. She seems to be liking it.

    that sounds good and remember that you are not doing without completely, hopefully your wife will take care of your sexual needs. 😉

        Angelina I do know that my wife will take care of me. The only thing has surprised me so far is the initial duration. No build up learning how to wear the cage. 2 hours one day, 4 hours the next day. None of that I was put in and that was it.

        I do think I might get out on Monday but more likely Tuesday.

            @Philip, you've already been wearing a cage, although it was some time ago. Once you've been accustomed to a cage, you can get used to it again very quickly. That's how it's been for me atleast...
            Like driving a bicycle! 😅 Once you learn it, you can't really forget it!
            I was thinking to get locked up again when my summer vacation is over on next week.

              LazyGoat Yea i kind of guess it is like that. I was supprised how quickly i got used to it. Like i barly notice it most of the time now.

              LazyGoat were you locked up in the past?

                  Nah, i've mostly just like played with chastity (few months at most), nothing compared to some of the girls in here.
                  I've got so much respect for them!

                    LazyGoat Ah right fair enough. Just need a some one to hold the keys and try for longer then.

                      Philip The only thing has surprised me so far is the initial duration. No build up learning how to wear the cage. 2 hours one day, 4 hours the next day. None of that I was put in and that was it.

                      that's hard, of course, but since you're not permanently locked but only for a certain time and your wife can let you out for sexual adventures, that could be ok. a short training session would have been better anyway

                          Angelina I dont know how long i am going to be locked for. I am hopeing that i will get out either Monday or Tuesday. I think i will probably be once or twice a month i will get out.

                          I would of liked a break in period but that dident happen.

                          My wife has already started discussing getting a full belt. She said that she prefares how they look compared to the cage. i would think that we will have one before the end of the year.

                              Philip well, both have their advantages.
                              Which one do you both consider to buy?

                                  Max9 I got myself the Neosteel measuring kit for a waist belt so will probably go for that.

                                  Saying that I do like to do DIY and play about with things so I might go for a Chinese belt and try and modify it myself.

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                                      Philip Your wife is wise. Full belts are more uncomfortable for men to wear, but the important part is that you be kept secure, and they are much more effective at preventing unvirtuous behavior!

                                        Philip My wife has already started discussing getting a full belt. She said that she prefares how they look compared to the cage. i would think that we will have one before the end of the year.

                                        visually i think a real belt looks better. however, the investment would mean that it is now a long-term project

                                            Angelina yea this is going to be a long term project. It has only just been over a week now and she is pretty happy with the situation.

                                                Philip yea this is going to be a long term project. It has only just been over a week now and she is pretty happy with the situation.

                                                as long as you are still happy too, that's ok. if not, you should try to find another solution.

                                                    Angelina Yea i am fairly happy with how it is going.

                                                    My wife really likes me being locked up. Last night i was let out and the cage did not go back on straight away. I have been free for most of the day but just before my wife went to work i was instructed to put the cage back on and she took the keys with her. She said that she wants to make sure i am not up to anything when she is out of the house.

                                                        Philip

                                                        I hope there is a plan for emergencies when she is not at home?
                                                        otherwise she seems to be taking good care of you but at least giving you sexual pleasure every now and then, that sounds good. 🙂

                                                            Angelina We have an app controlled safe in the house. In an emergency she can open it remotely.