Back in a cage

Philip

After a few years break i am back in a cage.

My wife already has the keys.

Hopefully it wont bee too difficult to get back in to the swing of it.

Angelina

Philip

good luck, why did you start again just now?

Kai

Just curious why you took a few years off and decided to go back?

Philip

Kai oh a number of reasons. We started a family. Moved country and changed jobs. Didn't really have tome for it. So it just stopped for about 6 years.

Philip

Angelina I was playing with myself several times a day. I felt like I was cheating on my wife. I wanted to stop doing that.

Kai

Philip I totally understand that. YMMV, but what i have found is being locked is life changing. More energy (don't know why, but it does), increased amount of time with my kids and still get projects around the house done. Biggest change is that I don't seem to get angry or over-react anymore (your kids will do stupid things, trust me). No matter what happens, i remain calm.

Angelina

Philip I was playing with myself several times a day. I felt like I was cheating on my wife. I wanted to stop doing that.

i can even understand that, i don't think it's right in a relationship either. however, i doubt whether a chastity belt/cage is directly necessary, love for the partner should be enough.

Philip

Kai Well I am hoping it will be a change for the better. Just have to wait and see.

Philip

Well that was unexpected. My wife came in to the bathroom when I was having a shower to supervise.

Kai

Philip Sounds like she is supportive of this. If so, just go with it.

Philip

Kai It does seem like that is the case.

Before she was not that intrested in it. So it kind of supprised me when that happened.

Philip

Angelina The problem was i was finding it easier to play with myself and not playing with my wife. I was just ignoring her as it was easier to skulk off and play with myself.

Angelina

Philip

as i said, i don't know if the belt is the solution, but it could be. you should definitely work on it. 😉

Megan

Philip The problem was i was finding it easier to play with myself and not playing with my wife. I was just ignoring her as it was easier to skulk off and play with myself.

Well if it works for you then happy wife happy life.
Just so long as you are safe and comfortable

Philip

Angelina I am now 5 days in and no sign of getting out. I know I have been spending my energy on my wife. She seems to be liking it.

Angelina

Philip I am now 5 days in and no sign of getting out. I know I have been spending my energy on my wife. She seems to be liking it.

that sounds good and remember that you are not doing without completely, hopefully your wife will take care of your sexual needs. 😉

Igor

The problem is any cage without PA can get out of it

Philip

Igor I don't think my wife would approve if I was to pull out of it. I would end up getting put in to a full belt.

Philip

Angelina I do know that my wife will take care of me. The only thing has surprised me so far is the initial duration. No build up learning how to wear the cage. 2 hours one day, 4 hours the next day. None of that I was put in and that was it.

I do think I might get out on Monday but more likely Tuesday.

Angelina

Philip The only thing has surprised me so far is the initial duration. No build up learning how to wear the cage. 2 hours one day, 4 hours the next day. None of that I was put in and that was it.

that's hard, of course, but since you're not permanently locked but only for a certain time and your wife can let you out for sexual adventures, that could be ok. a short training session would have been better anyway

LazyGoat

@Philip, you've already been wearing a cage, although it was some time ago. Once you've been accustomed to a cage, you can get used to it again very quickly. That's how it's been for me atleast...
Like driving a bicycle! 😅 Once you learn it, you can't really forget it!
I was thinking to get locked up again when my summer vacation is over on next week.

Philip

LazyGoat Yea i kind of guess it is like that. I was supprised how quickly i got used to it. Like i barly notice it most of the time now.

LazyGoat were you locked up in the past?